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    Hi guys, this is my progression thread . Right now I'm on my 24th day without PORN, MASTURBATION AND ORGASM . So far I have noticed only a tiny difference but the situation is almost the same However, there is a lot more days to go! Tomorrow will be the first time I masturbate in 24 days but I'm going to use my imagination only! I'm scared this will interfere with my progress but I'm sure it will be ok . Its hard to avoid Porn nowadays. Even when your just surfing on the internet there's always some half naked women some were but I'm glad I've not looked at porn! Please post your progress on here too if your in a similar situation I will keep all my progress on reports on this page. Thanks for your help . I've noticed my libido up and down since quitting porn so I hope this is just a big detox!

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    Good luck!
    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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    • #3
      Same here man. Going to quit porn for good and try not to masturbate for 90 days even though I'm sure I'll fail. The main goal is just to not watch porn and hopefully I'll have my libido back in 90 days. Hopefully sooner. Porn doesn't even turn me on much anymore and I don't get a 10 eq with it. I was going to make a progress thread too but maybe we can just share this one.
      Started at: 6.9 Bpfsl
      Currently at: 7.25 Bpfsl / 6.875 Bpel / 4.6 MG
      Goal: 7.5 Bpel / 7.0 Nbpel / 5.5 MG

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      • #4
        I havent watched porn for 3 days and I haven't masturbated in 2. I wear my phallosan forte extender every night so that helps because I can't jack off to porn with it on.
        Started at: 6.9 Bpfsl
        Currently at: 7.25 Bpfsl / 6.875 Bpel / 4.6 MG
        Goal: 7.5 Bpel / 7.0 Nbpel / 5.5 MG

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        • #5
          Thanks MrB8 I'll let you know how I get on!

          Nice to meet you WantABiggerPennis! And GOOD LUCK sir! I'm on my 24th day but I found the first few days very tough! Try not to spend a lot of time on your computer because things may tempt you! Let me know how you get on and feel free to post your progress on this thread! Good Luck!

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Marcos19 View Post
            Tomorrow will be the first time I masturbate in 24 days but I'm going to use my imagination only!
            Congrats on the restraint! You have the right idea by using your imagination. That is ultimately the best porn you can "watch". PE is a slow progression. Don't get discouraged and keep up the great work!!
            I will never apologize for being me. People should apologize for asking me to be anything else.

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            • #7
              Thanks Mrs. workin_4_it! I masturbated this afternoon without Porn for the first time in a while! I managed ok but I felt the whole time I couldn't get that really high arousal feeling? And I tried to think of things I've seen during the day in my mind but I really struggled to paint a clear picture of it in my mind I think the only reason I managed ok was because I hadn't gone in a while. However, after finishing I didn't feel the guilt and sadness I had after watching Porn. How many times a week would you say its ok to masturbate? I don't want to go no more than once in a day and maybe 2 or 3 times a week max? Thanks fro your reply

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              • #8
                Two to three times a week is okay, and it is to be expected that you didn't find it easy to maintain high arousal without porn, as you are still rebooting, your brain just needs more time to detox.

                Also anxiety is a factor, you keep thinking of it, and approaching it as a project, edging/masturbation should not be regarded as a task.

                Your imagination will grow over time, don't give up, you are making progress.
                A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                • #9
                  Thanks MrB8 . Yes your right, less time on the computer and time to cram in even more fitness and study! Have you got any ways to keep it off your mind to reduce anxiety as well? Thanks my friend

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Marcos19 View Post
                    Thanks MrB8 . Yes your right, less time on the computer and time to cram in even more fitness and study! Have you got any ways to keep it off your mind to reduce anxiety as well? Thanks my friend
                    When you edge/masturbate, try not to stress, its not a performance, focus on the pleasant sensations and fantasize, the more you make it like a process or a mission the less you will be into it, it is not a job.
                    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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                    • #11
                      Thanks for your help again my friend! I'll keep my progress posted, thanks!

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Marcos19 View Post
                        Thanks Mrs. workin_4_it! I masturbated this afternoon without Porn for the first time in a while! I managed ok but I felt the whole time I couldn't get that really high arousal feeling? And I tried to think of things I've seen during the day in my mind but I really struggled to paint a clear picture of it in my mind I think the only reason I managed ok was because I hadn't gone in a while. However, after finishing I didn't feel the guilt and sadness I had after watching Porn. How many times a week would you say its ok to masturbate? I don't want to go no more than once in a day and maybe 2 or 3 times a week max? Thanks fro your reply
                        It's going to take awhile to retrain your brain to know what will arouse you now that you are not visually watching anything. The more you use your imagination, the easier it will be. I would do it a few times a week. Just don't go overboard. You want to make sure you don't have any issues when a female is involved because you have been dependent on your hand. I'm glad that you didn't feel guilty, that means that you are on the right track!!

                        You've got this!!!! =)
                        I will never apologize for being me. People should apologize for asking me to be anything else.

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                        • #13
                          Thanks soo much Mrs.Workin 4 it!! Ok i'm going to aim for 2 times a week maximum! I have seen much of a change so far but hopefully in another 24 days I can see a good difference I'll keep my progress on here! Thanks ^^

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                          • #14
                            Almost completed day 27 without Porn Libido seems very low though and no erections at all through the day and no morning wood Strong urge to watch Porn to see if everything is working ok and feel very on edge however, managing to keep away from it!

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                            • #15
                              28 days (4 Weeks) Completed

                              That's without watching or looking at Porn. And I've only masturbated once but to my imagination!
                              Not many results at all yet. Libido seems to be up and down all the time. For example yesterday extremely low and today a bit higher. No morning woods at all in maybe a full week now too Only seem to get an erection when I fiddle round with it but I guess my brain is detoxing still. Hope it doesn't last too much longer it's quite scary. Anyhow 62 more days to go

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