Questions Regarding Fantasy vs. Reality

[B.G.Brown82 Member Find all posts View Profile Close B.G.Brown82]

At first I believed that I had some form of ED. When I would try to begin my edging sessions I could not keep my penis fully erect for more than a couple of seconds. Maintaining an erection was extremely hard even while I would be stroking. Most times it was difficult to get an erection to begin with. Then I noticed that when I would sometimes slip into a fantasy, I would be fully erect in no time. Porn addiction is a problem I have also(I started a 90 day reboot yesterday). If I have thoughts about porn or actual pornstars it will have the same effect as those fantasies. I would be thinking back about some of my past sexual experiences and before you know it I would be rock hard. But when I needed to transfer the instant "fantasy erection"over to real sex when I really needed it, I couldn't even get hard in the presence of a naked woman. It seems as if my brain is totally screwed up. How is this possible? What should I do? I am totally confused.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

Having sexual fantasies is nothing new with those getting off of porn or in the practice thereof because the imagines are continually presented into the mind. The images in this case would be an unhealthy because porn gives a distorted version of what sex is and how two people in the real world usually have sex.
The more you get used to not watching porn other things will occupy that spot that you made and your thoughts and imaginations will change.

I will give you something to help that imagination. Think about what that female had been through in her young life to make her go to sexual related industry to get paid when most female and male porn stars don't really get paid that much at all.
Most dude who want to really get paid in porn end up having to do homosexual porn.
That's not a good imagination there, now is it?

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

You are doing the right thing by using your imagination. That is the best "porn". Once you stop watching porn all together, you will notice your erections will be harder and last longer.

Keep up the great work!