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  • Size Does Matter

    First off, I want to make sure everyone knows my title is misleading. However I want to share my experiences.

    First off, I'm right about 5.5" BPEL, and 4.75" EG. So I'm very average. I've never had a problem giving most girls I've been with, multiple vaginal orgasms. So depending on the girl, size doesn't matter.
    My current gf, and Hopefully last, can have multiple orgasms with me alone, however I've always been into wearing extenders. I have the Adonis extension, oxballs muscle(we haven't used it yet unfortunately), and also the fantasy xtensions 2" longer and 33% thicker.

    In my experience, my gf loves when I wear the two extensions we've tried. She can take the full length of both 2" extensions and her moans and screams are louder than with me alone. She said with the fantasy it feels like she's being stretched and feels amazing, and I'm hitting spots that make her super wet and cum very hard. I can't wait to try the oxballs muscle on her as it's a 3" extension and slightly thicker than even the fantasy.
    At the end of our session last night, I gave her multiple orgasms in a row wearing the Adonis, two before hand, and one last one immediately after she said " I want to feel you now" and I took off the Adonis.

    This post isn't to brag, and of course every girl is completely different. I dated a girl in HS with a shorter vagina. I could hit her cervix with her on top and she loved it. My gf now I can hit her cervix at the right angle and position, but she obviously stretches to handle the added length of the toys and it hits spots in her that I can tell make her feel absolutely incredible.

    My main goal of this post is to share partially why I've gotten into PE. My gf likes my size now, and she likes the toys we use. I've always wanted to be larger, just for myself and my goal is 7.5" BPEL with 5.5-6” EG. But seeing the orgasms she has with the extensions drives me to want to succeed in PE even more because I'd love to make her feel that way on my own, and then really stretch her with the toys on my increased size. .

    The moral of the story is, size does matter to an extent and depending on the girl. I've dated girls who have said anything larger than me hurts, I've dated those who told me they've had monsters but I made them cum harder, I've dated some who couldn't orgasm at all, and my current gf who can orgasm multiple times with me alone and also the larger toys. If your gf can't orgasm with you alone, don't take it personally, don't let it hurt your ego. Add your hands, don't be afraid to add toys, get your tongue game on point. Even if you can't gain any results from PE there are always ways to fulfill your partner and increase the fun for you too, so size doesn't matter. Being open and talking, and sharing your kinkiness with your partner is key. For me, seeing her in extasy and seeing her O face and making her orgasm is all I want, of course I want to cum too but I'm very focused on her pleasure.
    Do what turns you both on and have fun in the bedroom. and, enjoy who you are and what was given to you regardless of what you're packing.

    That's all
    Started: 5.5 BPEL, 4.5 EG

    Goal: 7+ BPEL, 5.5+ EG

  • #2
    That's enough. Good points thanks for sharing.
    ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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    • #3
      Quick question. With the extensions on, do you loose a lot of sensativity when you have them on?
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      • #4
        Yes you lose quite a bit of sensitivity. However that's a bonus for me as it helps me last even longer. But it depends on the extension also. I lose more feeling with the fantasy vs the Adonis. I've tried on the oxballs muscle and it seems to be very thin at the bottom but again I haven't used it on her yet.
        Started: 5.5 BPEL, 4.5 EG

        Goal: 7+ BPEL, 5.5+ EG

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        • #5
          I started at 4.9 by 4.6 so I think you can grow past your extensions. Just be safe and consistent. Great attitude about taking care of her and you. Win win.
          ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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          • #6
            Great post aerpelding. It is refreshing to see someone on here who is not letting the joy their GF has with toys larger than yourself have a negative impact on your confidence. You make a very good point in your OP that many here should take to heart. Aerpelding, it is you that is making her cum so hard. Sure the extensions you are using give her different sensations, but in the end it is you, her lover that is giving her the pleasure. The extensions are just accessories.
            Good luck on your PE journey! This fireball of a GF you have may even be willing to join in the fun that PE can be. Frequent, rock hard erections that a lover can provide can be very helpful to gains if you are going to make her aware of your PE goals. But you don't need to orgasm at the end of every session. Doesn't mean you can't use toys to take care of her if helping with your PE gets her all hot and bothered. Or just make her wait for several hours after the session just like you and let the anticipation build during that time.
            Aug 2012: BPEL: 6.25", BPSFL: 6.75", MEG: 5.25"
            Jan 2016: BPEL: 6.75", BPSFL: 6.75", MEG: 5 3/8"
            4/16/16 BPEL: 7.0", BPSF: 7 7/16"", MEG:5.5

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            • #7
              One thing she said to me last night during, that reiterates your point, domnus, is she said I love your c***. So, your right. The toys are helping me give her an incredible experience, and helping me focus on what matters to me. Her pleasure and giving her as much as possible. Yes I was wearing an extension, but I was the one giving her that pleasure.

