this is effing horrible!

[Aya Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aya]

ok last night i was having foreplay with my gf... when i was trying to penetrate her(my eq was around 6! and dammit shes naked!), my dick wouldnt get hard! ive fit the condom right but when i released my hand it became flaccid! i couldnt penetrate because of this... fuck this shit, what am i supposed to do now? i mean, early on when she's giving me a hand, it was rock hard (eq of 9).

omg am i doomed?

[Aya Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aya]

but i was just fine earlier, i got a raging rock and im ready to tear some ass up, im worried now.

[JonPop Retired Sr. Administrator PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close JonPop]

Have her put the condom on you, while she is stroking and squeezing your dick. Should solve that problem. (jP

[JohnSmith011 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JohnSmith011]

JP is defiantly right and if it doesnt have her give you head then put it on if that doesnt fix it idk what will except viagra LoL =P

[b123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close b123]

When i go to put on a condom my erection goes down

what does help is having sex without a condom for a few seconds then taking your penis out then putting on the condom helps me.

[cowboy Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cowboy]

It's no fun squeez'n your dick into a tight condom. Especially when you let it go and it snaps! Trojan Magnum's aren't all that much bigger than average and a hell of a lot more comfortable AND easier to put on. Don't know your spec's, but Magnum's are not just for those with a 10" whang. In fact, I don't think they'd fit a 10 incher. Besides, as long as it stays on it's ok if it slids around a bit, even adds a bit to the experience considering you're wearing a "rubber".

Does anyone call them rubbers, or just us old farts?

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Maybe you just weren't in the mood. I had that issue once and got very annoyed with myself. Just ate her out and sulked for a while. Also, like cowboy said, I use Magnums. Not huge or anything, but they fit very well. Try that. Also helps if you have her suck you while you open the condom. I know that no matter how horny I am, opening those things is always a turn off...

[Aya Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aya]

i used premiere ultra thin!

update: i dont want to sound like a commentator in a basketball game but we're done, shes upstairs sleeping. fuck it, i had it well fit, when im penetrating her (90% erect), it just turns into marshmallows like 50% erect. the hell with this? its not like this a couple of days ago. i just PE'd yesterday(tuesday) and monday, sunday and saturdays were rest days but i still continued warming up and giving it a pull.

also, i noticed that i have veins that are colored purple, some tiny veins near the glans were red. i dunno if this is the reason why im lacking sensation in the shaft though.

weird that im not that aroused...

[Aya Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aya]

Sorry pal i was joking being completely untruthful, I don't know why i apologise. Didn't mean to get you worried, can't believe you believed that lol sorry. I'm sure it's nothing major and something that could be sorted through some kind of PE. Private message a mod maybe

haha. you got me there buddy
anyway, im giving this a rest but warm water soaking shall continue everymorning tho. i wont kegel. i noticed that after a day of kegeling my erection quality degrades.

[E_Weazy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close E_Weazy]

Judging by how you are reacting, it is clear you are very nervous and worried about this situation.

Don't... its easy to say, but thats probably the main reason why you were getting soft. People need to just understand that sex is something to be enjoyed, not an activity that is DO or DIE. If the partner you are with understands that you are trying, in most cases it should not be a problem.

Some fixes....

1. Do you masturbate a lot? If the answer is yes, then maybe withhold from doing this for a couple days or more, notice how if you do, by the 2nd to 3rd day you are a raging horn dog?

2. Once again, relax don't put so much pressure on yourself, maybe start with some foreplay like she does for you, and explore the other tools of your sex life: the fingers and the tongue.

3. Lastly, you could try eating foods that are said to be vasodilators, such as ginger, or even cinnamon. If you search up "erection tea" you should find quite a popular drink among the members here that have given it good reviews.

I hope these help, and I hope you have fun with sex

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Maybe you weren't in the mood. I can tell by reading your posts that you are totally psyching yourself out right now. Shit, what you experienced happens to all men at some point. My girl the other day was giving me some great fuckin' head...........I mean, it felt GREAT! But, for some stupid reason, I lost my wood. I didn't worry, I just lubed it up, put her on all fours and fucked her ass doggie style and got solid wood and fucked her good and hard till we both exploded in orgasmic bliss.

When that shit happens bro, you just role with it. Don't beat yourself up over it and for God's sake, don't blame PE for it. This shit just sometimes happens.

[Aya Member Find all posts View Profile Close Aya]

thanks for the uplifting messages guys now im all tears lol. what a great community.

maybe i just pussied out but hey, i just gave her 2 consecutive orgasms and shes so happy with it. now, im looking for this supplements that has ginseng. ive read that ginseng makes a hard wood. maybe ill just try it and enjoy having fun with my girl

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I think you are all missing the obvious i have both good news and bad news. Dude your dick grew.... condom don't fit no mo. Time to get a bigger condom. So what if it slides a bit.

[cowboy Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cowboy]

They still make those lambskin condoms? They gave a lot more sensitivity, but it was like slappin' a cold wet washrag on your dick right when you needed it the most! Brr...! Probably got outlawed by fuckin' PETA or something.

ANYWAY! Sooner or later, we (you guys, I already have) are going to experience this exact same thing. Shit happens. No big deal, just the way things work sometimes. Follow Aya's lead and take care of your woman like you should. She'll take care of you when it's your turn. Most of all, don't obsess over it. Adding that bit of male guilt to all the other shit you'll carry around until you're 50 (at which point either wisdom kicks in or you just don't give a shit anymore) is too much!

Being imperfect is the human condition. Let it ride.

[joeygrower Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeygrower]

Oral Sex before penitration.