Whats the point?

[Sparky19 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sparky19]

Anxiety is a bitch .
Funny how it finds some point of focus . So whatever you feel is a weak point your own inner anxiety will work with .

you're completely right man, I've tried meditation, but its not working out too well for me unfortunately

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Yes, seek and start getting some therapy/help. There have many before you having similar feelings, outlook, self imposed roadblocks in life. Your partner can have a completely different thinking about you and your size, and you might be the only one putting yourself at a disadvantage.

you're completely right, thanks for your feedback, i'm actively trying to get therapy its just been really hard to book an appointment cause everyone has lost their minds during this pandemic

appreciate the feedback

[TeoDeles Senior Member Member of the Month July 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TeoDeles]

I've tried daily kegals

20 a day every morning for 3-4 weeks

I've tried jelqing

warmup 5minutes with a warm cloth
O.K grip 5 second reps for about 15minutes on repeat
warm down 5 minutes
did this for about a month and a half consistently, saw no results and gave up

i tried the bath made water pump, the hydromax or some shit, its a blue bottle

this didn't do anything for me, if anything it actually just hurt, my dick would shrink after I would use it if anything...

According to what you said... you have NOT done any PE in your life.
1 month of Jelqing can NOT produce gains because it needs a lot more months to yield results. Its like telling us that you went to the gym for 1 month and you didn t grow big muscles. Its completely natural.... PE take YEARS.
Pumps are NOT a way to grow your dick... most of cases are failures, especially when they were NOT combined with other PE methods.

IF you really want to grow your dick then you need to understand that you have to be IN LOVE with PE and make it a part of your life... otherwise you will not stick to it.
My recommendation is to buy yourself a good extender and start from there.
Plenty of threads about extenders... so use the "search" option of the site and do your homework.

Also read this thread cause it will teach you how to think about extending,

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-d...mal-gains.html

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According to what you said... you have NOT done any PE in your life.
1 month of Jelqing can NOT produce gains because it needs a lot more months to yield results. Its like telling us that you went to the gym for 1 month and you didn t grow big muscles. Its completely natural.... PE take YEARS.
Pumps are NOT a way to grow your dick... most of cases are failures, especially when they were NOT combined with other PE methods.

I understand, its just theres so much mixed information about PE in general and i've even spoken to a urologist about it who advised me against it, so seeing no results after a month just killed it for me. I'll try and get a routine going this week hopefully

about the extender, is there any you personally recommend?
I clicked on a link about an extender through the PEgym site like 6-7 months ago, and it actually gave me a very weird popup/malware so hopefully you have a recommendation that isn't a virus

thank you for the advice, its most appreciated.

[VirgilD5to6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VirgilD5to6]

Teo said it. You haven;t done any PE. That's nothing. kegels???
DO the PE90 routine, with the bathmate of 20mins daily. DO that for at least 5 months, and report back in.
I guarantee you will get at least 1" of length. Your girth is beyond average, wish I had ur girth.

[TeoDeles Senior Member Member of the Month July 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TeoDeles]

I ll tell you some stuff now BUT do not get offended... my purpose is NOT to offend you but to wake you up!

You can whine all day till the day you die that you have a small dick... or you can do something about it ( I mean PE ).
It seems from the things you post that you do not have the mentality of doing PE.
You just did 1,5 month of Jelqing and because you didn t gain you imediately thought that PE doesn t work and you stopped it.
You are waiting for ready answers about what program to follow INSTEAD of starting to read EVERY SINGLE thread and post about peoples cases and what they did and what they didn t in order to gain.

Instead of being hungry from making your dick bigger , all you do is losing more time from starting PE.
If you do not change this mentality I can assure you that you will be in this state ( dick size and depression) for ever.
You asked me to suggest a good extender when all you had to do is use the "search" option of the the site and type something like " best extender to use".
We can not take you by your hand and teach you everything... and certaintly we can not do the PE program for you.

If you ever want to grow your dick you have to do 2 things
1. Read every possible thread in this forum and learn everything about optimal PE ( in simple words gather the knowledge)
2. Fall in love with PE and be eager to do your PE program every day that you wake up.

Its just your choice... No one can stop you except yourself.

When you will gather all the basic knowledge ( that seems clearly that you haven t even bother to do it) then we are here for you to help you with the details.

In am from Greece and we have a saying here for your type of people.
In free tranclation is : Pray to God but also move your hands! ( meaning that don t rely only on the prayers but also take action and do something about the thing that is bothering you).

Now shake your head and cut the crap... man up and take actions for your own shake! You are still very young and in 2 years from now if you do all correct and be consistent you will enjoy a bigger dick

[Sparky19 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sparky19]

Teo said it. You haven;t done any PE. That's nothing. kegels???
DO the PE90 routine, with the bathmate of 20mins daily. DO that for at least 5 months, and report back in.
I guarantee you will get at least 1" of length. Your girth is beyond average, wish I had ur girth.

my girth is actually 4.0 inches, I made a typo, you can see my real stats on my original post

as for the bathmate, I think mines broken for some reason, the last few times I tried it the pressure would just cease and the water would all fly out

Ill try the PE90 routine thanks for the advice

[Sparky19 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sparky19]

I ll tell you some stuff now BUT do not get offended... my purpose is NOT to offend you but to wake you up!

You can whine all day till the day you die that you have a small dick... or you can do something about it ( I mean PE ).
It seems from the things you post that you do not have the mentality of doing PE.
You just did 1,5 month of Jelqing and because you didn t gain you imediately thought that PE doesn t work and you stopped it.
You are waiting for ready answers about what program to follow INSTEAD of starting to read EVERY SINGLE thread and post about peoples cases and what they did and what they didn t in order to gain.

Instead of being hungry from making your dick bigger , all you do is losing more time from starting PE.
If you do not change this mentality I can assure you that you will be in this state ( dick size and depression) for ever.
You asked me to suggest a good extender when all you had to do is use the "search" option of the the site and type something like " best extender to use".
We can not take you by your hand and teach you everything... and certaintly we can not do the PE program for you.

If you ever want to grow your dick you have to do 2 things
1. Read every possible thread in this forum and learn everything about optimal PE ( in simple words gather the knowledge)
2. Fall in love with PE and be eager to do your PE program every day that you wake up.

Its just your choice... No one can stop you except yourself.

Ironically, ego ema elinas!!
I'm greek also LOL, amazing, i'm not crazy fluent though but I can get around and speak broken Greek


You're right, i should stop being a bitch and grab myself from the manscaped cahoonas and get my shit together

Thank you for the enlightenment Teo!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Ironically, ego ema elinas!!
I'm greek also LOL, amazing, i'm not crazy fluent though but I can get around and speak broken Greek


You're right, i should stop being a bitch and grab myself from the manscaped cahoonas and get my shit together

Thank you for the enlightenment Teo!

Great idea!