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  • #46
    Fitetoend,

    I managed to clear up my symptoms which were very similar to yours and and pretty much restore my unit back to normal, which I still can't believe since at this time yesterday it was giving me no indication of wanting to get an erection any time soon.

    Try this:
    1. Take 1 baby aspirin (81 mg dose) per day. If you are currently taking the 5 g's I'd recommend cutting out the ginko biloba. You will need the anti-inflammatory action of aspirin but don't want to thin your blood too much by taking the ginko.

    2. Soak your unit in alternating hot water/cold water baths. You can do this however you like but this is how I did it: Get/pour a good amount of water (like a liter maybe a bit less) in a bottle and store it on the fridge/freezer for a while. Unless your cold water faucets are nearly ice cold you will need to do it this way, although you don't want the water so cold that it's forming ice. Also, warm up another good amount of water so it's near boiling. Then, obtain two cups or mugs and pour the cold water in one and a little of the hot into the other. Pour some normal running tap water into the hot water cup and modulate the temperature so that it's not scolding hot to the touch, but a warm enough temperature that your unit can tolerate. Then you will alternate dipping your dick first into the hot, and then the cold. Do this somewhere you can mop or in a tub as you will spill. On one board one guy mentioned doing this 3-4 times for 5 minutes each, but I only put my dick in the cold water for no more than 3 mins because the glans were already cold and I didn't want to make things worse. Make sure to end with your unit soaking in the hot water. Then, hot wrap your penis for 20-30 minutes while OBSERVING THE COLOR of your glans! They should be a lot more reddish/pinkish, which I guess means it worked.

    I don't really know how helpful this is but apparently it dilates blood vessels to get things flowing. More importantly, by doing this, I could identify that there was a bulge, probably a blood clot, in my superficial dorsal vein that was more and more visible everytime I alternated from the hot and cold and I suspected that this was my problem. I didn't know how to take care of the clot and was going to tell the urologist when I see him today but when I woke up this morning I was fully erect! I couldn't believe it; My veins are still distended but the bulge is much smaller and I think it will go away with time. Although I'm still not sure why a clot in a vein would cause limited blood supply to my penis unless the obstruction was in some other blood vessel.

    You may be suffering from the same thing which mainly amounts to reduced blood flow and just need to gently get the blood flowing back into the penis and back to the nerves. I also did "Behind the Balls Jelqs" (google this or use search function) which is also good for improving blood flow but I don't know how effective it was since I couldn't get anywhere near 70% erect yesterday. You might try this as well. I did all of this in one day and that's all it took.

    If you are suffering from cold glans as well then I definitely think that you should try these things. If anything at least start with the aspirin. Good luck to you!
    BlackNova2k
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    Last edited by BlackNova2k; 08-16-2011, 09:11 AM.

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    • #47
      Hey blackNova2k

      Thanks so much for your detailed, caring response. I'm sorry to hear you suffered like I am but I am very very happy to hear you have healed and are better. I can't tell if I have a nerve issue or bloodflow issue since the incompetent URO simply dissmissed me with some Viagra without any tests. I do get morning wood these days but it is a 60% kind of erection. The penis feels very stiff and hard when I get morning wood but when I touch it I can easily wag it and move it around. I still can't get an erection when messing around with a girl.

      Almost all members have told me to completely leave my unit alone, however the doctor never mentioned that and in fact prescribed me viagra to encourage bloodflow back into the area, and now I don't know which route to take. But I will be sure to try your method. It just feels like something is badly damaged in my unit and as a result can't send a signal to my brain for it to fill up with blood. But even when it does fill up it fills up 70% and then empties out pretty quickly.

      So when I do the hot and cold thing, should I put it in cold water for 3 minutes straight, take it out and then put it in warm for 3 minutes straight, for 3 times.

      But again thanks alot for all your help and support.

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      • #48
        Fitetoend,

        First place it in the warm water for 5 minutes, then place it in the cold water for 2-3 minutes, then back in the warm, then cold again. Do this 3 times. Just make sure to dip it back in the warm water for one last 5 minutes and end it like that so you keep your penis warm and encourage blood flow. So basically you will end up soaking in the warm water 4 times, and the cold water 3 times. You might need to replenish the cold and warm water one or two times since they may warm up or cool off over time. You want to slowly kegel like 1 or 2 times here and there when it's in the warm water; it actually felt pretty good.

        After you are done that, relax a bit and warm wrap it for 20 minutes, this is when I noticed my unit greatly expanded and the glans started becoming reddish.

        And you're welcome it's no problem at all, I'm just trying to help anyone out because I've suffered with this for 8 days and I know how mentally agonizing it can be so I'm just trying to share what worked for me. Although my problem was caused by jelqing the symptoms are very similar to yours and I'm hoping this advice can apply to your situation as well. I thought it was a nerve issue too because it lost a lot of sensitivity and it seemed like my dick wouldn't respond to the signals my brain was relaying and I was getting ready to accept that I may have to go a long time without spontaneous or visual erections. But after lots of paranoid research I learned that sudden penis-numbing nerve damage would be somewhat painful, thus I started leaning towards blood flow issues. For you, the only way to know for sure is to try what I've suggested to see if improving blood flow by taking the aspirin and doing the hot/cold water baths helps with any of the symptoms.

        And I also agree with leaving it alone, but by leaving it alone I think most people are mainly talking about abstaining, letting it rest by avoiding unnecessary erections and not checking up on it or touching it excessively. However, since you are at the 10 day mark I would suggest that it's time to at least do a few things that may help with your situation. If it is a bloodflow restruction thing then I suspect the longer you wait the worse it will get, which is what I think happens to people who wait too long. I wouldn't eff around with the viagra either lol, I guess unless all else fails which I'm hoping it won't.

