erecetile dysfunction

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Im confused. My bf doesnt get hard at all. When i first met him we had sex once and was never able to again. He has been on testosterone shots for over a year amd even 100mg viagara hasnt worked. Im not sure what else to do. Could his weight play a problem with it. Hea only 37 but he weighs over 300 pounds and has diabetes and high blood pressure. He doesn't really think its his wieght so hes not trying to lose it. Im to the point where im about to leave him. I love him but if he cant get hard then I will cheat. Im just confused at this point

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Hey tyonnaraddy!

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Sorry to hear about your bf's ED issues. Weight, diabetes, and high blood pressure are all major contributors to ED. The best advice I can give you is to have him get tested by a doctor. It is much better to treat te cause rather than the symptom.

In the meantime, There is a "band aid" solution he can try:

Constriction is an inexpensive way to maintain an erection. He can try using a doubled over 1/2 inch rubber band around the whole unit (behind the balls), but be sure to lubricate the band and his dick first. If this works, he should check out the Osbon tension band. It is very effective, but costs about $28 with shipping.Unfortunately, constriction causes the erection to loose sensitivity after 10 minutes and needs to be removed after 20 minutes to avoid injury.

It would also be a good idea to check out franktalk.org, a forum focused on ED issues.