              Toys larger than you should never intimidate you or scare you. The vagina goes back to its original size after so your not "stretching her out" where she'll be looser. And even if it did, she can do kegals oryou can get her benwa balls to help strengthen her muscles down there making her tighter. ( Which can be another fun sexy experience).
              aerpelding
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              Last edited by aerpelding; 01-16-2017, 06:25 PM.
              Started: 5.5 BPEL, 4.5 EG

              Goal: 7+ BPEL, 5.5+ EG

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              • #8
                Cool, as long as you are happy and things are working out, then all is good
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                • #9
                  I keep getting guys tell me most women don't orgasm from vaginal penetration .
                  That doesn't match my experience and I keep seeing posts like yours

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                  • #10
                    Because a lot of guys don't know what they're doing, or they only care about getting theirs. I've always liked giving the woman all the attention, making sure she's getting as much pleasure as possible. Even without toys. I've only been with one girl who couldn't orgasm, at all. Period.
                    I've even had girls squirt who never have before, and I'm average. lol, so, I dunno.
                    Started: 5.5 BPEL, 4.5 EG

                    Goal: 7+ BPEL, 5.5+ EG

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                    • #11
                      It's not just men who say many women can't orgasm from PIV sex. Many women say it also. Then too many women prove it. Hahahaha
                      ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!

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                      • #12
                        I agree with that to a point. True there are guys out there that don't know what they're doing, but there are also women who just haven't experiences a vaginal orgasm during sex yet. My last FWB before I started my sexual hiatus told me she never had one during sex, but could have one masturbating. I gave her her first and she cried (scared the hell outta me too). I asked her what I did to make that happen, then told her if there's ever anyone else don't be afraid to tell them what you need or add your hands. She hasn't had a problem since.
                        22 Oct 2016 (Start)
                        BPFL: 4 FG: 3.75 BPEL: 5.25 EG: 4.75
                        Current: 23 Jan 2017
                        BPFL: 4.5 (+.5) FG: 4.25BPEL: 5.3 (+.05) EG: 4.75
                        Goal:
                        BPEL: 6.25 EG: 5.5
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                        • #13
                          Ah I don't know just most women I have met aren't even that hard to get off PIV .
                          Ahh must just be my size ,stamina and skill I guess

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                          • #14
                            Personally I think when people say "size doesn't matter", what they really mean is "size doesn't matter that much". A guy with a normal sized or even small penis could get a girl off well or potentially better than a big guy.

                            That said though, if both a normal or small guy and a large guy were of equal skill and ability, the bigger one is likely better, up to a point (since there is too thick and also too long, especially over 8"x6").
                            Original/Current Stats:
                            2014-09-01: BPEL 6.8"/NBPEL 6" MEG 5.0", BPFL 5"/NBPFL 4" FG 4.4"
                            2019-03-16: BPEL 8"/NBPEL 6.75" MEG 5.2", BPFL 6.75"/NBPFL 5.5" FG 4.5"

                            Goals:
                            Realistic: BPEL 8.5"/NBPEL 7.5" MEG 5.5"
                            Optimistic: BPEL 9"/NBPEL 8" MEG 5.75"
                            Dream: BPEL 10"/NBPEL 9" MEG 6.5"

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Phoenix7672 View Post
                              Personally I think when people say "size doesn't matter", what they really mean is "size doesn't matter that much". A guy with a normal sized or even small penis could get a girl off well or potentially better than a big guy.

                              That said though, if both a normal or small guy and a large guy were of equal skill and ability, the bigger one is likely better, up to a point (since there is too thick and also too long, especially over 8"x6").
                              I would agree. My size is fine for my gf. She has no problems getting off because I like to think I know what I'm doing, plus I'm putting her needs ahead of mine. But me with a larger penis, ie. Toys, makes her moan louder, she gets wetter, she cums more etc. So bigger is better. However since she's my gf and not a one night stand. She still wants me and my size most of the time. She wants to feel me.

                              I've been with a girl who's had larger than me ( if I remember right she said the size of a old cops mag light lol). But I made her cum harder, and she said I was better in bed. We were just fwb so we had no prob talking about this stuff and being honest. She said he'd just jack hammer away and while the size filled her up, it wasn't near as enjoyable. My "skill" and smaller size hit the right spots.

                              It's all relative.
                              aerpelding
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                              Last edited by aerpelding; 01-17-2017, 03:27 PM.
                              Started: 5.5 BPEL, 4.5 EG

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