Lose of sensitivity when self touching, but........

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

I have always put it the fact that PE'ers touch themselves so much more often that the "thrill" of touching yourself is lessened due to frequency. Not sure how many guys that applies to. For me, maybe some of it is part of the natural aging factor, some to frequent touching via PE, etc., but when I touch myself I don't get a lot of feeling while doing it. However, when my wife and I make love we almost always end with her bringing me to climax via oral sex, and she does a great job of continuing it even after I cum. The thing is, the intensity of my climax is nearly mind blowing in intensity. It almost hurts in a good way!!! It is more intense then when I was younger I am sure. Anyone else experience this?

[Zeds Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zeds]

Because of edging and getting erections frequently for girth work, I do find that I'm not as sensitive as I should be - don't get me wrong, I can get an erection and cum during sex so there isnt a problem being caused by this small decrease in sensitivity. But if I don't touch my dick for 3 days or more, the sensitivity returns to 100% and is insane.

I've found an easy way to maintain sensitivity so that I can cum during sex is just to make sure I have my hand at the base of my dick when I masturbate/edge/get hard for girth work, keeping my hand well away from anywhere near the frenulum or head of the penis.

[texastravis Member Find all posts View Profile Close texastravis]

I do think this is a draw back of PE and I have experienced it myself. I am so used to "exercising" my penis that when I touch it by myself these days, I dont get hard, or at least not rock hard. At first I started thinking that, oh crap, I am losing EQ from exercising! But really, I am just losing self-intimacy. My EQ is great with a lady present.

A few explanations on a better climax from my point of view.....As you become more and more aware of your pelvic floor, and can kegel harder, your orgasms are definitely stronger. Also, my orgasms are stronger because I am orgasming less frequent. After reading articles claiming better PE results with less frequent ejaculation I used to masterbate once a day, now, I masterbate maybe 1/3 days. Hence stronger but less frequent.

I think as men get older, on average they will orgasm less frequently. I think this does result in stronger orgasms.

Just my opinion, not a fact.