        If you can at least feel your dick some and have even the slightest sensations of touch, then you have a lot of hope for recovery. And especially if there is no pain then I don't suspect that you damaged anything severely. And most importantly don't forget to try your best to relax! I believe you'll get through this. Once I started looking up reasonable solutions to improving blood flow I began to relax a whole lot more and worry a lot less and I just had a good feeling that the aspirin and the water baths would work, and even if it didn't I wasn't going to let this prevent me from doing the things I like to do anymore. But who knows, maybe it was my change in attitude that fixed everything.

        Any other questions just let me know! I'll try not to write essays anymore lol.

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        • #49
          Hey blacknova

          Thanks again very much for your wonderful response. I will do exactly as you said later tonight when I get home. I do not have pain nor did i feel pain when my injury happened. It just stopped getting erect and the sensitivity was down. This morning in the shower while i was washing that area, my penis felt very sensitive to the touch and there was a lot of sensation. However when i touch it dry and without any lube just while peeing for example, I dont feel much on the glans. I do get morning wood like i said but it is pretty weak, so I hope all of this are signs of a potential full recovery. Eventhough it has already been 12 days now.

          The only other problem is my girlfriend which I have to have sex with. Never thought I would say that haha. But that is the only other issue otherwise I could leave my unit alone for a month.

          Thanks again to everyone.

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          • #50
            Hey guys

            I noticed a few days ago while I was messing around with my girlfriend, that I was able to get erect however it was weaker than it used to be, probably a 65% or 70% erection. Then when I put it in and started penetrating and stroking, I realized I was gonna ejaculate in less than a minute! It was scary here i was finally getting erect and then I was about to orgasm real quickly. Then we tried about an hour later and again as soon as I put in my penis, less than a minute later, I ejaculate.

            Now I read some places that nerve damage can cause premature ejaculation. Which has made my situation that much worse. I thought if anything nerve damage would make you go longer , but now I hear it makes you go faster. Anyone know why? Will this be corrected in time?

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            • #51
              Hey man, look at it this way: your situation improves slowly.
              I believe most chances are that you're gonna be just fine.
              Give it some more time, and don't be afraid to consult doctors.
              Stats:
              5.25" BPEL
              4.75" NBPEL (T______T)
              4.75" MSEG
              5" BEG

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              • #52
                Thanks Johnny

                Yeah I believe it might be improving very little by little. Like now maybe when my girl kisses me my penis sort of stiffens a little, when before that wouldnt happen. And I can get a weak erection when we mess around now. I think i will try to give it another 10 day rest period from now till next monday and see what happens. I might see another doctor for a second opinion. Thanks Johnny and good luck to you in anything you wish to pursue.

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                • #53
                  Always glad to help.
                  Stats:
                  5.25" BPEL
                  4.75" NBPEL (T______T)
                  4.75" MSEG
                  5" BEG

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                  • #54
                    It just worries me that its been 17 days now and I haven't recovered. On top of it I've developed premature ejaculation due to nerve damage.

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                    • #55
                      But you have made progress, it's better than nothing
                      Stats:
                      5.25" BPEL
                      4.75" NBPEL (T______T)
                      4.75" MSEG
                      5" BEG

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                      • #56
                        Been away from my computer for awhile, but I was thinking about your progress so far Fitetoend. I'm sorry that your situation hasn't fully improved yet, but like JohnnyCash said it does look like you're improving which is a good thing. I take it the water soaks didn't help much. Out of curiosity are you taking anything else supplement-wise?

                        I guess it looks like your case may be more of a nerve issue, but from what I understand I do think in time it will recover. Keep us posted, and if there is any other advice I can find on the issue I will pass it on. Good luck!

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                        • #57
                          Oh, shit, man!! You did multiple lazy ass stretches. Fuck, fuck, fuck. They are not for beginners!! I did them after a YEAR, do you hear me, a YEAR of intensive p.e. and even then I injured myself--the nerves just under the glans--it took three to four weeks for them to heal.

                          After that, I continued to practice p.e., but with those sensitive nerves right beneath the glans always covered with my foreskin.

                          Lazy ass stretches are NOT for beginners--and even when you are a so-called "veteran," they are dangerous!!

                          Easy does it, pal!! Easy does it!!. I repeat, THEY ARE DANGEROUS!!!!

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                          • #58
                            Hey blacknova

                            Thanks for asking about my situation. I dont think its improved I just think that some things that were mental blocks, I've put away. Like now if im messing around with my girl, I can get a hardon, but a weak one. But nothing major. No erections from visual stimulus. No 80 or 90 % erections. Do you think nerves will heal? Will my situation get back and recover 100%?

                            I guess Im wondering because if it is a nerve issue and I've damaged a nerve, will I recover 100% and fully? I've heard people say nerves don't heal and yet I've heard doctors and others say nerves will heal over months. It's already been 18 days now and I haven't fully recovered, my spirits are very low and I'm getting very depressed.

                            Thanks to everyone here who have become like friends and family to me.

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                            • #59
                              The truth is, only time will tell if you recover 100% or not.
                              There's a big chance you will, though.
                              Stats:
                              5.25" BPEL
                              4.75" NBPEL (T______T)
                              4.75" MSEG
                              5" BEG

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                              • #60
                                What is a panic disorder?

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