Unmotivated, social anxiety, small penis, no women/woman

[Small&lonely Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Small&lonely]

I’ve recently made this new account after giving up on trying to fathom ever enlarging my penis as some of you may have seen on the introduction thread. Anyway, I’m planning to formulate one of the PEGYM’s 90 day routine’s because I can no longer keep looking down at myself anymore. There’s no way I can really express this stuff to anyone physically, I guess that’s the same for most of you other members too. Without it seeming like some poor me, emotion sympathy seeking cry baby, that’s not what I want any of this to come off as. I just can’t help but feel basically completely void of any confidence, or I don’t know, purpose I guess. Having a small penis doesn’t just effect me with girls, it really holds me back in the way I want to lead myself as a man. I have moderate to noticeable social anxiety because I constantly fear bumping into a girl or anything that could potentially involve a girl wanting to know me more, I never want to meet a girl, never, not like the way I am physically. I’ve recently started trying to socialise with some of my old high school friends after deciding to hibernate from people for 6 years, and the thing that had worried me most is that eventually they’d bring up the “lets go into town and talk to people and maybe even some girls” kinda thing, and I have no idea on how to let them know I’m not soo keen on doing that, I stopped hanging out with friends because I knew eventually as we got older, our male instincts would further develop, to start seeking a lovely hook up, which is what I’m desperately trying to avoid while I work on hopefully gaining something. I don’t want no monster dick, I just want to atleast achieve 6.5-7 inches, I’m just over 5 erect, 2.5 flaccid. I don’t have porn dick delusions, I’ve noticed my penis being small ever since I was a kid, which is before I knew porn even existed.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

You really need to work on the anxiety.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

... I just can’t help but feel basically completely void of any confidence, or I don’t know, purpose I guess. Having a small penis doesn’t just effect me with girls, it really holds me back in the way I want to lead myself as a man.

Let's be honest here, engaging in a PE routine and enlarging your erection will not fix your confidence issues. At least not in the way you think. If you think that a bigger erection will turn you into the man you want to be, you'll probably end up just experiencing the same anxiety and low confidence, just with a bigger erection.

That being said, there are positive mental aspects to engaging in any form of self-improvement. Trying for a bigger erection can be part of the self actualization process, but it will not be the only aspect.

The daily commitment and concentration required of a PE regimen will aid in developing some confidence. But you will have to do other things, too. Regular physical exercise. Study. And think positive.

... I don’t want no monster dick, I just want to atleast achieve 6.5-7 inches, I’m just over 5 erect, 2.5 flaccid. I don’t have porn dick delusions, I’ve noticed my penis being small ever since I was a kid, which is before I knew porn even existed.

You are not small. You are in the average range. Best to keep that in mind as you go along.

Be sure to read through all of the START HERE! stuff up there at the left.
Always be careful, mindful and consistent.

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Focus on what works. Some motivation is clearly there.
Move your body and express yourself.
Try to work on yourself step by step.
Obviously your dick isn't a problem in the real world. On the smaller side of average, true, but many people with the same size are happy as fuck.
Try to get a healthy outlook on reality beyond your experience and move towards that.

I just want to atleast achieve 6.5-7 inches, I’m just over 5 erect, 2.5 flaccid.

At least 6.5-7 is already huge and bigger than ~90% of people.
1.5 inches will take you 1+ years, most probably. Hiqh quality PE.
Doing the newbie routine and building on that could easily put you into mid average already.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Time to take control of your life and start socializing. I too lacked confidence due to my 4.5” NBPEL and remained a virgin until I was 26. That’s when I met my wife and have kept her satisfied with it for 40 years. I now look back on my early 20s as a waist of my prime sexual life.

[softee Member Find all posts View Profile Close softee]

Update on your situation OP?