Afraid sex won't feel good

[BBC Action Senior Member Member of the Month August 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close BBC Action]

I meant what I said? If something is hurting your glans wear something different to prevent that. Do something else so it doesn't hurt anymore. For example, wearing underwear instead of going commando.

[D6ggy9tyle Senior Member Member of the Month April 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close D6ggy9tyle]

Its the extender. Don't stress. But if your strapping in too tight, for too long, and/or with too much tension trying to be overzealous, it'll make it worse. So make sure you're using it correctly, with a light but full stretch.

Also a chance you're masterbating too much. Try and abstain completely until you wake up with a morning wood that makes you feel like you're at the PONR without even touching it. At this point, you should feel it in your frenulum.

[Zyxciz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zyxciz]

I'm just really depressed about the fact that I was circumcised without my consent. I was deprived of the full range of pleasure that I was born to experience. The foreskin has nerve-endings that I can never regain. Moreover, the foreskin protects the glans from friction and it also proivdes natural lubrication. This just saddens me, it's another thing that goes on the list of things which my parents failed to protect me from.

D6ggy you mentioned the frenelum, but a large part of mine has been removed from circumcision. When I was younger, I used to masturbate by stimulating it. That area has grown way less sensitive over the years due to the glans being unprotected. From a young age, it was obvious to me that something was different. I used to feel frustrated playing with my penis because I could recall that I had experienced more intense pleasure in that specific area. This didn't make sense at the time, but looking back the reason is clear now.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Here's a really cool phrase; get over it. I was gonna say "deal with it" but that would be too grownup for what I read here.

[Zyxciz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zyxciz]

I'd argue that it's more grown up to admit how something has hurt you rather than stuffing your emotions down in an attempt to "get over it".

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Deal with it and live or be a prisoner to it a ruin a life. Each day you waste you don't get back.

[Zyxciz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zyxciz]

I had another go at the flesh-light and it felt better this time around. I believe the reason I experienced such loss of sensation was because I used it almost immediately after removing the phallosan extender. While I'd still prefer to be uncircumcised, it's comforting to know that things aren't so bleak.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

When was the last time you had sex?

[Zyxciz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zyxciz]

When was the last time you had sex?

I'm a virgin.

[NOWHARD Banned Find all posts View Profile Close NOWHARD]

I'm a virgin.

O boy, you have got to get out there and get some action going and soon, find an older women who will show you the ropes.

NOWHARD

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

So guess what? The point of this thread is useless! You have no idea of what a woman feels like therefore you can't compare anything. Plus with these preconceived notion of the way sex must be or will be on your first time. Here's a secret every guy who's not a virgin knows; you'll stink your first time. Hell you won't be all that much better your second or third as well. You might start being decent by time 14.
Look if you keep thinking, keep analyzing about something you know nothing about you will be a virgin forever. Stop thinking and go out and be young.

[DickerSchwanz Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close DickerSchwanz]

Circumcision sucks especially if you know the difference. I would change it back if I could.
That said knowing both ways of having sex, sex is still good.

Of course if you have a rotating fleshlight with 1 million nipples which doesn't bitch around you might opt to not have the real deal lol

Seriously it will feel good just cause of the fact of having a real human close to you.

[djmotion Senior Member Member of the Month March 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close djmotion]

Circumcision sucks especially if you know the difference. I would change it back if I could.
That said knowing both ways of having sex, sex is still good.

Of course if you have a rotating fleshlight with 1 million nipples which doesn't bitch around you might opt to not have the real deal lol

Seriously it will feel good just cause of the fact of having a real human close to you.

See alot of people say it sucks but a lot of guys who have had Phimosis or other issues say it's the best choice they ever made. I definitely plan to get cut as I used to have Phimosis and cause of stretching the foreskin looks weird stuck behind the glans so I think for me it would be the right option.

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The thing you can try is masturbating with a feather light touch, add some baby or coconut oil, this is what a women will feel like or the next best thing, or try a melon, but the real thing your missing is the scent of a women, her hair, her body the smell of her vagina all mixed together, this is the thing that's a real turn on, like the first time you have oral sex, trying to get your tongue in her vagina as far as you can, and the next day that little bit of skin under your tongue will be split, and your go O yes I was told about this just like I was, and your never forget what it is for years to come.

You say you feel a bit on the thin size in your penis girth, so ok go get yourself an air pump, and slowly over the next months your gain girth, but just 20 minutes a day and it will grow and your gain, but use coconut oil on your penis daily, makes a very good penis skin health oil, may improve your skin on your gland.

NOWHARD

[Zyxciz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Zyxciz]

I spoke to my parents over the phone and I asked them about why they had me circumcised. Apparently they had the surgery done when I was a little over a year old. They explained that I had been complaining about pain in my penis and that I had also experienced difficulty urinating. They suspected that I had phimosis, took me to the doctor which recommended circumcision and so they had the surgery done. Seeing as it was for a medical reason, it feels a bit more reassuring. But I still believe that circumcision might not have been necessary, and certainly not to the degree that I underwent. I've read about cases where phimosis is resolved by itself by the time a child reaches the age of 7. But what do I know, maybe it was necessary.