Nervous about first sexual encounter in a year tonight..

[DeMi-GoD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DeMi-GoD]

I haven't had sex or done anything sexual besides making out with a girl since June 2017. I've gone on a couple dates with this girl recently and she wants me to come over tonight. She said sex isn't happening since she's on her period but she said she wants to give me head.. And said she will blow my mind. I'm excited but also nervous because I have serious size anxiety. I've sent her nude pics and these particular pictures make my dick look pretty big so now I feel like I won't live up to the pics. I so badly want to get over this. Last time I measured I was 6.8 bpel however my fat pad is over an inch so only around 5.8 shows and it just looks too short to me. Also skinny around 4.8 I believe. My plan is to do a bunch of Pe before going and hope it's more plump than usual.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Stop worrying about your size and go in confident and enjoy the moment.

[closed278 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed278]

Dont do PE!
Listen to some relaxing music.
Do breathing exercises.

Take some beat juice, arginine, citruline mallate.
Drink some pineapple juice and take some soy lethicin

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Agree with Tara, savor the moment. Make sure to give her a good shoulder massage and back rub while she is busy as thanks for taking care of you. Be sure to compliment her and tell her how much you appreciate the attention that she is giving you. Bring a treat for her (flowers, chocolate, favorite something, whatever) so she feels special and knows you were thinking about her. And tell her your intent to return the favor once she is over her period. Giving and receiving is a big part of a relationship.

[mrplayer1984 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mrplayer1984]

6.8 bpel is not a bad size, its nice......dont worry.

[DeMi-GoD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DeMi-GoD]

Thanks guys... I just pulled up at her house. I'm nervous as hell.. And my dick feels shriveled up. I even wore my phallosan the whole drive to help prevent turtling... I've only had a few bjs in my life... Wish me luck.

[domnus Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close domnus]

So................. How was your evening DMG? I hate to see that you went into the date feeling so anxious about getting a BJ. It really should be one of the most relaxing sexual acts for the receiver. I hope she was able to take good care of you.

[DeMi-GoD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DeMi-GoD]

Well guys, it went about how I expected. After hanging out for a while she wanted to do it and told me to meet her in her bedroom. I went into the bathroom and I feel ashamed to admit this but I was pretty much having an anxiety attack. I tried to just calm myself down but couldn't... Went into her bedroom and she started doing it while I was standing. After about a minute I realize I'm not even near fully hard. 1-10 maybe a 5. Felt horrible. When I'm fully hard my erection angle is like a 12 and I was just pointing straight out.. So I laid down on her bed instead and got her to do it there. It helped a little, but again not near my hardest/full size. Fortunately I was able to cum.. Within 5 mins. I'm guessing I couldn't get fully hard because of a few things: anxiety, tired dick from Pe, and porn induced Ed. I haven't watched porn in 48 days.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

It's great that you haven't watched porn in 48 days. Keep that up.

How did the conversation go afterwards?

I wouldn't worry women are aware men get stressed out too the first few encounters of sexual activity. It is normal to a degree.

[Treant Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Treant]

Bro my gf and I had really hit or miss sex like the first 2 months. The biggest thing is don't blame them or make random explanations / dwell on it constantly. Bring the rest of yourself to the table (which she likes you / wants you for the most) and you are gonna be ok