Just venting

[lee52482 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lee52482]

This is my first post! I love this site! I'm about to start my JP's 90 day routine.
Anyway i just wanted to vent about something that happened to me the other day. I was in CVS with my g/f and i figured I would pick up some condoms for the night. Normally i use the Lifestyle SKYN condoms but i've heard that lambskin condoms let you feel more than any other condom. So i said f*ck it I'll try em' out. I pick up a box of Trojan Natural Lamb I go to the counter to pay for them a twix candy bar and some skittles (I had a sweet tooth). Anyway when the cashier rings me up she tell me $49 bucks. I look at her like she's crazy and asked her did she ring the condoms up twice? She shows me the item list and the condoms cost 45 bucks for a 12 pack! Suffice it to say i put them suckers back. I get home and look online to see if CVS lost their minds on this price! I found the same brand for 30 bucks online. Still expensive but its better than a dinner for 2 at Olive Garden (No alcohol and no tip of course). I'm going to keep shopping around other stores. I just thought it was ridiculous they tried to smack me in the head with such a price.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

Well, welcome to the Gym anyway!

[Flanker6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Flanker6]

Big store chains like to do that. I use a supplement called size on that is $80 at GNC. EIGHTY DOLLARS. Online you can easily find it at 40. Literally a 200% mark up. Luckily I'm good with the women who work there so I got it for 45 because she said there was some powder leaking over the sides, constituting a discount haha. Suffice to say I hate purchasing things over the web, but you won't find better deals anywhere else.

[lee52482 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lee52482]

Well, welcome to the Gym anyway!

Thanks Man!

[lee52482 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lee52482]

Big store chains like to do that. I use a supplement called size on that is $80 at GNC. EIGHTY DOLLARS. Online you can easily find it at 40. Literally a 200% mark up. Luckily I'm good with the women who work there so I got it for 45 because she said there was some powder leaking over the sides, constituting a discount haha. Suffice to say I hate purchasing things over the web, but you won't find better deals anywhere else.

I'm the same way. I like to have what i want at that moment. Waiting for it to ship is a pain. But your right in that it is cheaper online.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

I go to Giant Eagle and get a 12 pack of magnums for 8 something. Plus, they give me gas perks...

[lee52482 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lee52482]

I go to Giant Eagle and get a 12 pack of magnums for 8 something. Plus, they give me gas perks...

I'd get Magnums too if i was packing like you were! LOL! But I'm still a ways off, hence the JP 90 day routine.

[millia Senior Member;PEGym Editor Find all posts View Profile Close millia]

Man, I stick to the ultra-thin trojans. But I start off using no helmet, and then pad up when both of us want to let the fireworks off. This way is better. Can't wait for her to get on Birth Control.
I also saw the CVS price for the lamb skins.. Holy crap! I saw them suckers and nothing that's one time use is worth that. I'd much rather get some plastic wrap and use that. Or if the condom was like washable or something, sure, why not?

Online is the way to go, order it before you need it, keep it out of mind and it gets there in no time! Save mucho dinero that way.

[Snooze Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Snooze]

Save some money, pull out.

All joking aside, welcome.

[3rdLegParty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3rdLegParty]

Bump

I thought i'd come here and vent my mind is going a little wild right now lol

This girl and I started talking, met each other through mutual friends, and she was really cool. We were talking for a bit and then we stopped. We just stopped communicating there was no real reason why.

Recently we started talking again and man is this girl cool. She is so downtoearh and chill about everything. She hasn't had a real boyfriend yet and i have never had a real girlfriend either which is cool. It seems like every guy she has been with just wants to be with her for the sex. She has a thick body and her ass is pretty big. Anyways when we started back talking,texting, and while talking i was giving her compliments. i told her i wasn't trying to hit on her and that was the truth. She said it was cool and didn't seem to think much of it. I wasn't trying to be with her or nothing like that just wanted to hit her up.

We didn't talk for a few days and i thought about how such of beautiful person she is on the inside and out and how i want to start talking to her again seriously. This is the thing though now when we do talk and i give her compliments it seems like she gets turned off by it or something. I just figured that has to be what it is because when i give her a compliment she won't text me back for awhile or not at all sometimes. It just happened not to long ago.

