Men and erections: I am concerned..any help on the issue?

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Men and erections:
Questions...

1. Do you notice that sometimes when you stand up with an erection you lose it?
2. Do you notice that sometimes your erections can be super hard and other times just hard?
3. Do you notice that sometimes you have more frequent night erections and morning than others?
4. Do you notice that with missionary style position it is possible to maintain an erection super-hard longer than woman on top styles?

This happens to me sometimes..but not always...does it happen to you and is it normal?

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1. I guess depends on the reason. If out of need to get up, like something that needs immediate attention, yes. If just repositioning, not really. I think it depends on if you maintain your focus on what's causing it.

2. Yes, sometimes, but they're usually pretty consistent. Again, focus can play a part.

3. Yes, that happens.

4. This may be due to preference of position, and the visual that is created.

If it's only sometimes, then I would say it's probably normal. When it happens, pay attention to where your thoughts are. If they're drifting, and your not really in the moment, that may be the cause. Our minds have a lot of control over our reactions, and if the upper head isn't into it, the lower head will follow.

Take a few moments to clear your head and relax before you get into it, that may help. Thinking about it too much before hand may very well create the issue by causing performance pressure. Just enjoy yourself, sex is fun, right?

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Thanks a lot.