Ejaculation issue?

[Dan93 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dan93]

I remember when i use to ejaculate, i use to have a heart beat feeling after i would. now i dont anymore, an im worried something is wrong? i do still get that pulsating feeling or spasm where it goes on an off when i ejaculate but im not sure if its that but i dont get that beat feeling. i do remember at one point that i had got it again some how like months back but it was the first since maybe over a year or two. what could be wrong?

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Arousal issue?

[Dan93 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dan93]

not sure, its just i remember when i use to ejaculate, i use to have a heart beat feeling right before i ejaculate an now i dont have that feeling anymore

[Dan93 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dan93]

i do still have a pulse feeling like spasm when i ejaculate.. its been a while since i last felt that feeling but its been months of that heart beat feeling idk.. do you get that heart beat feeling when you ejaculate?

[OnMyWayThere Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OnMyWayThere]

Sounds like you're just not orgasming as hard as you used to, tbh. Maybe try to extend the amount of time you spend masturbating and try using start/stop; that may help. I agree that this sounds like an arousal issue. I do get a sort of heartbeat feeling sometimes; just depends on how hard I orgasm/how horny I was before.

Also try drinking ginseng tea/a mix of ginseng and green tea. I drank some almost exclusively for a week and my libido went crazy, as did my orgasms.

[Dan93 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dan93]

interesting note onmywaythere! you werent the first to say that it has to do with how strong my orgasm is.. i do remember 3 years back, i use to always masturbate with a cloth or bed sheet an it alwys felt better then with my bare hand an now since i only do it with my bare hand, it doesnt feel as good an i would use a cloth or bed sheet an masturbate within a minute an have an intense orgasm unlike now, i go a min or two with my bare hand an just isnt as good of a feeling but of course, the cloth/sheet makes it more sensitive an sometimes i dont stroke the most sensitive spot on the penis with my bare hand as i would with the sheet/cloth but is it needed to do edgeing like stop an go with my bare hands to make it feel better the orgasm? is it natural that way?

[OnMyWayThere Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OnMyWayThere]

Stop and start definitely increases orgasm strength, as does time to orgasm. You're also older than you were before so there might be hormonal differences, and you're also probably way more used to mamsturbating so it's not as exciting.

Also, please try to use proper punctuation and capitalization in future posts; it'll dramatically increase their readability.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

I get increased heart rate during sex and when I orgasm. Depending on the night can be very fast. So I can't say for sure but think it's just your not as aroused, orgasm not as strong. Wouldn't be worried though because if it was something else I doubt it would be serious in anyway.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Definitely edge.

[Dan93 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dan93]

When you mean as does time, do you mean the longer i wait onmywaythere?

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

I get increased heart rate during sex and when I orgasm. Depending on the night can be very fast. So I can't say for sure but think it's just your not as aroused, orgasm not as strong. Wouldn't be worried though because if it was something else I doubt it would be serious in anyway.

Heart rate is supposed to go up during, and near orgasm, and during and shortly after orgasm. This is healthy, sympathetic nervous system ramps up during these times...you don't want an abnormally fast heart rate, but you certainly want your body to respond to stimulus!

[OnMyWayThere Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OnMyWayThere]

When you mean as does time, do you mean the longer i wait onmywaythere?

Yeah, by that I meant the longer you take to masturbate before orgasming. Longer periods between masturbation sessions may also help. How old are you, btw? That may be a factor.

[Dan93 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dan93]

im 22, so if i go a week or two without masturbating, how long should i masturbate, before i ejaculate?

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

im 22, so if i go a week or two without masturbating, how long should i masturbate, before i ejaculate?

Depends on a multitude of factors, you want to generate control, practice edging, practice general restraint....it depends on the speed of stroke - how/with what source of visual stimulation - and what you are trying to achieve.