About me

[closed163 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed163]

Well theres a lot of things i wanted to tell you guys about me.I am an insecure person due to my bad past experiences and still happening.But i wanted to talk about me.

Like some may know,i am 5'7 tall.I am 22 years old,and looks younger than i really am.I could say it looks like i didn't mature or at least,puberty played a bad role over me.

About my beard,is curly,patchy and i am letting it grow,but the cheeks are weak like hell.I could use some lotion to help it grow but there are side effects.

More about me.Like i said,i am not attractive in face.Thats why i wanted a full beard so badly.But my body are not able to grow one.

Today i was with a guy 3 inches taller than me and i watched his hands.They were the double of bigger than me,in thickness and lenght of fingers.That left me wondering what could i do,because i always wanted to see manly,and not childy like i really looks like.

My hand size is around 6 inches from palm to top of middle finger.

So i asked one of my uncles,who worked a lot of years in the field and is mechanic,and he have huge hands.I will post a photo if you allow me to see the huge difference.My cousin,i mean his son,also have bigger hands than me and is only 2 years older.He is 5'11 tall.

I always wonder why i had to have my genetics.It feels bad,sad and angry at the same time.I hate my parents so bad,and you will see more of the why.

Lot of people say that hand size tells about dick size,but i am not sure. I have small hands and small cock.I have the hands of a child and the dick of a baby.And my voice some days are deep,others not.I mean,even my voice change all the time.Sometimes i have the voice of a puber.

I mean i hate myself a lot.I really hate my parents and i really want to deal with this problems but i don't know how.I feel lost.
About my uncle,the fact that he have big hands doesn't mean i can,because he is only the husband of my aunt,sister of my father,and there is no connection.

The only connection is my other uncle,brother of my father who also have thick hands and fingers.He works in the mines.And i think it can be a way but how things go,i don't really think so. So i don't know what to think.I have everything harder in life,seeing how society bother with looking,heighism,etc etc etc.I see brainwashers everywhere.And i know is human.Human needs.Human desires.

And about hands,i really love lift weights and i always had a problem to reach my max weights because of my hands.Dumbells went out.My hands was the first thing to give up and i couldn't follow a straight training without break it. Even my professor has huge hands.I mean,is so frustrating.They looks like mans and i look like a boy,a kid.I am so frustrated.

I have a lot of problems and i don't want to have more of them. People can say accept it bitch,or don't be a pussy or a sissy,but you need to understand i resigned a lot in my life.I resigned about being ugly,about having a bad beard,about having a small dick,about being short under society eyes.

And i didn't mention about those people who say ,people like me, are manlets,hobbits etc etc,the only thing they do is put others down,but they dont have that issue,they are 6'00 to up.I could be 6 feet and do the same.I could have huge hands and laught of those with small ones.I could have a huge dick and make fun of people with smaller dick or micropenis.You know what i mean?.

I had in mind talk with my uncle. He can give me work in the field to work and punish my hands.He is agree with that,and i think i will need to go there and leave my lifestyle for years.I really want to do it. I need to move on to the place where he is and start working my ass. Is crazy and sad,because i don't have other plan,but i don't want to resign no more.I am tired and i am young.I can't take it anymore.

I want to know your opinnions.What should i do apart of accept it?i know lot of you will say deal with it.But i want opinnions.
Thanks for reading.I am from Argentina.And i want to say meanwhile,happy thanksgiving day......................

[MisterBator Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MisterBator]

I was Critically Hit by a wall of text. Break it up into paragraphs for easier reading please.

[closed163 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed163]

I was Critically Hit by a wall of text. Break it up into paragraphs for easier reading please.

Done.It looks better know,partitioned.

[Drjohn Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Drjohn]

You really need to work on your insecurities my friend, I know it can give you negative thoughts and make you Think less of yourself, but i would not mind it unless it was severe, and by that i mean 3-4" erect, incredibly small hands and almost being a midget.

Dont go wasting time "working in a field" to make your hands bigger, they wont get bigger, ive worked alot with my hands the last 10 years, genetics play that card, not work, you can get rough skin and hard working hands ofcourse, but you wont magically grow longer fingers because you are working with them.

[Two Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Two]

Serious question. Have you ever seen a counselor?

You have a lot of deep rooted issues. Getting a big penis or "bigger hands" is honestly the last thing that you should be focusing on. I went to a counselor for over a year, I was battling depression and severe anxiety. It changed my life. I highly recommend it.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Hey bro, the only thing that has helped with small hands is grip strength training. I found this out indirectly. I've always been a restless person and work in an office. I bought some hand grips to help manage stress and give me something to do when feeling restless. This has worked really well for me because it also allows me to express extra energy in a non distracting way. My grippers have 100lbs of tension. The brand that I use is Captains of Crush, good quality, all steel. I have been doing reps of 15 two to three times a day and now I have ripped forearms and fat, meaty hands. Even though I consider my hands small, I have to wear XXL gloves just to fit my hands because they are so thick. Maybe this is something that will help.

[Felipe JR. Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Felipe JR.]

