Use it or lose it?

[Bigman13 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigman13]

First of all I'm sorry for making so many topics, it's just i hate this ED I have and I love all of you guys for being so knowledgable about it.

When I was 13-16, I had cement hard erections. When I was 16, I went back home and did not jerk off for TWO WHOLE YEARS. It was impossible to do so there, so I just stopped. My libido vanished, I think.

When I turned 18, I got a gf for the first time. We tried to have sex, and I couldn't maintain an erection for more than a minute. I'm 20 Now and the problem persists. Now do you guys think that by taking such a long break from sexual thoughts that I may have messed myself up?

Nowadays, if I don't masturbate for a week, they get 30% harder, so I'm trying not to do so. Thanks for your help everyone.

[migiola Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close migiola]

same story here, hard like a rock untill about 24 years, 30 now, nothing between. The worst part is that I didn't noticed when happened but recently wanted I had oportunity tu have sex with my gf and it wasn't hard enough and lasted only about 1-2 minutes before losing all strenght. When I masturbate it becomes tough only close to the end. When erects even with girl in my arms is not tough enough and I feel really ashamed of this.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

First of all I'm sorry for making so many topics, it's just i hate this ED I have and I love all of you guys for being so knowledgable about it.

When I was 13-16, I had cement hard erections. When I was 16, I went back home and did not jerk off for TWO WHOLE YEARS. It was impossible to do so there, so I just stopped. My libido vanished, I think.

When I turned 18, I got a gf for the first time. We tried to have sex, and I couldn't maintain an erection for more than a minute. I'm 20 Now and the problem persists. Now do you guys think that by taking such a long break from sexual thoughts that I may have messed myself up?

Nowadays, if I don't masturbate for a week, they get 30% harder, so I'm trying not to do so. Thanks for your help everyone.

Yeah, now what was the reason you stopped wanking? Why the two year hiatus from jerking off?

[Bigman13 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigman13]

I went back to my home country for two years, and let's just say it was impossible. There was 9 people living in a house, and I used the computer sparingly. I just lost all interest in it because I was working hard in school too. I came back when I was 18, and immediately found a gf. Then problems started. What should I DO????????

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I see tight quarters. Well edging is likely your best bet, but this may take a while a few months to rebuild EQ. So what country are you from?

[migiola Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close migiola]

in my case is not mental, it starts to erect but remains about 6-7, only when is close to ejeculation it becomes harder. After finding this problem I lost a lot of confidence in myself. Few days ago a really nice girl invited me for a drink and I had to refuse because i knew about this erection problem. I used to masturbate many years with pc porn average 1/day but alone didn't noticed about the problem. Now thinking back I realized that have been few years since I didn't seen it 10/10 as it used to be in the past. Only 30 years now and didn't lived my sexual life yet because of crappy education. Now that I started, discovering this problem really made me sad sad and even thought my life is over. Here I recover my morale to see I'm not alone and that with exercises I can restore strenght.

[Bigman13 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigman13]

So with jelqing it WILL restore strength? (hopefully) Because I don't wanna injure my penis

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

So with jelqing it WILL restore strength? (hopefully) Because I don't wanna injure my penis

I would work on building your erection first with edging and think about jelqing when you can get 100% erections.

[migiola Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close migiola]

thank you kingpole, now time to move to edging section of the forum