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    long story short.
    mah deek stopped working completely when with my ex wife(we have casual sex sometimes because we both single and still have attraction which is obvious)

    shorter story long
    been married to her for 10 years.
    and been banging like rabbits for about 10 years without getting tired of eachother almost daily.
    and were still not tired, both of us jump on eachother (we just cant live together peacefully due to other reasons,)
    anyway at first I had no problem getting it up, actually had a problem getting it down
    but over the years her stupid unfiltered comments got to me
    shes a little uneducated when it comes to men and what we are exactly
    so she has an idea that my dick should be hard all the time just from being around her and should stay hard no matter what like porn star
    essentialy she thinks every dude is simply a brainless dildo that can fuck for days
    after trying to explain to her countless times that its not how that works, (for the most part)
    she didn't get it and still thinks dildo men are apes and simple wiring straight to dick

    anyway gradually I started having anxiety with certain positions then it kept adding up to pretty much now I have massive anxiety with her and it just goes limp for any reason possible.

    we do missionary and its done
    I put a condom on and its done
    song changes on tv and its done

    and it not working now adds to my anxiety even more and she is frustrated because she cant get the dick she used to get with me and throws more comments at me before thinking how it will affect me
    im not easily hurt by comments btw ( I lasted almost 10 years) but now I don't know how to get rid of them mo confidence is fucked

    but when I pump or do my "workouts" I have no problem staying rock hard for 4-5 hours
    I don't know if the anxiety go away with other girls or not but before her I never had a problem with this

    I googled it but couldn't find anything

    maybe someone can throw some links at me to read or if you know how to get rid of this please share. I need my mojo back lol

  • #2
    What you describe does seem to be classic performance anxiety.

    Talking with your wife would be a suggestion- since the things she's said/says is causing you distress.

    The following should be helpful also: Anxiety related Links for your research
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    • #3
      are there any quick fixes for this?
      anyone can recommend any tricks to get rid of anxiety quickly ?

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      • #4
        Originally posted by megastan View Post
        are there any quick fixes for this?
        anyone can recommend any tricks to get rid of anxiety quickly ?
        If the anxiety is mild, clear your mind and focus on your breathing. This should help you to calm down. If your anxiety is more than mild you're going to need to work on it- and if it's extreme you may need professional assistance.
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        • #5
          any herbs you can recommend to try to get rid of anxiety for that?

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