Dude... You really need to work on your insecurities. You are amazing. You are healthy, smart , you just need to step up, just forget all these things. Do not give up. About your unit, you are here, c'mom, work on it, make it bigger, thicker, and even if you do no get this, patience, when you met your ''the one'' none of this bullshit will matter, she will understand, she will like every piece of you, man. And, almost forget, every time you look at '' heaven '' and think about it, no matter what your parents, your friends, people on the internet or whoever it is tell you, no matter how you are, who you are, you really is, scientifically speaking, the center of the universe.

[Wildflower Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wildflower]

Hey sweetpe, it sucks feeling like youve gotten the short end of the stick in the genetic pool. I can relate and understand. Its ok to feel frustrated about this, and even fix what you can, strengthening your hands, and PE for size and strength down lower. Remember something though. You were made perfectly to many people. Just because you do not see it now does not make it any less true. You may feel incompetent today and you will work hard for any muscle mass u build so that you can feel less that way tomorrow, but please try to recoginze your worth today. Thank you for being strong enough to be vonerable to the guys on here. It shows true strength and is very comendable. I hope you find what your looking for.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

You wanna talk about small hands? I'm 6' 1" and have hands no bigger than my 5' 2" girlfriend. I can even wear her rings which fit perfectly. I have small fingers and big meat palms, but I don't let it affect me. My tiny hands make my dick look enormous, and I can fix tiny electronic components with ease. I have shitty genetics too... I come from artist patents and received the worst of both parents. I have big hips, no ass, and gain weight easily, plus I couldn't grow a halfway decent beard until I was 25... on a positive note I age very slowly. But again I don't let it get to me. My tiny hands are good at gripping weights and my body shape allows me carry heavy loads... I can pick up and carry just about any woman and curl with her. You can't change you genes all you can do is love yourself and learn to work with your strengths and weaknesses.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Find things positive about yourself (and don't give me the "there ain't nuttin good about me" BS), focus on those things. The things that are negative about you, do a pros and cons list. Draw a line from top to bottom down the middle of the paper. Pros on one side, cons on the other. When you have finished the list, tear the paper down the middle put the pros somewhere where you can see them all the time, burn the cons list. Focus on the positive!

diliget te - love thyself

[Two Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Two]

A lot of good advice in here

[closed163 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed163]

You really need to work on your insecurities my friend, I know it can give you negative thoughts and make you Think less of yourself, but i would not mind it unless it was severe, and by that i mean 3-4" erect, incredibly small hands and almost being a midget.

Dont go wasting time "working in a field" to make your hands bigger, they wont get bigger, ive worked alot with my hands the last 10 years, genetics play that card, not work, you can get rough skin and hard working hands ofcourse, but you wont magically grow longer fingers because you are working with them.

Yeah,but i really want to give it a try.I looked a photo of my uncle when he was 30 years i think and he had thinner fingers than today.Today he have near 60 and huge hands.I will send you a pic someday.To see difference.

[closed163 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed163]

Serious question. Have you ever seen a counselor?

You have a lot of deep rooted issues. Getting a big penis or "bigger hands" is honestly the last thing that you should be focusing on. I went to a counselor for over a year, I was battling depression and severe anxiety. It changed my life. I highly recommend it.

Yeah,cuz of my brother older,who had a serious problem of skin,and people looked at him with disgust.He had anxiety.He went to doctors.They said it has no cure and he have to accept it.Then he went to counselor and the 4 of them told him to resign,to move on.
I don't want to resign,to accept.I want to try to make a change.
I have that image of counselor.For me,they don't worth it,after seeing their advices.But telling to resign is not advice at all.Is really sad.

[closed163 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed163]

You wanna talk about small hands? I'm 6' 1" and have hands no bigger than my 5' 2" girlfriend. I can even wear her rings which fit perfectly. I have small fingers and big meat palms, but I don't let it affect me. My tiny hands make my dick look enormous, and I can fix tiny electronic components with ease. I have shitty genetics too... I come from artist patents and received the worst of both parents. I have big hips, no ass, and gain weight easily, plus I couldn't grow a halfway decent beard until I was 25... on a positive note I age very slowly. But again I don't let it get to me. My tiny hands are good at gripping weights and my body shape allows me carry heavy loads... I can pick up and carry just about any woman and curl with her. You can't change you genes all you can do is love yourself and learn to work with your strengths and weaknesses.

Yeah is right,genetics are lotery,and they play a huge role in someone's life.Is just that i saw a lot of people receiving jokes about that and laught.And is not their fault.
I mean.A guy is 5'9 and someone who is taller make fun of him.I mean where is the sense?Is not his fault.I lived something similar for a guy who tried to intimidate me for being taller and i didn't care.He didn't take me seriously for my aspect,while he had other behaviour with other people.
I also had a friend who was the same age than me and looked way more manly in every aspect.
Thats the problem.Some people feel proud and superior for things they didn't have control in.Even nobody choose to born.
Thats why i think diversity is a problem because it leed to issues and rivalities.And people say diversity is good.I would like to see wich people say that kind of things.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Resign?
https://youtu.be/G2y8Sx4B2Sk

The counselor wasn't telling your brother to "resign" or give up just to accept his skin condition as is and move on with his life. Similarly you cannot do anything about your hands but you need to see a counselor to work on your insecurities, penis, hands, and otherwise. If yo don't you're going to give yourself a complex and end up hating yourself for no good reason when you could be enjoying life and not worrying about such trivial matters.