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    Hello. First of all my name is Kostas, I am 19 years old and I am from Greece. I apologize if my English are bad.

    Two years ago I had a prostate inflammation, which cured after about 5 months with pills given by my doctor and he said this didn't affect my erection.

    I didn't have erection maintaining problems until 3 months ago, but there were times that I masturbated without having a full erection. I masturbated with porn since my 12-13. Usually once per 2 days, other times it could be every day. I am a virgin.

    So, 2 months ago I was on bed with my girlfriend and we are about to have sex. (She had 3 partners before me, she is 19 years old too.) We started with a lot of foreplay and I had an erection almost all the time. But when it came to penetrating, it was suddenly gone. She went down on me and she couldn't get it up. I am physically and emotionally attracted to her, and everything she does to me, is amazing.

    After 2 weeks, we were alone for a whole night and we tried. I kept thinking that the same thing will happen , and I couldn't get erect.

    Then I cut off porn and stopped masturbating for about a week. We talked a lot about it and she helped me feel better. I show improvement, and she went down on me 2 times in a row and I was fully erected both of them. I thought I beat it. But I was wrong, I started watching some porn again, nothing unusual. Then the next time she tried I couldn't erect again. Now I have problems even when I am alone and keep thinking about her. I used to be able to achieve an erection that way but I can't do it now. I am away from porn 4 days now and stop masturbating.

    I don't go to gym or anything but I exercise once a week. I am 60 kg, and I don't do the healthiest diet, but I eat fruits and vegetables. I sometimes sleep less than 6 hours at night, but I usually sleep around 8 hours.

    It's driving me crazy cause we like each other a lot and we fit in everything in terms of our relationship, and our likes in bed are the same. It's a pity we can't have it.

    So I come here and ask for any advice you could give me so I could pass that problem and continue living my life normally.

    Thanks in advance, and I wish everyone that reads this, never has to experience the problem I do.

    Kostas.

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    to the Gym Kostas!


    Please https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html And focus on safety.

    PE can help you improve your penile health and increase EQ, by consistently following safety and exercise instructions.


    Porn is behind it all, it gave you performance anxiety among other things, I recommend that you quit porn completely, it may take you some time to detox, but with enough will power, you will recover form it, the following links should help you get a better understanding of how porn negatively affects you and how to quit, so please read ahead.


    Adolescent Brain Meets Highspeed Internet Porn

    Don't RELY on porn for an erection!

    Greetings from the Fairy Pornmother

    Therapeutic Help For Porn Addiction


    The Detraining Effect: Understanding and Reversing Negative Habits To Improve Erection Quality and Sexual Confidence: Part 1

    The great porn experiment! - Porn leads to ED.

    Porn Detox - Join In

    Porn causing my Premature Ejaculation?

    The Porn Myth

    Advantages of quitting porn

    The AP90 (Anti-Porn)


    Also please read the following threads.
    https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...ity-411-a.html

    https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...le-orgasm.html



    Good luck!
    MrB8
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    Last edited by MrB8; 03-21-2014, 10:32 AM.
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    • #3
      Good luck Kostas! I'm similar to you. I can get an erection but it's harder to get one and the quality is not so good! . I'm on my 24th day without watching Porn. I hope you can figure it out my friend!

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      • #4
        Hello again, thank you for all the articles. I've read them all and from sunday night I started a no fap no porn session I am on my second day. I only let my girl touch me. I'll try to inform you every now and then. At the 1st day, I had no mood to fap nor watch porn. Second day I was home with my girl and she gave me a blowjob, I had blood flow it went full size, but it was not hard. I'll keep you informed whenever I can.

        Thanks a lot Marcos, let's get rid of that 2D, and train our organs be ready for the real thing. Good luck to you too.
        Kostasdante
        Junior Member
        Last edited by Kostasdante; 03-27-2014, 02:29 PM.

