How does a condom affect your abilities in bed?

[Liam Strong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Liam Strong]

Hey!

I am curious, since after i got out of a monogamous relationship, where she was taking the pill and i was able to go in raw after having a negative test for STDs from my doc, i noticed a huuuuuge increase in stamina.

Granted, the girl was also my type, but the main point was that i could just feel her much better.

I went from like 2-5 minutes with a condom on to almost 1 hour without one. Within a month or two. Seriously, wtf.
On top, there was no more "preparation barrier", and wherever we where, i could just start immediately.

Now I'm with a different girl who is technically bisexual with a strong preference for women and since i haven't done a new test for STDs and she doesn't want to take the pill for a casual relationship with a guy, naturally, i have to use a condom.
And bam.
Back to 2 minutes, max.
It’s seriously pissing me off. Not the fact that i have to use a condom. It's just common sense in terms of STDs and pregnancy prevention. But the fact that my prowess in bed goes down so significantly when i am using one. Wtf.

So, naturally I'm curious.

How does wearing a condom affect you guys in bed?

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

I'm the opposite. If I have a condom on I last far longer.

Married in a monogamous relationship, so we only use condoms if I am going to ejaculate. So not often.
But once in a while I know that it is due, so I start out with a condom, and then I last long enough to wear out the wife.

Before working on PreE, without condom I was good for 3-5 minutes. With condom 5 to 10.

After working on PreE, without condom I am good for 20-30 minutes. With condom over 30.

[Liam Strong Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Liam Strong]

Does your wife take the pill?

I always decide during the sex wether i want to ejaculate or not, but i never do so inside of a woman. Not even when she is taking the pill. I am wearing the condom purely for the loads of pre-cum that builds up during the foreplay and while having sex.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

No,

The wife does not use the pill. I don't ejaculate inside her, and I do not worry much about the pre-cum because she is getting near the end of her 40s. And I use the rhythm method.