Women in Skimpy Clothes

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

OK, I'm guessing most of you like to see women in skimpy clothes. But how many of you guys like your wife/gf going out wearing skimpy/sexy clothes? Does it matter if you are with them or if they're out without you along? Do you buy them skimpy outfits to wear outside the home? Do you like it when other guys ogle your sexy gf/wife, or do you get jealous? Are you comfortable if she likes being ogled in a sexy outfit? If you're a woman, do you like this?

I've always liked the woman I'm with to look hot when we go out - and they've always liked that I like it. Suiting the occasion, of course, so probably not at a funeral! And I'm the one that usually buys them their most provocative outfits. Hell, this weekend we're going to a nude resort, so she'll be partying naked for most of the next three days. Funny thing is, they have special events/parties at some of these resorts so the women can wear their sexy outfits instead of being naked.

Curious what others think about this.

[MalikMasvidal Member Find all posts View Profile Close MalikMasvidal]

I wouldn't let my girl go out in revealing outfits, she's my woman, if she respects me she's not going to try to impress other men, just as I wouldn't try to get the attention of other women. There are some women that belong to the streets, thats their choice.

I also try my best not to check out other women when I'm out, I feel its crucial to respecting your girl, and I don't see the benefit in it because really how different is that to porn, when you're ogling and getting aroused by a woman that you likely don't know, have no emotional connection to, can't touch, and won't even have sex with.

[BiggerDB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BiggerDB]

I wouldn't let my girl go out in revealing outfits, she's my woman, if she respects me she's not going to try to impress other men, just as I wouldn't try to get the attention of other women. There are some women that belong to the streets, thats their choice.

I also try my best not to check out other women when I'm out, I feel its crucial to respecting your girl, and I don't see the benefit in it because really how different is that to porn, when you're ogling and getting aroused by a woman that you likely don't know, have no emotional connection to, can't touch, and won't even have sex with.

I used to feel that way but IMO it's more about my girl wearing what she wants and what makes her feel confident and sexy. If I'm going out I want to look good because it makes me feel hot and confident and I want my girl to feel the same way. I never would tell her what to wear but she does like to be shown off and I like showing her off so skimpy/sexy outfits are always encouraged! But sometimes she puts on some weird goofy looking hippie shit and I think that's cool too, the important thing to me is that she wears what makes her happy.

Then again my girl also is cool with me checking out other girls and she likes to check out girls to so we do it together

[tara123 Member Find all posts View Profile Close tara123]

I like to be noticed but not ogled. Maybe thats a contradiction?!

Sexy clothes is subjective. I'm rather curvy so alot of my clothes can be suggestive.

I pretty much only wear dresses which are either to the knee or if to thigh, I wear with tights.

I should say I never consider men when dressing but I do think how will other women perceive me.

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

I used to feel that way but IMO it's more about my girl wearing what she wants and what makes her feel confident and sexy. If I'm going out I want to look good because it makes me feel hot and confident and I want my girl to feel the same way. I never would tell her what to wear but she does like to be shown off and I like showing her off so skimpy/sexy outfits are always encouraged! But sometimes she puts on some weird goofy looking hippie shit and I think that's cool too, the important thing to me is that she wears what makes her happy.

Then again my girl also is cool with me checking out other girls and she likes to check out girls to so we do it together

Pretty much the same here. She's sexy and likes to look sexy. Couldn't imagine trying to control what she wears, that's her choice. I trust her and know she's not doing it to attract another mate. She looks at girls more than guys and will even point out other hot women for me to notice.

Just thought of something as I hit enter - my gf has a hot friend who's husband won't let her dress even the least bit sexy. Several times she's come over to our place before she and my gf go out and changes out of her frumpy clothes into something hot, or maybe one of my gf's sexy outfits. When they get back to our place, she changes back into her other clothes to go home. Kind of makes me sad they have that kind of relationship.

[MPolo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close MPolo]

I had always thought I would not like it, but then one of my gfs, who was very flat-chested, used to go out braless all the time. Unexpectedly I ended up really getting turned on knowing guys and other women were checking out her chest, looking down her shirt etc... It gave her a tremendous amount of positive feedback, and confidence. She really embraced the fact she had small boobs, and I felt kind of proud of that. We figured that the pokies she had from her braless A cups in a tight t-shirt or tank top were getting her as much attention as the women who had D cups, haha. Since then I have always appreciated if a woman has the confidence to go out braless. I think it is super sexy. I think it takes an amount of courage to do that also.

