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[BelloMuakMuakMuak Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BelloMuakMuakMuak]

I was going to message a member privately, but maybe this can help you. This isnt so much of a question, but I've cut down to porn to only every other day. My EQ is great ranging from 7-10. My morning woods still occur, if not everyday, every other day. Even today with working third shift, I woke up to afternoon wood. But without porn I can't keep an erection without CONSTANT stimulation. I can still get it up by fondling my nutsack and massaging my tissues. (Been watching it since I was 14)

With that said, going two days without porn, did browse pornhub today, but exited the browser before succumbing to fapping away to unrealistic scenes.

How long does this PIED last? I understand everyone has its own DNA and body/circulation going on, but who here has had EQ downfalls through porn and began noticing better EQ without constant stimulation?
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[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

Give it at least a couple weeks or at least 4 days of no-fap - try to resensitize yourself to more 'realistic' scenarios..also use dopamine-boosters like Mucuna pruriens to help reboot the reward circuitry and then give yourself a training exercise - in other words ; train for diversity , focus on getting aroused by simple details of the woman in question / their body...instead of linear fantasies or specifics.

Train your brain to recognize not the 'reasons' for desire but the incentive and tactility...the emotional or semi-emotional connections must be preserved and re-booted!
Find yourself engaging in attachement but not 'callous lust' as in compulsive sexuality...it's hard to do sometimes ...but that's the best way...If you have to be compulsive - try to hook up with a girl or find a paid girl if worst comes to that.

[BelloMuakMuakMuak Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BelloMuakMuakMuak]

Give it at least a couple weeks or at least 4 days of no-fap - try to resensitize yourself to more 'realistic' scenarios..also use dopamine-boosters like Mucuna pruriens to help reboot the reward circuitry and then give yourself a training exercise - in other words ; train for diversity , focus on getting aroused by simple details of the woman in question / their body...instead of linear fantasies or specifics.

Train your brain to recognize not the 'reasons' for desire but the incentive and tactility...the emotional or semi-emotional connections must be preserved and re-booted!
Find yourself engaging in attachement but not 'callous lust' as in compulsive sexuality...it's hard to do sometimes ...but that's the best way...If you have to be compulsive - try to hook up with a girl or find a paid girl if worst comes to that.

I do smoke cigarettes a lot and drink once in a while. Like now, but I've been doing this for years and I think it's just the porn.

I will look into the mucana this weekend and try once again the no fap/porn for a few weeks. it just seems it'll take more than a few weeks. I would love to find a girl..but I've lost all social skills. I don't go to bars or hang out with anybody. Rather work on bars hehe. so meeting some one would be hard for me. Also the escort thing, which I did look into, seems uncomfortable.
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the other day me and this girl were hanging out in her room. I haven't hung out with a girl in almost 2 years. We talked and stuff, but I didn't feel there, like I felt nervous inside and uncomfortable, and she's a stripper/dancer! It wasn't her energy, and I became paranoid for no reason. The past year and half I've rarely socialized with anybody. Might be more, plus I haven't gotten any in that time. I felt more like writing and rapping. Now I still do and in that time have discovered that I can be beyond great if I can put my brain to it (I just have absolutely no entrepreneurship skills, I belong the studio writing and not out there)
the problem is that I suck at socializing with people. I'm better on these forums than with people. I can hold a conversation with random people. But other than that I don't see myself with a group of people socializing and conversing, ever. Let alone going up to a girl and asking her out for a cup of coffee or lunch.

I began looking at escorts. Decided that I couldn't do it, not that I can't, I just don't want to, it doesn't feel right. And Im the type who can compartmentalize, at least I would like to believe that. Just certain things don't sit well. Paying for an hour for a girls lips whose layed upon dozens and dozens of shafts doesn't seem appetizing.

[corageon Banned Find all posts View Profile Close corageon]

I began looking at escorts. Decided that I couldn't do it, not that I can't, I just don't want to, it doesn't feel right. Paying for an hour for a girls lips whose layed upon dozens and dozens of shafts doesn't seem appetizing.

Well if you think about it that way, then I feel ya...but tell them to brush their teeth - most of the good ones take care of themselves..well maybe not "most" but those whom have reviews usually do....
..but you don't have to kiss them lol.
Onto the money thing..yes , that's definitely the main obstruction...and it really depends on the area...some of them are complete crazy fucks and only for the urban - preppy-ghetto-zeal area's most have pimps..but some do not....

I won't go into too much more detail on here..but the bottom line is, yes , there are risks..but most of the time they are practically non-existent as long as you do your research.

I do smoke cigarettes a lot and drink once in a while.

The drinking could have something to do with it - nicotine and other chemicals in cigarette's can impair blood flow - so that all contributes!

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

It sometimes takes a leap of faith to break out of your comfort zone. I for instance was particularly shy and petrified of speaking in front of people. So, how did I approach this fear? It was senior year in college, and I applied to be a teachers assistant. I would give the lectures when the professor was too lazy to show up for class (which turned out to be often). Anyway, it forced me to give hour long lectures in from of undergraduate students in a big theater style lecture hall. You know, the kind that are half round and the professor sits at the bottom like a test tube rat and all the students are in the grand stands. I was petrified, but forced myself to do it. Know what, I'm better because of it. That's the bull you need to take by the horns. Nothing ventured, nothing gained and if you are or ever will be in sales, there is a saying - "you don't get anything unless you ask for it".

So, look for opportunities to practice your social skills. Converse with the cashier at the supermarket, chat with the waitress at the coffee house, Idol niceties on the elevator as your are heading up to your floor, baby steps lead to bigger steps that will help you break out of your shell. If you should stumble along the way, laugh it off on the spot, excuse your self and move on. Later on, you will look back and tell yourself that it was easier than you thought it would be.

Then again, if it is depression you are dealing with, seek guidance from a healthcare provider who can give you things to take the edge off. I did a year and a half on anti-depressants. Have been off them for 2 years now and don't think I will ever need them again.