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For some reason i have this constant feeling that i want to embrace a female my age, not in a sexual way but i just want to feel her warmth and heartbeat. How can i train my mind to not have these feelings? How do i become more mentally tough and jaded to these fellings?
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Don't. Make female friends who are accepting to hugs and open to cuddling.Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael -
TGD is spot on the money.ALL THE WAY WITH GOOD OLE JAY!Comment
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Agreed, your life will be so much richer with the right mate.
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The right mate? My life is much richer with the left mate!
Embrace yourself bro, you are all you need, and I doubt you will fawk yourself over.You never slow down, you never grow old!Comment
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You're a hugger.......... so hug away unless the women look like they want to run away.7 1/4 inches x 5 1/4 inches Spring 2014
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You don't know women very well, do you?Originally posted by Nogirth View PostSex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline KaelComment
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I find it much easier to develope an emotional connection to a guy than a girl. Girls are just so selective and closed off.Originally posted by TheGreatDivider View PostComment
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That all depends on where you live, their age, cultural background, and how well they know you. Asian girls, for example, are not as cuddle as their American counterparts. And young girls, under the age of 23yo, are going to be more closed off around guys they don't know well enough. You might also be from a hugging or touch-friendly family and surrounded by people who are not as receptive to touching or have a greater need for personal space.Originally posted by Nogirth View Post
You mentioned hugging before. There is a way in which you should hug that makes a difference between closeness and creepy. There's only two options, the side hug and the church hug. With the church hug you both lean way forward so her chest doesn't touch yours, which is something you will see a lot of young women doing in church, hence the name. The side hug is a little different in that you only hug with one arm and only touch from the side of the torso. The side hug is a favorite of college girls because they can show intimacy without guys trying to press up on them. Use both of these wisely and keep it short, a hug should never last longer than a handshake, and you don't want have her tapping out like she's losing a wrestling match either.
Now, as a general rule I say not to touch the ladies because they can spot a thirsty guy from a mile away. You don't want to be that guy that reeks of desperation who tries to use hugs as a food in the door for a first date or sex. So keep your hands off them and spend some time talking to them first. When they start opening up to you about their problems, or they look like they have had a bad day, then you can offer them a hug but make sure to ask first and keep it short.
And remember, when in doubt it never hurts to ask for a hug. Just throw your cards out on the table and go for broke for a good hug. You might even find some girls who have an equal need to be hugged who will do this often with you, like I have at college. Seriously, I'm hugging so many girls at college it's not even funny.Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline KaelComment
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I'm not a cuddling person. I think as I never got hugs off my mam.
But I have both male and female friends that hug when they first see me and when we say goodbye.
Just start doing that.Women were created from the rib of man to be beside him, not from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be trampled by him, but from under his arm to be protected by him, near to his heart to be loved by him.Comment
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