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I had always thought I would not like it, but then one of my gfs, who was very flat-chested, used to go out braless all the time. Unexpectedly I ended up really getting turned on knowing guys and other women were checking out her chest, looking down her shirt etc... It gave her a tremendous amount of positive feedback, and confidence. She really embraced the fact she had small boobs, and I felt kind of proud of that. We figured that the pokies she had from her braless A cups in a tight t-shirt or tank top were getting her as much attention as the women who had D cups, haha. Since then I have always appreciated if a woman has the confidence to go out braless. I think it is super sexy. I think it takes an amount of courage to do that also.

Good for her! I had a gf a bunch of years ago who was pretty flat-chested (A cup). She was really self-conscious about it until she had the same experiences as your gf. Her boobs were small, but really perky and going braless, she just looked hot. Got to where she ditched the idea of getting a boob job when she realized how many guys like nice small boobies with perky nipples.

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Good for her! I had a gf a bunch of years ago who was pretty flat-chested (A cup). She was really self-conscious about it until she had the same experiences as your gf. Her boobs were small, but really perky and going braless, she just looked hot. Got to where she ditched the idea of getting a boob job when she realized how many guys like nice small boobies with perky nipples.

Small boobs are SO under-appreciated, IMO, haha...

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

My wife has no reason to dress sexy but if she goes out with her friends, I don't expect her to wear clothes she doesn't feel good about. She knows how to dress sexy with class.

Ultimately, I trust her so I don't get too hung up on it but then again it is easy because she has never been one to dress to attract guys, she has a curvy bod so she looks good in jeans and a T in my opinion.

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Small boobs are SO under-appreciated, IMO, haha...

true...its not the size, its how it all goes together. I have seen very sexy women wit A cups all the way to D and double D

[ihatepain Member Find all posts View Profile Close ihatepain]

I wouldn't like my wife or girlfriend to wear revealing sexy clothes. My girlfriend doesn't like to dress in that way so that's a good thing. I wouldn't really care if it was a random date and i was single. I've noticed that some engaged girls dress in a revealing way to get attention from other guys and even cheat on their boyfriends/husbands. That happened to my roommate and it's still happening. He got cheated on and she's still trying to the get the attention of other dudes. That's the reason i would skip on a girl like that to be my future wife.

[MalikMasvidal Member Find all posts View Profile Close MalikMasvidal]

I wouldn't like my wife or girlfriend to wear revealing sexy clothes. My girlfriend doesn't like to dress in that way so that's a good thing. I wouldn't really care if it was a random date and i was single. I've noticed that some engaged girls dress in a revealing way to get attention from other guys and even cheat on their boyfriends/husbands. That happened to my roommate and it's still happening. He got cheated on and she's still trying to the get the attention of other dudes. That's the reason i would skip on a girl like that to be my future wife.

Ya I think thats a good point. I don't see, letting your girl show off to others, that far off from cuckoldry, because if you let others sexualize your women and mentally undress her, then after that the boundaries to whats considered cuckolding get really hazy, it gets difficult to justify the next levels being very different from what you're already doing. The jealousy a man has for his women is inherent to a mans nature, and its there for a purpose, its absurd that its shunned in our culture today, as being "controlling" or whatever, and instead the opposite is pushed.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Truth is both men and women should dress a bit more traditionally. We can not blame women for today's style of dress. The blame falls directly on men.

When we sat back and let feminism be forced upon our nation and also in other western nations the men did nothing.

Weak men allowed this to happen. That is a fact.

[ihatepain Member Find all posts View Profile Close ihatepain]

I believe that most men don't like their wife or girlfriend wearing short and revealing clothes. I will give another example with my roommate. His wife told him that she cheated on him because he didn't propose her. lol Really? And she's still wearing revealing clothes and showing off on social media. He is the reason that his wife is continuously looking for attention from other men. I would never be with a girl like that. She never bothers to listen to him because she doesn't respect him as a man.

[MalikMasvidal Member Find all posts View Profile Close MalikMasvidal]

wait, she cheated because he didn't propose, and he went ahead anyway, proposed to her, and married her?