Low Sex Drive

[wand-extendio Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wand-extendio]

I've worried about this a little for years but i think it must be true.
I think I have a low sex drive, i'm 22 and rarely consider any woman i see a sexual object meaning i don't fantasies about them or only once a day.
I am rarely horny throughout the day. I don't think this is normal as others i know at least have twice the drive i do. Even on nights out i don't even think of a woman but from what i've heard it sometimes increases your drive. I am bi-curious but fantasies half as much about men, i am comfortable with it soi think this has little effect. I am sometimes easily stressed and think this may only add (not cause) to the problem.
I am considering seeing a doctor or a psychologist or am i just normal.

[Herbivore Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Herbivore]

I don't quite get it. You say you have no drive but you are posing this question, so you do have a drive? I think it just depends on whether you care or not. Decide and act on it.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I think you're young, busy, maybe worry about silly things, have a good perspective on life that there are other important things besides sex, no I think you're fine but what I think doesn'tmatter.It's what you think.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Yep, I agree with Cusp.

[wand-extendio Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wand-extendio]

i do want a better sex drive, a healthy one, but wondered if anyone else is in the same boat.
and i see it as a problem if further in life like some other men my drive decreases to non existent.

[funkman Member Find all posts View Profile Close funkman]

I'm 25. I live with 3 people the same age and sex as me. They are constantly on the pull having sex with at least one woman every or every other week. I however, cannot be bothered, I'm just not into that. I like the affection of a woman who actually cares, rather than a woman whose just out for my cock. That doesn't make me lame or a bit of a fag, it just means I'm happy being who i am. A lot of women i meet and speak to i don't find sexually attractive and i wouldn't even think about fantasizing about them! that doesn't make me gay, it just means i don't like ugly (to me) women.

[wand-extendio Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wand-extendio]

its not even that, i've never met a girl that gets me as excited in a conversation. no attraction to either sex just flacid it annoys me alot.

[keith Murphy Banned Find all posts View Profile Close keith Murphy]

Hello,
Don't worry about such a thing . you are young and fine so be perspective.....................be confident about yourself
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[alexr Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close alexr]

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[dejaview Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dejaview]

I don't quite get it. You say you have no drive but you are posing this question, so you do have a drive? I think it just depends on whether you care or not. Decide and act on it.

You are right he has drive but alas the car is going nowhere. I know many will say to go and seek medical advice. But sometimes it could be just that you are a late starter. Maybe putting alot of energy into thinking about the future such as work and where you want to be careerwise etc.
When you sort through all of that and reach 30, you might be surprised at how your libido is kickstarted by a newer and more confident perspective on life.