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[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

I like what you said 29403THIEDKE , but you've already waited 1 year, start doing your utmost right now, and be prepared to fight for explanations if the ur tries to tell you it's all in your head..
Your flaccid problem could be hard flaccid (have a look in the forum). But then it is also the same symptoms as when you're erect, it surely is all down to the same reason, find out what it is.

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Lol what the fuck?

How hard were you jamming it in there? Jesus dude.

No one here is going to be able to tell you anything. If you aren't trolling then you need to go get an xray and MRI right now.

LOL I was going H.A.M in that pussy bro, she was wet as hell and didnt even kno I came out until it popped back. My ex, she like it hardcore and rough. Just now, with my new GF I'm having this problem and shes not getting my best sex and I hate that I cant finish with her, but its like I get more numb when I'm about to cum and then I dont, but I can stay hard as long as I'm JO tho, but I dont even do that much. She said this morning after I failed to cum again that maybe I should JO sometimes that maybe it would help me stay hard with her
. IDK, maybe maybe not, maybe just do some edging

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Lol what the fuck?

How hard were you jamming it in there? Jesus dude.

No one here is going to be able to tell you anything. If you aren't trolling then you need to go get an xray and MRI right now.

Trolling? I aint no damn troll and we aint under a damn bridge! LOL I know I need to get that done, but I find comfort being able to talk with yall about my problems and it does help my mind so...

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

I like what you said 29403THIEDKE , but you've already waited 1 year, start doing your utmost right now, and be prepared to fight for explanations if the ur tries to tell you it's all in your head..
Your flaccid problem could be hard flaccid (have a look in the forum). But then it is also the same symptoms as when you're erect, it surely is all down to the same reason, find out what it is.

I'm seeing a dr next week, hes a Hollistic dr but hes been mine for years and has helped me with lots. Hoping he can help me, just wish it was sooner.

[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

Great make sure you tell him everything , including the hard rough jamming (he needs to clearly know the cause) .
Insist, don't take "it's all in your head" for an answer, also ask for a way to see an urologist without paying 500 $.
Done with the tutorial, good luck!

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Got into it last night with my GF over this problem and the lack of sex. I asked her why she hasnt been trying to have sex with me or make any moves towards me, she said because she feels akward when I cant finish. I took that the wrong way she said, but I blew up on her and she left. She did come back home though and we talked about it. While I was yelling at her about it, I said to her that maybe if she tried more and made me feel more comfortable about my issue instead of more weird about it. When she came back and we talked, she said that she is going to be more affectionate and help me as much as she can with this. We tried this morning, but I couldn't stay hard, it hurt and was numb and didnt cum. UGH! I want my good ole hard cock back man! Next week I see a DR though, maybe we can find something out..

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Great make sure you tell him everything , including the hard rough jamming (he needs to clearly know the cause) .
Insist, don't take "it's all in your head" for an answer, also ask for a way to see an urologist without paying 500 $.
Done with the tutorial, good luck!

yea, Im gonna do some research on it, maybe I can find one

[popol5169 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close popol5169]

I actually meant ask your doctor about how you could find an urologist, he will have a solution.

I understand your massive frustration. It sounds more like you were yelling at your penis and not her (she doesn't deserve it right?)

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

I actually meant ask your doctor about how you could find an urologist, he will have a solution.

I understand your massive frustration. It sounds more like you were yelling at your penis and not her (she doesn't deserve it right?)

no, she didnt deserve that, she deserves my best, but I dont feel Im giving that to her when I cant finish or it hurts to bad

[GoingForGold Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GoingForGold]

You shouldn't be having sex if it hurts at all. If it's hurting to bad, you need to fix your dick first. What Dick Whammy has suggested is good advice. You need to rehabilitate your wiener patiently and carefully with light stretching, massage, and erection quality work, like edging.

[JurassicBone Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close JurassicBone]

Sounds like you have a sever penile fracture, dude you need to see a doctor.

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

I tried JO again, I finished but it took forever and I kept going limp, and when I came it hurt kinda and was kinda itchy after too. I see where it jammed and where it bent, there is some bruising. After that, and even now im hurting on the left side of my penis and pelvic area...

