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Hard flaccid, social problems
The worst experience happened to me recently. I entered my local internet cafe, where I have become quite friendly with the staff and am even working on a side project with one of ladies there (purely platonic) which has been very rewarding for my career. The people there have always been overly friendly. Another one of the ladies is often flirting with me, and one of the guys would send me text messages and discuss hobbies.
While I was standing waiting, there was an attractive young lady customer, dressed in a drugstore uniform, sitting very close to me. She caught my attention and I glanced once or twice. She didn't make eye contact so I just looked away. As the staff member came back and served her first, this customer took their order and stormed off loudly in an abrupt and rude way.
The staff member looked surprised by the customers reaction, and glanced at me, in surprise at what had happened. At first I didnt even know, but then I realised my shirt was partly up because it had shrunken a tad in the dryer.
Over the next couple weeks everytime I would go in there, the service I received went from worse to bad.
Now I am treated like a social outcast, and the project I was walking on which was going pretty good has been canned. Since no one will even raise the issue with me, I'm not even sure how to address it.
What would you say?
My story up until this point:
I'm a 25 year old male. I have had hard flaccid for about 18 months.
Symptoms are penis often hard and turtling or 50% erect.
It's been difficult but I thought I was managing to get by.
I quit daytime walking exercise.
I'm careful how I get around, I wear long shirts, 3 pairs of tight underwear.
My concern is that I will be seen as a pervert because of the medical problem.
My social life has deteriorated and life circumstances have led me to become more isolated.
I've been to a urologist, he thought it was all in my head, but later admitted it seems to be some new problem he didnt know about. I'm free of STDs but I do have tight hips/pelvis.
I lost one client/project due to this issue, I wasnt confronted, rarely are we over a social taboo, but took it on the chin and made an effort to improve my 'appearance'.
Sometimes it is exhausting always worrying how my appearance is. Some days worse than others.
I struggle with depression and anxiety and public appearances, especially walking long distances (90ft + ) is my nightmare.
While I was standing waiting, there was an attractive young lady customer, dressed in a drugstore uniform, sitting very close to me. She caught my attention and I glanced once or twice. She didn't make eye contact so I just looked away. As the staff member came back and served her first, this customer took their order and stormed off loudly in an abrupt and rude way.
The staff member looked surprised by the customers reaction, and glanced at me, in surprise at what had happened. At first I didnt even know, but then I realised my shirt was partly up because it had shrunken a tad in the dryer.
Over the next couple weeks everytime I would go in there, the service I received went from worse to bad.
Now I am treated like a social outcast, and the project I was walking on which was going pretty good has been canned. Since no one will even raise the issue with me, I'm not even sure how to address it.
What would you say?
My story up until this point:
I'm a 25 year old male. I have had hard flaccid for about 18 months.
Symptoms are penis often hard and turtling or 50% erect.
It's been difficult but I thought I was managing to get by.
I quit daytime walking exercise.
I'm careful how I get around, I wear long shirts, 3 pairs of tight underwear.
My concern is that I will be seen as a pervert because of the medical problem.
My social life has deteriorated and life circumstances have led me to become more isolated.
I've been to a urologist, he thought it was all in my head, but later admitted it seems to be some new problem he didnt know about. I'm free of STDs but I do have tight hips/pelvis.
I lost one client/project due to this issue, I wasnt confronted, rarely are we over a social taboo, but took it on the chin and made an effort to improve my 'appearance'.
Sometimes it is exhausting always worrying how my appearance is. Some days worse than others.
I struggle with depression and anxiety and public appearances, especially walking long distances (90ft + ) is my nightmare.
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