Is it weird?

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Is it weird that the reason i am doing pe is to get big enough to cause women physical pain when we have sex, because i feel they deserve it?
I think i might be a misogynist.

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Why do you feel they deserve it?

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Three things that spring to mind,

1 - You have watched a lot of porn. Even if it's not the aggressive type, standard porn is still rather like this towards women. Many men, one girl etc. And this has trained your brain to feel that's what sex is. It's become your taste.

2 - You might need to look into BDSM. This acronym, which refers to Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism, reflects the ancient sexual rituals of sexual dominance and submission that have qualified sex throughout history.*

3 - You generally have issues with either women, sex or both. And might need professional help to overcome this thinking.

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Three things that spring to mind,

1 - You have watched a lot of porn. Even if it's not the aggressive type, standard porn is still rather like this towards women. Many men, one girl etc. And this has trained your brain to feel that's what sex is. It's become your taste.

I have been watching porn heavily since i was 11. It wasnt until i was 17 that i realized how evil pornography is. I have never liked BDSM, it actually turns me off.

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Why do you feel they deserve it?

Been ignored by girls my whole life.

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Been ignored by girls my whole life.

Well I'm female and I'm not ignoring you.

You have remember their are assholes all over the place, who'll be rude etc

And their are a lot of very shy women whom will never approach a man. It's like they have been trained since a child to be timid.

You have to keep putting yourself out there and you'll meet nice people between the rude ones. Just brush it off if they ignore you etc.

Just think to yourself they have made it easy so you don't waste your time and effort on them.

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Is it weird that the reason i am doing pe is to get big enough to cause women physical pain when we have sex, because i feel they deserve it?
I think i might be a misogynist.

That is weird, and with this attitude it's no surprise you've been ignored. Are you actually approaching women and then getting ignored, or are you too nervous to approach women?

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That is weird, and with this attitude it's no surprise you've been ignored. Are you actually approaching women and then getting ignored, or are you too nervous to approach women?

I get ignored by attractive girls, but girls that i dont find attractive at all flirt with me very often.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

This seems like an internal issue. Not on the women on you. Good luck, but not in trying to get women so you can hurt them. That's just being a dick.

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This seems like an internal issue. Not on the women on you. Good luck, but not in trying to get women so you can hurt them. That's just being a dick.

Thanks man, i appreciate the pun too.