Condoms and ED

[MusikAddikt Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MusikAddikt]

Alright so I've been in three three year relationships since high school with a little bit of fooling around in between. In each relationship my girlfriend was on birth control so I've had no need for the use of condoms. In between my first, second, and third relationships I had no problems using condoms though. Staying hard has never really been an issue for me. I recently broke up with my girlfriend though about 6 months ago and now whenever I'm trying to have sex with a girl using a condom I can't stay hard for the life of me.

So like when we begin messing around in the bedroom, I have no problem initially getting a 100% erection but then when I slip on the condom and we start having sex I go limp in like 2 minutes. What gives?

I'll watch porn, usually daily. Is this an issue? Should I stop all together? Is my condom too tight? I don't feel like I warrant using a magnum as I'm fairly average in length but when I'm using the regular condoms they are tight as hell. It's like if you tried to fit a water balloon over your finger, you know how it would be fairly snug, but then when you want to pull it off it stretches way out and then snaps off? It's a bit like that.

One thing I notice is that the area where the head of my penis is the part that's usually going limp. It's like the end is going limp. Then once it goes limp I can't get it back up because I'm fucken stressing out about it in my head.

Without a condom though I have no problem having sex and staying hard. This should be noted. Any advice or help is much appreciated.

[DirtyNerd Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DirtyNerd]

Hi mate i had the same thing before i started PE i hate condoms myself don't use them anymore it's really a mind thing because it's happened more then once the brain starts to think your going to go limp!

I think The Jelq Edging Kegals is great for EQ plus start edging with a condom on might help remember its all in your mind when it comes to condoms i have heard from others mates that have had the same thing so your not alone

as your a old member have you still been doing PE if you don't mind me asking... ?

[MusikAddikt Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MusikAddikt]

Hi mate i had the same thing before i started PE i hate condoms myself don't use them anymore it's really a mind thing because it's happened more then once the brain starts to think your going to go limp!

I think The Jelq Edging Kegals is great for EQ plus start edging with a condom on might help remember its all in your mind when it comes to condoms i have heard from others mates that have had the same thing so your not alone

as your a old member have you still been doing PE if you don't mind me asking... ?

Thanks I'll give that a try. No unfortunately I haven't been too consistent with my PE. I'll do it for like 2 days then I wont do it for a while. I would like to start making it a routine if I could stick to the program =)

ATM I usually wake up and do morning fasted cardio. Maybe I should try replacing my fasted cardio routine with a PE routine again.

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

Thanks I'll give that a try. No unfortunately I haven't been too consistent with my PE. I'll do it for like 2 days then I wont do it for a while. I would like to start making it a routine if I could stick to the program =)

ATM I usually wake up and do morning fasted cardio. Maybe I should try replacing my fasted cardio routine with a PE routine again.

Sounds like an obsession of sorts OP - e.g you adapted to sex without condom and so you expect that feeling, you probably think about it too much and this is what is killing the wood. Been there, done that.
Hate condoms.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

What is your girth?

[GymRatGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GymRatGuy]

Actually with me condoms choked my dick.
i was 5.125 MEG more at the base and lifestyle, Trojan (normal,ribbed, her pleasure) killed my erection. I became very self conscious about sex till girls let me go in bare and I would stay erect and have full pleasurable sex.

With my current gf 4ish years she was patient and let me try different sizes, when the ecstasy line came out I finally found a condom thin enough to let me have sex but with a deep ridge line at my base, now with my new girth I just use magnums lol

[oh_coach Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close oh_coach]

I had similar problem with condom and ED.
Although most ED has multiple causes work together, condom does seem a big element.

I read somewhere that this could fixed if you mind/your cock get used to wearing condom, so I got a big box of cheap condoms and use it every time I jerk off.
I jerk off at least once a day, and it was extra work at the beginning, but, less than a month, I/my cock got used to it pretty well to the point, not only I can put them on quickly but got comfortable wearing one.

Maybe if I continue, I will get a Pavlov's dog condition that my cock would get hard just opening the condom...which is very welcoming reaction. lol

[MrMuley Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MrMuley]

It might be as pegasus asks... are you positive that you're wearing the correct condom size? It's possible that it chokes you

[DirtyNerd Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DirtyNerd]

Just try set a side 30mins a day 5 days a week you will really start to notice a change!

Example

Warm-up 5-10mins
10mins of jelqing
10mins of Edging

Kegals are something you can do anytime of the day! just don't over do them or your EQ will drop
start with 25/day 2-3secs each work your way up to holding each for 10 secs

even if you miss a day or 2 don't give up it's something you can always pick up!

[Orome Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Orome]

Could be a fit problem. I have big issues with condom sizing because I'm very girthy at the base and most condoms taper off and get smaller at the base. Are you the thickest in the head, shaft, or base?