I avoid sex because of fear of a small penis that

[DeMi-GoD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DeMi-GoD]

For as long as I remember I've avoided sex because I'm afraid I have a small penis. I've desperately tried for so long to make it bigger. I have a date with this girl tomorrow and she basically just invited me over to watch movies and cuddle.. I'm quite anxious because I worry it could lead to sex... BTW Idk what my measurements are but last time I did measure I was 6.7 bpel and only like 4.75 erect girth. I have like an inch fat pad so not even 6 inches of penis shows when I'm hard. I know if I was bigger and comfortable with my size I'd go chasing after sex like so many guys do.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Penis size means nothing. Get out there before it's too late.

[Sinnaman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sinnaman]

Dude, 6.75 is well above average...

[NOWHARD Banned Find all posts View Profile Close NOWHARD]

Even with your fat pad your above average, there are way smaller than you who are studs, as they say its not what you have got its what you do with it, its foreplay that gets a women to the front of either about to get an orgasm or had one and wants more, we have a tongue and fingers, way before she gets any penis, you really do need to read up about foreplay, try Love Play by Dr David Delvin your find it at abebooks.com cheap, great as a bedtime reading book, for you and your women.

Stop putting your self down, get in the game, your find for must women its not size.

NOWHARD

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

You are 1 inch longer that the average penis size. She will be more likely to tell you that you are big.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

As they mentioned above, you are well above average in length and average in girth. Accordingly, you are well equiped to provide great pleasure to the vast majority.

Do not waste your prime sexual years worrying falsely about your dick size. Concentrate more on how best to use it.

[DeMi-GoD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DeMi-GoD]

I appreciate the responses... It still looks so small to me though. Also unhappy with my body and working hard everyday at the gym to change. I've already wasted my sexual prime and my youth not truly living. I'm 28 years old now. Pathetic. These insecurities have ruined me. I need a do over.

[NOWHARD Banned Find all posts View Profile Close NOWHARD]

Look try this get you camera get naked and take some pictures your find its a great way to judge how you look then look the pictures in some of the groups but your have to join them all very easy to do, then there is the site photos and your see you are around the same size as most of us, unless there 8 inch's or bigger.

If you read down some of the penis post on the women's perspective your read a lot only like an average guy, big guys are OK they say but prefer just an average sized guy.

As you say you have wasted your whole younger sex life just because you think, you have never asked, all because you think your small.

Time to get out there and get shagging time in and lots of it.

One last thing get on xhampster, go the amateurs section and go through some of the vids your see most of the guys are not that big, in fact a lot are small, but there with there wives, may open your eyes as well.


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[closed155 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed155]

DeMi-GoD, hi sport, I am an Aussie. You said you are small because your erect penis looks small on your body. Well, it depends on the size and shape of your body. I am 1.76 m tall, actually I was when I was 15, I haven't measure my height since, and I am 82 kg, I have a stocky body, and on my body my 7" erect penis, NBPEL, looks small. I used to indulge in menages, and was a swinger and I can tell you compared to Mr. Average I am not small. You might have a body dysmorphia, you need to work on that.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

I appreciate the responses... It still looks so small to me though. Also unhappy with my body and working hard everyday at the gym to change. I've already wasted my sexual prime and my youth not truly living. I'm 28 years old now. Pathetic. These insecurities have ruined me. I need a do over.

You don't need a "do over" you need to get your mind right and develop perspective. You can make a conscious decision to stop wasting time and opportunities, or you can allow self-loathing to ruin yet another opportunity.

We can give you all manner of compliments and the best advice in the world, but it's all worthless if you refuse to act!

A bit of advice- if you truly like this woman and she likes you, then take it at face value that you're worth something to her.