Need some help

[ZephAxix Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ZephAxix]

Before hand, I wanted to thank you for taking time to help me.

So, I've been masturbating since around age 11. Very oddly I cannot do no feel pleasure from stroking or rubbing while an erection is present, only during climax and the seconds before climax. I'm not sure why this is, but I don't think it's normal. The first time I masturbated, I only used my thumb, my middle finger, and my pointer finger. I put the middle/index finger on the back of my shaft, and place the thumb on the front and proceed to rub my foreskin up and down. This is how I masturbate, and am unable to masturbate any other way (5 knuckle shuffle, etc). I cannot masturbate without a tensed PC muscle (Or at least, I don't believe I can. Usually I stop trying after 5-10 minutes). Finally, upon climax, I feel that there is a liquid within my penis (it's semen), and usually I feel the urge to push it out, but can control it. There are sometimes when a little bit of the semen comes out (after I haven't masturbated for a day or two), but usually It doesn't come out unless I push it out. Similarly, I can push large amounts of semen out of my penis after climaxing for the first time that day.

1. I would like to know why I do not feel pleasure from normal stroking and rubbing during and erection, and only during and slightly before a climax.

2. I would like to know why I can only masturbate with a tensed PC muscle. I would also like to know the benefits of masturbating with a relaxed PC muscle vs a Tensed PC muscle. On top of this, I would like to know that if it is more beneficial to have a relaxed PC muscle, how do I begin to masturbate with a relaxed PC muscle?

3. Finally, I would like to know why I can control most of my semen flow.

I'm not sure if this is too much or too little information, but I really would like some answers.
Thank you!

[HansTwilight Retired ModeratorPE Gym Editor Member of the Month Jan 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close HansTwilight]

How often do you masturbate? Are you using porn/?
You have an overractive pelvic floor, which is why you clench your PC muscle. You need to quit masturbating and do hindis and reverse kegels, If you continue this harmful behavior the tension will further manifest itself in the presence of subconscious stress and you will get levator ani syndrome/chronic pelvic pain syndrome. This thread is your new bible, take heed and read it.

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How often do you masturbate? Are you using porn/?
You have an overractive pelvic floor, which is why you clench your PC muscle. You need to quit masturbating and do hindis and reverse kegels, If you continue this harmful behavior the tension will further manifest itself in the presence of subconscious stress and you will get levator ani syndrome/chronic pelvic pain syndrome. This thread is your new bible, take heed and read it.

Hi, thanks for the response. I can masturbatr with or without porn. I usually masturbation 2-3 times a day. 4 or 5 if my day was stressful. What are hindis and reverse kegels? And what are levator ani syndrome and chronic pelvic pain syndrome?

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Woah, that's WAY too much. No wonder your PC muscle tenses. You should masturbate 3x a week at most man. Read the thread and all your questions will be answered. Its a long read but that is how you will fix these problems. Im telling you read it.

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Hi ZA, Well you have been over masturbating big time, time to take a long break first try 8 weeks, see if your getting your morning woods back, which I think your not getting?
Also see if you feel any nocturnal erection during the night, with this and morning woods your on your way back.

But when it comes to masturbating do it in a very relaxed way, never try and force anything, so just ejaculate when your body is ready to, you need to change the way your masturbating and with a feather light touch, you need to think of a vagina, how there all soft and delicate, so your masturbating needs to be like that feel.

Time for a change to the five knuckle shuffle the real mans way and the way your like your GF to do to you as well with that and the feather light touch add in some baby oil and that's about as close as your get to the real deal. OK

Please let us know how your doing after the 8 weeks. OK

NOWHARD