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I think all of it is starting to make sense now. Someone tell me if what I'm thinking is wrong. When I first started having issues, the first few days I could get 0 erections, no spontaneous erections, extreme anxiety up to the point where I had insomnia. Everytime I would talk to someone about my problem I would feel so relaxed, specially after crying. I would kiss my girl and would have a crazy boner without stimulation. I of course still thought something was wrong with me (maybe my first issue came from alot of stress since it was finals week at university). Anyways, during those first few weeks i would sometimes get random erections, but would get mega anxiety if I touched my dick to pee or showered and touched it. Everytime I would see a naked woman or some pics I had of my girl naked I would get anxiety alot of it. First thoughts would be why d idnt I get hard? Well cuz of the anxiety! So after a year of getting anxiety from looking a t porn or looking at my girl naked, like those events would cause me, well still causes me anxiety. Anyways, I noticed that even alone masterbating I would get anxiety when looking at porn or naked pics of my girl. But would get hard eventually after I would start breathing and not panicking. So now that I think back, I take a while to get into the groove with my girl BUT once I start I'm good to go for 2-3 sessions. And I feel so relaxed and good for the next day or two. Anyways, I can also eventually get erect if I play with my penis without porn but does take a while. Even when I think sexual thoughts I get some anxiety til this day. Interestingly enough i have the best sex when im at a hotel and noone can bother us and am not rushrd but have horrible sex inside a car where im not comfortable and also get serious anxiety , much much higher than in a hotel. So what I'm thinking of doing is just go and look at naked pics of my girl or go to porn sites and NOT panic or have anxiety. Even have sexual thoughts and if I don't get erect still don't panic. I should get desensitized to the fear...what do you guys think?????
In terms of affecting my libido, depression, and lack of morning wood do you guys think that this anxiety would be responsible for that? Supposedly have Low testosterone but could it be a result of the anxiety and depression I've had now?
I know u guys said it was anxiety since the beginning, but just know I just relaxed and relaxed and played with my penis not minding if it went hard or not and I did manage to get erect with no porn or no image in my head. Just simply mess with it.
Another thing that supports this possibility is that when I don't have sex or ejaculate for a good 5-6 days I have pretty good EQ. So this may be psychological after all. Any input
In terms of affecting my libido, depression, and lack of morning wood do you guys think that this anxiety would be responsible for that? Supposedly have Low testosterone but could it be a result of the anxiety and depression I've had now?
I know u guys said it was anxiety since the beginning, but just know I just relaxed and relaxed and played with my penis not minding if it went hard or not and I did manage to get erect with no porn or no image in my head. Just simply mess with it.
Another thing that supports this possibility is that when I don't have sex or ejaculate for a good 5-6 days I have pretty good EQ. So this may be psychological after all. Any input
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