How do you orgasm?

[7sDoor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7sDoor]

I have been struggling with premature ejaculation for most of my life...I am 43. I have had some mild ED over the past few years and I am trying to improve things.

One thing I notice is that when I masturbate with my hand, I am able to stroke my cock all the way up to and through orgasm and ejaculation. However, I notice that when I am in my wife’s vagina or my Fleshlight, I find that my glans gets very sensitive as I start approaching the PONR. As a result, it gets too sensitive and I end up having to stop thrusting inside her before I truly hit my climax and I end up cumming without any movement from my cock. I feel like this is robbing me of a good, intense orgasm and is probably a result of my premature ejaculation. Therefore, I am going to get working with my Fleshlight to improve this.

So, how about everyone else? Are you able to pump your cock all the way through your orgasm? Or do you get too sensitive and have to stop before you truly reach climax?

[DrCaspyr Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DrCaspyr]

Based on the prevailing experience I have heard other guys talk about, as well as porn, it seems that the usual is ever accelerated thrusts followed by ejac/orgasm, followed by super sensitivity. I've always thought I was a bit odd in this respect in the opposite direction from your experience 7sDoor, but I pump all the way through and enjoy continuing to pump well beyond ejaculation and orgasm. That being said, I usually lasted about 3 to 10 minutes max. Stamina training has improved my ability to control, but I am no master by any means.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Sounds like you could benifit from relaxing your pelvic floor.

[7sDoor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7sDoor]

Sounds like you could benifit from relaxing your pelvic floor.

Yeah, probably. I’m hoping the Fleshlight training will help with that.

[VirgilD5to6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VirgilD5to6]

As Pegasus suggested, you need to train your PF.

Since I started training, the orgasms I achieve are like girl's orgasms. I have an intense one when receiving oral - muscle spasms, intense af, very hard to achieve by edging ( did it a few tiimes). The con is that I don't feel anything in my brain, it is just like a muscle tension release. Other orgasm is the normal dry orgasm (brain orgasm), which results from careful thrusting around the PONR and never hitting it (by speeding up, I definitely hit and ejaculate - and the orgasm just lasts 5 seconds). It requires a lot of training to actually know when the DO is coming, and with properly trained PF, you can stop yourself from ejaculating and enjoy the orgasm. This will allow you to continue and maintain your erection. (I still haven't done that, as my PF is not ready for that yet).

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

I have many brain orgasms during thrusting and stimulation. It just feels incredible now. During ejac I have a full body/brain orgasm. For the longest time it was not like this.. it just used to be basically nothing until I ejac'd. Meh.

Train and become one with your PF.

I pump through my orgasms.

[7sDoor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7sDoor]

As Pegasus suggested, you need to train your PF.

So, how do you train your PF? Kegels? Reverse kegels? Is there more you can do beyond that?

[7sDoor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7sDoor]

I have many brain orgasms during thrusting and stimulation. It just feels incredible now. During ejac I have a full body/brain orgasm. For the longest time it was not like this.. it just used to be basically nothing until I ejac'd. Meh.

Train and become one with your PF.

I pump through my orgasms.

That’s awesome Jay! I would love to get to that point, sounds incredible! I have also heard that foreskin restoration can help bring on more full-body orgasms.

[VirgilD5to6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VirgilD5to6]

So, how do you train your PF? Kegels? Reverse kegels? Is there more you can do beyond that?

Read the DO guide by Minuteman. You can do more (in the stickies) - hindi squats, yoga poses, etc.

[7sDoor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7sDoor]

Read the DO guide by Minuteman. You can do more (in the stickies) - hindi squats, yoga poses, etc.

Thanks Virgil! I’ll check it out.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

That’s awesome Jay! I would love to get to that point, sounds incredible! I have also heard that foreskin restoration can help bring on more full-body orgasms.

I've also dabbled in FR over the years, now a CI-4 I want to say. I believe it could also be a contributing factor to the mind blowing stimulation, although I believe the PF fix is majority of it.

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I've also dabbled in FR over the years, now a CI-4 I want to say. I believe it could also be a contributing factor to the mind blowing stimulation, although I believe the PF fix is majority of it.

It’s funny, I hadn’t thought much about foreskin restoration before. I was actually a little proud of the way my circumcised penis looked. Then, I noticed I was getting more slack skin just from my Bathmate. I read a little more about FR and realized that it could be a good thing. I am mostly just dabbling as well and tugging when I feel like it, but a little bit more coverage couldn’t hurt.