Hello. First of all my name is Kostas, I am 19 years old and I am from Greece. I apologize if my English are bad.
Two years ago I had a prostate inflammation, which cured after about 5 months with pills given by my doctor and he said this didn't affect my erection.
I didn't have erection maintaining problems until 3 months ago, but there were times that I masturbated without having a full erection. I masturbated with porn since my 12-13. Usually once per 2 days, other times it could be every day. I am a virgin.
So, 2 months ago I was on bed with my girlfriend and we are about to have sex. (She had 3 partners before me, she is 19 years old too.) We started with a lot of foreplay and I had an erection almost all the time. But when it came to penetrating, it was suddenly gone. She went down on me and she couldn't get it up. I am physically and emotionally attracted to her, and everything she does to me, is amazing.
After 2 weeks, we were alone for a whole night and we tried. I kept thinking that the same thing will happen , and I couldn't get erect.
Then I cut off porn and stopped masturbating for about a week. We talked a lot about it and she helped me feel better. I show improvement, and she went down on me 2 times in a row and I was fully erected both of them. I thought I beat it. But I was wrong, I started watching some porn again, nothing unusual. Then the next time she tried I couldn't erect again. Now I have problems even when I am alone and keep thinking about her. I used to be able to achieve an erection that way but I can't do it now. I am away from porn 4 days now and stop masturbating.
I don't go to gym or anything but I exercise once a week. I am 60 kg, and I don't do the healthiest diet, but I eat fruits and vegetables. I sometimes sleep less than 6 hours at night, but I usually sleep around 8 hours.
It's driving me crazy cause we like each other a lot and we fit in everything in terms of our relationship, and our likes in bed are the same. It's a pity we can't have it.
So I come here and ask for any advice you could give me so I could pass that problem and continue living my life normally.
Thanks in advance, and I wish everyone that reads this, never has to experience the problem I do.
Kostas.
Two years ago I had a prostate inflammation, which cured after about 5 months with pills given by my doctor and he said this didn't affect my erection.
I didn't have erection maintaining problems until 3 months ago, but there were times that I masturbated without having a full erection. I masturbated with porn since my 12-13. Usually once per 2 days, other times it could be every day. I am a virgin.
So, 2 months ago I was on bed with my girlfriend and we are about to have sex. (She had 3 partners before me, she is 19 years old too.) We started with a lot of foreplay and I had an erection almost all the time. But when it came to penetrating, it was suddenly gone. She went down on me and she couldn't get it up. I am physically and emotionally attracted to her, and everything she does to me, is amazing.
After 2 weeks, we were alone for a whole night and we tried. I kept thinking that the same thing will happen , and I couldn't get erect.
Then I cut off porn and stopped masturbating for about a week. We talked a lot about it and she helped me feel better. I show improvement, and she went down on me 2 times in a row and I was fully erected both of them. I thought I beat it. But I was wrong, I started watching some porn again, nothing unusual. Then the next time she tried I couldn't erect again. Now I have problems even when I am alone and keep thinking about her. I used to be able to achieve an erection that way but I can't do it now. I am away from porn 4 days now and stop masturbating.
I don't go to gym or anything but I exercise once a week. I am 60 kg, and I don't do the healthiest diet, but I eat fruits and vegetables. I sometimes sleep less than 6 hours at night, but I usually sleep around 8 hours.
It's driving me crazy cause we like each other a lot and we fit in everything in terms of our relationship, and our likes in bed are the same. It's a pity we can't have it.
So I come here and ask for any advice you could give me so I could pass that problem and continue living my life normally.
Thanks in advance, and I wish everyone that reads this, never has to experience the problem I do.
Kostas.

Member of the Month Nov 2013
to the Gym Kostas! 

I'm similar to you. I can get an erection but it's harder to get one and the quality is not so good!
. I'm on my 24th day without watching Porn. I hope you can figure it out my friend!
On my 3rd day I had a dream about watching Porn! It's crazy right? :O I masturbated yesterday for the first time in 24 days but only to imagination and no Porn. It was much harder though
! Keep up the hard work my friend! I'm on 28 days now without Porn but I'm trying to get to 90!
Keep it up!
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