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

Im gonna start taking palmettoplex today. My Dr thinks maybe along with hurting myself that I may have an infection and it may be my prostate thats infected... Who knows, I'll keep yall posted if anything gets better or worse. Do see my Dr next week so Im hoping I can find out the underlying problem...

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I agree that some of it is a mind thing. I do worry and stress about my loss, the pain, not pleasing my new GF enough, my job, bills, her leaving me like my ex wife did, or her doing me bad like all the rest, I try tho, not to but it is so damn hard not to worry!

You've got your laundry list of worries. It's a lot. Take it from me, you mind works in the background,,,,it doesn't really let you know in advance that it's about to KILL THAT ERECTION!!!

I think about my mind quite often,,AND,,,my mind doesn't like that!!!

Quick story for ya......Last night-

My gal and I were getting ready to play around. My leg kills me most of the time and THAT ALONE is enuff to blow the entire mood. So I'm not erect or anything right,,,,,,and I absolutely do NOT have that aroused feeling running thru my blood......but nonetheless I head down south to have a meal and please my gal.

Here's the kicker: I'm down there and nearly the moment my tongue starts going to work,,,,,,,I had a visitor!! I got hard within a minute or so and still no aroused feeling yet. My mind,,,in the background,,,,got me pumped up and ready to go whether I liked it or not!! Of course if I would have had bills or "woes" in my head,,,,it would have probably reflected on that too. But even when WE THINK there is nothing going on in our minds,,,,there is. We do NOT have absolute control.............and I wish I did!!! I wish I could just turn it all off on occasion. So that is why I say that your mind has A LOT to do with it. I try to outsmart my mind on occasion,,,but it freakin' knows!!! Make friends with your mind and you may be able to strike up an agreement!!! (do you think it heard me......LOL)

[9TeXaS0BaD3BoY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 9TeXaS0BaD3BoY]

You've got your laundry list of worries. It's a lot. Take it from me, you mind works in the background,,,,it doesn't really let you know in advance that it's about to KILL THAT ERECTION!!!

I think about my mind quite often,,AND,,,my mind doesn't like that!!!

Quick story for ya......Last night-

My gal and I were getting ready to play around. My leg kills me most of the time and THAT ALONE is enuff to blow the entire mood. So I'm not erect or anything right,,,,,,and I absolutely do NOT have that aroused feeling running thru my blood......but nonetheless I head down south to have a meal and please my gal.

Here's the kicker: I'm down there and nearly the moment my tongue starts going to work,,,,,,,I had a visitor!! I got hard within a minute or so and still no aroused feeling yet. My mind,,,in the background,,,,got me pumped up and ready to go whether I liked it or not!! Of course if I would have had bills or "woes" in my head,,,,it would have probably reflected on that too. But even when WE THINK there is nothing going on in our minds,,,,there is. We do NOT have absolute control.............and I wish I did!!! I wish I could just turn it all off on occasion. So that is why I say that your mind has A LOT to do with it. I try to outsmart my mind on occasion,,,but it freakin' knows!!! Make friends with your mind and you may be able to strike up an agreement!!! (do you think it heard me......LOL)

I used to be able to just shut my mind off and not think about anything, not even the girl laying next to me and I felt so much better and clear headed. I still had the same problems as I do now, just I knew how to not worry. I am fucked up in the head from being hurt by women I thought would never do me like that so Im sure that has a lot to do with my mental. I try and not think of anything when Im about to have sex with my babe, except how beautiful she is.

We went at it again last night. Even though I'm hurt down there and cant stay hard or even get to my full size, she still tried and she made me feel comfortable about the situation. She knows it hurts and Im weak there but she still was there for me, that did help my mental a lot. I was hard before we had sex, and while I was going down on her, I lost my erection. I wasnt worrying about going limp or it hurting or anything, but then I did and I lost my hard. I kept trying to get hard, but worrying about it caused me to not get it back right then. I did though and we went at it for a bit, but I didnt finish the first round cause I went limp and I was so numb there, but she didnt get up and walk away, she stayed and helped me get it back and I did and I did finish. It hurt though, when I came. It felt like it was stopped up. While I was having sex all I could think about was the loss of size and me not as hard as I used to be and I run out of breath fast as hell too. I dont know why cause Im in damn good shape and I dont smoke cigs or drink.