Pegasus

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Hi Peg,

Didn't want to appear rude or not happy with what you said. I can't reply to your messages as it says I can only send 20 messages in an hour.

I think you're right I should give it time and think about it btw.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hi Peg,

Didn't want to appear rude or not happy with what you said. I can't reply to your messages as it says I can only send 20 messages in an hour.

I think you're right I should give it time and think about it btw.

Ok as I said I think gym is a great idea.
Did I ay I have joined a new gym? Had a great time doing pilates today .
Got to get my strength back up it has fallen offrecently

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I'm pleased to hear your enjoying it.

I'll give it a month and re-evaluate whether to have the surgery or not 😊

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I bow to your wisdom.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Sorry to interrupt but can one of you make coffee?

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I just did. Help yourself. Is this an open forum private chat or can I ask what surgery Tara?

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I just did. Help yourself. Is this an open forum private chat or can I ask what surgery Tara?

Oh Wishful, I think I've just had a moment of madness lol

With breaking up with my husband at the start of the month and then being asked out on date (which I've delayed to the end of the month), I just don't feel very confident.

I'm normally very confident within myself, what you see is what you get kinda thing.

I'm nearly already back to my pre pregnancy weight but I got Botox this week and booked into for laser teeth whitening...

Then I saw this:-

Vaginal Restoration, Stem Cell Anti Ageing, Vaser

And thought I need that before I start dating again after two children.

But Peg has made some very good points 😊

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

If you got to do all that stuff for a guy than he's not worth it. Sorry I just feel blunt today!

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I wasn't doing it for the guy, I was doing it for me. I just feel old and that I wasn't meant to be a single mother of two in my late thirties. But that's where I'm at 😊

I also know there's no future with this new guy, he's to young for me at 28 and wants marriage and kids (which I wouldn't be providing). We both discuss we are in different places in our timelines.

Still makes me feel nervous again dating after nearly 12 years with the same guy.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Feel old? That is subjective; not objective. Well you were attractive to him enough to have him ask you out weren't you? What happened to that thing called confidence?

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Yeah you're right, I think I was just having a wobble!! xoxo

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

I wobble to and fro all the time. Consider a Kegel Master before surgery please. It will give a lifetime of health benefits, as well as address your other concerns. As a man I can tell you a vagina that has given birth is still a wonderful meal. Please don't lose confidence. I have seen your picture and you have a beautiful face. I am sure the rest of you is very lovely also.
I'm dating again also after 35 years with the same person.... Holy moly I didn't expect that either. You're doing well Tara, don't get down on yourself.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

I'm glad to hear your good new Wishful 😊

I do kegel exercises anyway, I think I was just having a crazy moment.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Making coffee gets one to think sane!

[discreet Senior Member Member of the Month May 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close discreet]

Making coffee gets one to think sane!

Hi,

I've been doing ginger shots, like real ginger juice with the pulp.

And while I love coffee, when ever I do a shot, my desire for any coffee completely disappears.

I've repeated this experiment over and over with the same results. Plus chilled ginger juice is very refreshing.

Anyways just some random BS I though to post.