Cheat or not ?

[PunkSka8erV2 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PunkSka8erV2]

Im 22 and me and my GF have been together for more than 2 years . For The past Months I have been feeling kinda less turned on and attracted To her ( we used To do It 1-4 Times a day and every day of The week ) . Usually is was me who was jumping on her for sex . But since 3-4 month I have found my self wanting less To have sex with her and really wanting To speak To other girls , I also fantasy alot when I see girls at The beach I feel Like a lion whos looking after is next meal . Im at The point where I want To pickup every girl that I see who I find attractive , and also my gf is not The kind of girls I usually date she dont wear makeup alot and also she has really ugly feet and a little Belly ( she is not fat) that kinda turn me off ... What should I do ? Should I listen To my testostérone and primal instinct and go fuck around with other girls , or should I leave my Gf for good ? I still love her tho

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Do what YOU wanna do, just don't cheat, IMO.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Sorry you can't love her and want other girls. It just doesn't work that way.

[domnus Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close domnus]

If you feel the way you say about your current gf, why even pose this question here. It sounds to me like you have the answer already. Dont be a cheat. You are young and obviously not ready for a committed relationship. If you have been with this gf for 2 yrs, at least show her the respect she deserves and face her like a man and explain to her where you are at in this relationship. Tell her all the things you have valued in her and your relationship and about how you feel currently. Try making a habit of being honest with your partners and yourself. IMO, if you are you will be more confident about yourself and your ability to handle the trials that all relationships face at one time or another.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Sorry you can't love her and want other girls. It just doesn't work that way.

He loves her, he's just not in love with her.. but I'm just assuming.

[PunkSka8erV2 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PunkSka8erV2]

I love her really and iv never cheated In her . What kinda men never Look at girls on The beach wiching he could bust some ?

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

What kinda men never Look at girls on The beach wiching he could bust some ?

Monogamous men that are in love with a woman..

...and/or gay men? Lol

[PunkSka8erV2 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PunkSka8erV2]

I also have another girl who has a bf but seem to want me so I dont know , I dont want To be an ass but you know I think alot of dude try To hide that primal instinct de have To spread our seeds everywhere .. Look at nature , rabbits fuck around , cats fuck around , we males are made To do that by nature

[PunkSka8erV2 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PunkSka8erV2]

Lol dude ... I dont care if you are monogamous or a priest, every dude Look at girls In someway or another

[domnus Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close domnus]

There are no men who don't look. What's not to appreciate about the beauty of the female form? Looking is one thing, wanting to pound every hot chick you see is completely another and suggests that maybe you need to evaluate yourself and readiness for a committed relationship. Just because you have been in one wiht her for 2 yrs doesn't mean you are ready for it. You are young and you need to decide what YOU want and need. Cheating will not hlep you discover that IMO and will only leave you with feeling of regret and self loathing.

[CalmCoolGrower Member Find all posts View Profile Close CalmCoolGrower]

If you actually care about her, then you would breakup. She doesn't deserve that kind of heartbreak.

[ehlolol Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ehlolol]

I am somewhat inexperienced with this situation and haven't faced something similar yet - but what speaks against talking to her about these things that bother you?
You want her to wear more make up? Tell her that, probably not straight up but in a way which makes it sound cute somehow..
You want her to lose her pot belly? Dont tell her she is fat and needs to lose weight. I am not very creative on how to approach these htings but there are sure proper ways, go find inspiration online, lol.

What I am basically saying is: why not just fix the problems at hand instead of trying to avoid them and go for the next woman?
Do you think that with that attitude or rather that way of handling things, you will be able to have lasting relationships? What happens if your next target, your next "meal" turns out to have also a little few shortcomings here and there that you notice 2 years later? You are going to go for another new "meal" then again?
If that is what you want.. sure go ahead do it... thats not my thing. But dont break this girls heart by cheating! She surely doesnt deserve that especially if she has put up with 4x sex per day for years until YOU decided to not do it that often anymore.

You dont like her feet? Dont tell her that, it will most likely give her a complex. Rather tell her that you like it when she wears socks and you like that feeling or w/e. Problem solved!

And about the other part - if the sex gets boring, you lose interest - there are ways to spice things up. Thats just a problem that has been talked about on many communities online and many people have provided solutions on how to go fixing it.. with success!

If all that does not work for you, just dont be a bitch about it cheating on her. Man up, go to her and break it off clean.. Well it will most likely and in a trainwreck but thats better than destroying her completely with cheating!

Id say if you truly care about your girl, man up, dont be a bitch - solve your problems with her!

Edit: Have a damn heart!

[PunkSka8erV2 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PunkSka8erV2]

I know that ... , I dont want To cheat on her and I feel Like if im leaving her im gonna really miss her , but im ŕ Guy who needs To be really active sexually and I really have a hard Time when im near a girl I find attractive , I usually dont speak To them but its really hard ...

[ehlolol Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ehlolol]

That must be because you are not being satisfied sexually.

Its the same with food. If you are hungry you think you can devour the word. If you are more than just full, the sight of the most delicious food could make you want to vomit.
Not exactly same, but similar with sex... If you have had more than just enough sex, well, at least thats how its for me, to some degree, you will not look at other girls. You wont think about that.. most likely.. well if you are like me!

I think you gotto solve your sex problem with her. Try to spice things up asap with her so that you guys are having more sex again!

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I also have another girl who has a bf but seem to want me so I dont know , I dont want To be an ass but you know I think alot of dude try To hide that primal instinct de have To spread our seeds everywhere .. Look at nature , rabbits fuck around , cats fuck around , we males are made To do that by nature

This sounds like you're trying to justify a poor decision.

A monogamous relationship is a promise to each other that you will only be with each other. Breaking that bond hurts. Why hurt her? Did she do something to hurt you?

Be an empowering force in someone's life. Cheating isn't the way to do that. Break up with her first. Unless you're scared to break it off?