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        • #5
          Just woke up on day 3, and something weird happened. I dreamt about a porn scene. The weird part is I can't recall seeing that scene in the past. Maybe my mind made it up. But I woke up with morning wood after a long time. Mood is not sexy at all at the moment. I'll keep you informed.

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          • #6
            Your welcome Kostas! Yeah me too my friend!! On my 3rd day I had a dream about watching Porn! It's crazy right? :O I masturbated yesterday for the first time in 24 days but only to imagination and no Porn. It was much harder though Good luck Kostas and keep in touch!

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            • #7
              Welcome to the gym! You are at a good site that has a lot of information and lots of support.

              Definitely stop all porn and masturbation. As you have over done it for years, it's going to take a long time to retrain your brain and penis to get hard without porn or your hand.

              Doing the routines in the forums will help you with your issues. It sounds like you have a good girl that is willing to wait for you. You may want to show her this site so she can understand more about it and to make sure that she knows that it's not her.

              If she wants to help you, she can visually stimulate you while you are jelqing and edging. Or you can edge inside of her. By using vagina to retrain your brain, it may help you out faster.

              Be consistent and patient. You are still very young an this is an easy problem that can be fixed.

              Good luck!
              I will never apologize for being me. People should apologize for asking me to be anything else.

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              • #8
                Day 4-5 passed without any news. Day 6 my girlfriend came to my home and she gave me 2 blowjobs, where I was rock hard on both of them. It was the first time she saw me like this, and she said "Thank the people on the forum for me, and don't you dare touch yourself or watch porn again".

                Thanks for all the tips and support I have a very good progress. I will keep you informed!
                Kostasdante
                Junior Member
                Last edited by Kostasdante; 03-30-2014, 06:11 PM.

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                • #9
                  Great news Kostas!! Well done ! Keep up the hard work my friend! I'm on 28 days now without Porn but I'm trying to get to 90!

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                  • #10
                    Way to go, I am 1 month clean but my libido went down for other problems anyway xD---
                    "Girth over length :D "

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                    • #11
                      Just finished day 10 and I have no news. I decided to try and get a hard-on by fantasizing about my girlfriend today, and try to put a condom on and see if the hard-on stays. I'll update this post when I've done it.

                      Thanks chungungo, way to go. And hope your problems get solved quickly.

                      And of course way to go Marcos! You are keeping my hopes up from the start, thank you.

                      EDIT: I succeeded. But I couldn't keep it hard for too long, only around 30 sec's.
                      Kostasdante
                      Junior Member
                      Last edited by Kostasdante; 04-02-2014, 05:05 PM.

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                      • #12
                        I have news on day 11. Woke up 2 times from a boner, and the third time I woke up it was all wet down on my pants.

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                        • #13
                          Good news about day 11 Kostas! I'm on day 33 without Porn and I'm seeing tiny little improvements but not much yet I think It will take some more patience to get better yet!

                          Well done on getting to Day 11 my friend GOOD PROGRESS Keep it up!

                          Also Kostas, for me its affected my psychologically too so you should try and keep busy during the day like doing sports that you like or going to the gym or playing on the playstation or something! this way you won't think about it a lot! It might not fix your erections but it'll give your mind something else to think about so it can fix properly

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                          • #14
                            I am here on day 16. Hello everyone.

                            Got 2 questions.

                            1. Is it okay if I edge sometimes but not cumming, just want to test my self, when I see I am not hard I immediately stop touching myself. Is it bad for the whole reboot? Should I stop it?

                            2. Is it okay that I engage at some sexual activities with my girlfriend? I want to pleasure her as long as this holds on. But after I do she usually wants to do it for me too and I can't resist the idea of her going down on me. Is it bad for the whole reboot? Should I stop it?

                            Marcos I couldn't come online these days I hope you are doing great and keep going on the marathon!

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                            • #15
                              Keep up the good work!

                              I see no reason to refrain from ejaculation, it is healthy to ejaculate two to three times a week, and training your body to not orgasm after edging/masturbation may lead to ED or DE in the future.
                              A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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