I don't know what to do. I haven't felt this way about a female in so long, a few years i would say, and now that i do feel like this i don't want to mess it up and not have a chance of being with her.

Fuck i don't know what to do lol

[3rdLegParty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3rdLegParty]

ok so i kind of want to hit her up and apologize for the compliment i told her earlier if it bothered her. Would this be the right way to go or should i just leave it alone?

*A mod can move this to a different thread if that is where it belongs

[averageguy6 Member Find all posts View Profile Close averageguy6]

No you are acting iike a WUSS!!! Acting like this is a 100% sure fire way to push her away.

Stop calling her for several days....just wait for her to call you. If she does not then forget her.

Stop complimenting her all the time and DO NOT Apologize....YUK! WUSS WUSS WUSS! Can you imagine how that would sound if some chick said that to you....smothering you all the time with comments like "Ooo Iove your hair guy..." and then a day later saying "Oh, Im so sorry I told you I love you hair.." My God man....listen to yourself.

Act like a MAN...have some pride....dont act needy. Be in charge.

You have to bust on her now, not compliment her. You are proven that does not work.

BE COCKY AND FUNNY....works for me with my wife even after 22 years. Its genetically ingrained into women to want hard to get guys. Not wuss guys. This is serious. I ruined my life years ago in college acting like you are acting now. Shape up NOW!

Look up some courses about how to be cocky/funny on the internet. Good stuff all over the place to educate you on how to get dates...deal with early part of relationships etc.

[Miamihurricane Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Miamihurricane]

Lol,harsh, but I agree

[3rdLegParty Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 3rdLegParty]

No you are acting iike a WUSS!!! Acting like this is a 100% sure fire way to push her away.

Stop calling her for several days....just wait for her to call you. If she does not then forget her.

Stop complimenting her all the time and DO NOT Apologize....YUK! WUSS WUSS WUSS! Can you imagine how that would sound if some chick said that to you....smothering you all the time with comments like "Ooo Iove your hair guy..." and then a day later saying "Oh, Im so sorry I told you I love you hair.." My God man....listen to yourself.

Act like a MAN...have some pride....dont act needy. Be in charge.

You have to bust on her now, not compliment her. You are proven that does not work.

BE COCKY AND FUNNY....works for me with my wife even after 22 years. Its genetically ingrained into women to want hard to get guys. Not wuss guys. This is serious. I ruined my life years ago in college acting like you are acting now. Shape up NOW!

Look up some courses about how to be cocky/funny on the internet. Good stuff all over the place to educate you on how to get dates...deal with early part of relationships etc.

lol thanks i need that.. Her self esteem isn't that high and she thinks she is not pretty because she hasn't had a real relationship, that's where i mostly do the complimenting

I don't think she will hit me up because we just started talking, last week, and i already told her i was trying to hit on her hence i don't want a relationship but, i haven't mentioned anything about my mindset changing.

Still don't hit her up even though we just started talking??

I am confident and funny i have no problem in that department whatsoever. it just hit me out of nowhere that's all and im no where close to being used to feeling like this.

[lee52482 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lee52482]

lol thanks i need that.. Her self esteem isn't that high and she thinks she is not pretty because she hasn't had a real relationship, that's where i mostly do the complimenting

I don't think she will hit me up because we just started talking, last week, and i already told her i was trying to hit on her hence i don't want a relationship but, i haven't mentioned anything about my mindset changing.

Still don't hit her up even though we just started talking??

I am confident and funny i have no problem in that department whatsoever. it just hit me out of nowhere that's all and im no where close to being used to feeling like this.

If her self esteem is low no amount of compliments from you or anyone will change that. So stop. If you want to compliment her do it on your first date together. When you first see her and at the end of the date. That's it.

Don't call everyday. Give it 5 or 6 days at a time and only call during the week, never on the weekend. At this stage you should only be calling her to go out on a date not to chat and give compliments. About you and every other knuckle head is doing that. Be different. Make her wait, don't give compliments and for the love of god if you do go out on a date keep it light and funny.

Make sure she does most of the talking but nothing deep, just superfluous things like where she's from, what school did you attend etc. And let her talk 80% of the time.