Technique for more erection control and higher EQ

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One thing I try to do as much as possible before a good edging session, is to get rock hard without touching my penis. I do this to avoid becoming too dependent on physical or visual stimulation (so there's also no porn involved in this). Basically I am triggering an erection by using a little imagination and my penis muscles.

The key to doing this is to be calm, focus your mind, and eventually using your penis muscles to get your erection up even higher. It's a very satisfying exercise, and in the long run you will be able to trigger yourself into getting a raging boner within seconds.

I find that by doing this you:

• Force yourself to be calm and focused
  This is very important, as it creates a whole different experience than simply jacking away (to porn). It makes everything a lot more pleasurable.
• Increase your erection quality
  Erections will get harder, because you are fully focused on your penis and your 'mind-penis connection' will improve a lot (for lack of a better description)
• Learn to control your erection
  Try experimenting with your erection levels by getting rock hard, then let it go down a bit,then up, etc. You will learn the best way to control your erection, so you will be in control, which leads to the next point:
• Become more confident about your erection
  When it goes limp, you can simply get it up again. Eventually it won't ever go limp unless you want it to
• Are more 'aware' of your arousal levels
  Because you are very focused and relaxed, you will notice a lot more things happening to your body during the different states of arousal.

Any more thoughts on this? What do you do to get a higher EQ / more control?