Feel a little down-need advice

[Noname24 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Noname24]

So..i will try to resume my story. I have had penile anxiety for all my life and i refused a lot of oportunities to have sex and although all women think i am very confident and stuff like that in reality is just an act.i measure like 6bpel and 4.6 4.7 meg so i know everybody thinks this is average but i see it really really small and all the guys that i ve seen naked in my entire life ..no one but literally no one had a smaller penis than mine or at least the same size...they all looker big even flaccid so that made me more anxious. Fast forward i ve been in a relationship 4 years and she cheated on me because of my size (she actually said that) . Since then its been a long year without even talking to a woman,but now without doing anything myself i met a girl and things advanced pretty fast although i tried to stay back because of my issues . The thing is that tomorrow she invited me over to have sex and i m really really scared of that idea(i must say that i am really good in bed and have a great stamina and erection and i never heard complains except for my penis size,so i m not afraid i won t satisfy her..i am afraid of my small penis ..for somebody to see it again and maybe to want more than i can offer). To make things even worse..we are colleagues so i m afraid if something goes wrong i will hear bad gossips at work and that will ruin me. What should i do?? I need some good advice from you guys because i m feeling very bad.
Thank you

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

You are fine - forget the past, some women don't understand the trauma they cause by what they think are little innocent comments. Go with the statistics that say you are not small and fall well into the average category. Remember, there are lots of ways to turn a girl on - some require a sense of humor, some require thoughtful gestures, some require a nice evening out while others may involve a movie or theater. When it comes to intimate time, there are multiple ways to satisfy your girl. Not all involve Penis in Vagina (PIV). Kissing, caressing, small talk, cuddling, and oral (this is a big one) which if you master well enough will make you a God. Use this last skill to get her off before anything else happens, then every subsequent action will be icing on the cake.

Remember, there is a whole population of women who don't need a dick - regardless of size - to enjoy a partner -they are lesbians and neither one of them have a penis to make their partner satisfied.

Any girl that degrades you with comments should be let go and forgotten about, no one should make the type of comments that you have experienced in the past. If they do, move on and find another caring individual who wants to enjoy a life with you in it regardless.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I was smaller than you and as a result remained a virgin until I was 26. I then met my future wife and kept her satisfied for over 45 years. I now realize I waisted a good dick during my prime years.

[Noname24 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Noname24]

Thanks guys...
As i said i m not afraid of my performance, i am pretty good at sex and at oral sex and i m very confident about that the only thing i m worried is the dissapointment when i drop my pants..the image , the expectations...

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

Going about your life by depending on what others think about you is a recipe for misery. You need to strengthen your mind to the point where you move beyond such things!

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[CanIgrowPlease Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CanIgrowPlease]

We’re pretty much in the same boat with size. I’m little thinner on the girth side (4.5). At least you’ve had sex. I’m scared to even attempt to talk to girls because of my size.