Anal. What's the big deal?

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

When I was younger I was with a girl who wanted anal a couple of times. I gladly obliged and am happy to please my partner in many ways. But, for me, it was really no big deal and I didn't get any additional pleasure from it beyond providing her with something she enjoyed. I haven't done it since and my wife has no interest in it it whatsoever. That's perfectly fine with me.

So, my question: I've seen numerous posts from guys who say they'd prefer a partner who enjoys anal. Why is that? What makes it so desirable for you?

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

Well im not a guy but i would say its kinda feels more 'naughty' the piv sex

[djmotion Senior Member Member of the Month March 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close djmotion]

A girl taking it in the ass is more of a turn-on. Shows how naughty she is and not just that but asses are tighter around your dick so feels better.

[BigKnob Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close BigKnob]

Its a fetish, i eat ass too

[jp87 Member Find all posts View Profile Close jp87]

My ex wife was into it. Early on, she wanted it a lot. I was sort of indifferent about it. Our physical relationship was never that great. Now that I am with someone new I really want it. I was the first to eat her ass and now she loves it. We've talked about anal and I bought some training plugs. I am working toward it slowly, but surely.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Anal is tighter and stimulates the cock differently. Can't get her pregnant that way either. It's an extra feature that isn't available with all women. I like variety.

[Norfcountryboy Member Find all posts View Profile Close Norfcountryboy]

Not that bothered about giving a girl one up the arse now- there's enough men who've offered me their arses and they've got a prostrate gland up their to trigger "Assgasm". But when I was in my teens/ early 20's it was a big deal with a lot of my peer group. In England and Wales entering your wife through the back door was technically illegal due to some wierd legal anomally that's now being rectified [Ho ho!]. So it was taboo and therefore really attractive.

[theGOAT Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close theGOAT]

A cute beautiful innocent woman, with nice booty curves, being in ass down ass up position, taking your dick in the ass is a very big turn on for me.The tightness doesnt do it much for me, I mean yeah its tighter, and more stimulating but only at the initial penetration, usually I fuck my girl more deeply, and the pressure is at the mid-bottom part of the shaft, so I can last longer.I think its more of a mental thing.Also I my partner doesnt enjoy it, I dont enjoy it either, with my girl when we take our time and do it very slowly at the beginning, later on I can bang her ass balls deep hard and fast and she enjoys it very much, sometimes she screams out of pleasure.That is a big mental turn on.

[Norwaydude Senior Member Member of the Month Oct. 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Norwaydude]

My current gf loves it and we do it everyday when shes on her period. So thats a benefit that there is always a option. I myself really is no big fan. Even though i never Get shit on my dick yet. I cant help thinking of it. And there is also a risk of smell.. and all the hassle with lube and such. I do it to please her and she loves to orgasm while im in her ass. But i prefer the vagina if can choose. Great sex with her anyways.

[Norwaydude Senior Member Member of the Month Oct. 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close Norwaydude]

Btw love eating ass though.. you might say its contradictive. So be it.

[Johnny D ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Johnny D]

Yes, if she loves it, it's a turn on for me to please her. Otherwise, I'm indifferent to it. The few times I that I did do it to please her, I didn't find it to be any more physically pleasurable for myself. I don't necessarily desire a woman who likes anal and the fact that my wife doesn't makes no difference to me.

So...
It sounds as though for some of you, there's more physical stimulation. I can see that as a desire - I just didn't find that to be the case.
For others, there's a naughtiness to it that makes it enjoyable for you. I guess I'm not much into naughty, TBH, and didn't pick up on that aspect.

Pretty interesting feedback and insight. Thanks.

[Nightforce Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Nightforce]

My wife has only "half assed" tried (pun intended); pretty much gave up trying within 10 min and wouldn't relax. For me, it's the excitement of feeling I'm "in" her while she's also being pleased vaginally; if she was to like it, it's the thought of maximum pleasure for her. For the little bit I was able to do, it seemed that I had less head stimulation, more on the shaft which should mean I could last longer.

[ed_ten_72 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ed_ten_72]

Tried just a couple times with no particular results. But it was more of my idea than her. Is it possible for a woman to orgasm from it?

[Carguy88 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Carguy88]

It is possible. Not common from what I can tell, at least not without some kind of "reacharound", although some can go just from anal.

As for me? I dunno exactly why I like it so much and want it so much. Maybe it's that forbidden fruit thing. She doesn't like it unless drunk, then usually a finger or 2 is all.