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I am 19 years old and last night was the first time I was supposed to have sex, I had a hard time getting an erection, but right as I put the condom on and tried to penetrate, I lost my erection. I am sure that this wasn't caused by performance anxiety(at least not on a conscious level) because I'm in a loving relationship and our foreplay lasted for over two hours very much at my gf's pleasure, so it made me confident. I admit that as of age of 13 I'd watch porn very frequently and masturbate at least once a day. For the past month(since our relationship began) I ain't watched porn at all, but still masturbated once a day. I never thought I'd lose my erection, so 30 hours before our first intercourse I masturbated 3 times, last time about 8 hours before the real thing, because I was foolish enough to think that I won't have any problem at all to get hard, I was only afraid that I might come too quickly, that's why I did the masturbation thing(irony).
I might have a case of porn induced ED but I am wondering if masturbating 3 times in such a short time span before sex could have caused my problem? I plan on quitting masturbation(porn is already out of question, I feel bound to my girl and find porn disgusting nowadays, actually).
PS: I did have a case of severe anxiety/depression about two and a half years ago and I do stress from time to time, but I'm in a bliss when with my gf, and generally I lead a healthy lifestyle, I lift weights for four years(supplement free), I avoid junk foods as well. And I do have rather frequent morning erections without any physical stimuli at all, I can get rather rock hard without porn.
I admit I'm a bit frightened, but at a same time I sincerely hope that this is a simple issue that does not require me visiting a doctor of some sort.
Thank you very much for taking time to read this, and I apologize for this lengthy thread!
I am 19 years old and last night was the first time I was supposed to have sex, I had a hard time getting an erection, but right as I put the condom on and tried to penetrate, I lost my erection. I am sure that this wasn't caused by performance anxiety(at least not on a conscious level) because I'm in a loving relationship and our foreplay lasted for over two hours very much at my gf's pleasure, so it made me confident. I admit that as of age of 13 I'd watch porn very frequently and masturbate at least once a day. For the past month(since our relationship began) I ain't watched porn at all, but still masturbated once a day. I never thought I'd lose my erection, so 30 hours before our first intercourse I masturbated 3 times, last time about 8 hours before the real thing, because I was foolish enough to think that I won't have any problem at all to get hard, I was only afraid that I might come too quickly, that's why I did the masturbation thing(irony).
I might have a case of porn induced ED but I am wondering if masturbating 3 times in such a short time span before sex could have caused my problem? I plan on quitting masturbation(porn is already out of question, I feel bound to my girl and find porn disgusting nowadays, actually).
PS: I did have a case of severe anxiety/depression about two and a half years ago and I do stress from time to time, but I'm in a bliss when with my gf, and generally I lead a healthy lifestyle, I lift weights for four years(supplement free), I avoid junk foods as well. And I do have rather frequent morning erections without any physical stimuli at all, I can get rather rock hard without porn.
I admit I'm a bit frightened, but at a same time I sincerely hope that this is a simple issue that does not require me visiting a doctor of some sort.
Thank you very much for taking time to read this, and I apologize for this lengthy thread!
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. Oh, and I don't think it was masturbating that caused this. Check this out and relax:
), so I think we'll sort it out soon enough. Big thanks once more! I can breathe easy now. PHEW.
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