Having very difficult time...went to dr.

[jgs Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jgs]

I posted last week about my problem. Last week my erection was fine and then like a light switch it went away and I did not suffer any severe injury ( except my 4 year old hit me in testicles last week) but was able to achieve erections for a coupe days after.
My penis has been lifeless for the last couple of days. My testicles are hanging down more than usual and the skin is musher on penis and testicles compared to just last week. My libido is completely gone. Because of the stress I am under, I almost feel lifeless. I don't joke around anymore at work, I am not eating properly, and I haven't had a good night sleep in a week. I was able to ejaculate 2 times this past weekend but it was very very difficult and erection was 75 percent compared to before. My penis and testicles hang down usually and I don't think I am getting any nighttime erections. I definitely don't get any during the day spontaneously or in morning.
i am 39 years old and ok health. I exercise regularly but I have had high cholesterol and elevated diabetes (pre diabetic range). I am not on any meds for these issues just dr. Is watching.
i went to dr yesterday and I had a prostate exam. He diagnosed me with prostititis and he prescribed me with antibiotics. I asked if I should lay off ejaculation either sex or masterbation and he said no because one of the ways to heal prostititis is to ejaculate.
I was a little more relaxed finally when I came back from doctor and I wanted to try masterbating and nothing happened. Absolutely limp. I went to sleep very frustrated and I woke up at 130 am to pee. I tried again this time with porn and I was able to achieve half erection but quickly went away as soon as my mind wandered so I got frustrated again and stopped.
i am laying in bed shaking nervously because I don't know if this is physical, psychological, porn induced, etc......
i am so scared because my wife is out of town and the problem happened as soon as she left and she returns tomorrow. I hope this is curable. I know I have a long journey ahead. Why did this happen to me? I have never had a problem ever before getting an erection?
i know I posted before sme story a couple of times but if there is anybody...anybody with similar story please please help and share how you overcame this if at all.
thank you very much for reading.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Do you think stress has anything to do with it? I would bet rum and cookies it has everything to do with it.

[Dangler Senior Administrator☼ Wizard ☼ White Tiger Award 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Dangler]

Can you, with any certainty, spell out what you think is the cause of stress.

I mean what is the 'big ticket' stress item ?

[GymRatGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GymRatGuy]

You said the problem started with your wife leaving and that you are scared cause she is returning soon..?

It could be that you miss your wife.
Sounds dumb but the mind influences the body and with your main sexual desire away you could have lost interest in sex psychologically.

I say look forward to her return have sex with her and then tell us if it helped or not. Good luck bro!

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Minor ED caused by stress, cholesterol, and elevated blood sugars can bring on additional stress which further enhances the ED. Get your cholesterol and blood sugar under control and plan a relaxing encounter (orgasm should not be the goal) with your wife and see what develops.

[jgs Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jgs]

Thank you thank you for the responses. I am in a very dark place right now. For the life of me I cannot shake it. Like I said I was able to get erections and ejaculate 2/3 times over labor day week endbut it was very difficult. My last cholesterol check was very good (under 200) and I have been working out. Yesterday at doctors he did a urine sample that came back fine and he did a random diabetes finger prick test and It was 113 which was excellent he said.
I don't know what happened but prior to my ed I was experiencing a lot of stress and I noticed erection wasn't so great. Also I suffered from premature ejaculation so I was on this quest to figure that all out. I even tried a penis ring but that didn't do anything for me. But after I used ring shortly after I got hit in testicles but was still able to achieve erection.
What is really scaring me is that this is on my mind constantly and now I don't have any morning erections nor do I get a spontaneous erection at all during day. I have become more stressed, anxious and now I'm feeling very depressed.
It was like a light switch being turned off. One night I was with my wife then next morning erection completely went away.
Again thanks for reading.