I have sons and I plan to tell them about PE when they are mature enough. However, I don't yet have a plan as to how I will tell them.
Just giving each Aaron's book is a very appealing approach.
Cowardly, perhaps, but certainly appealing.
Pirate Diplomacy:
The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.
Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.
It would be nice to be that open and to make that information available should he want it but how could you do so without implying that he needs it? I wouldn't want to pass on the same insecurities that I have.
As a nineteen year old, I can't imagine my father even trying to talk to me about PE a few years back, just weird.
But growing up we never talked about things like puberty or stuff like that so if your open with your kids about other similar things then it probably won't come across as an insult to his manhood or an awkward situation between the two of you.
It would be nice to be that open and to make that information available should he want it but how could you do so without implying that he needs it? I wouldn't want to pass on the same insecurities that I have.
I have that concern but figure that I will approach it from a Penis Health point of view.
Pirate Diplomacy:
The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.
Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.
I have that concern but figure that I will approach it from a Penis Health point of view.
That's a great idea. If you can be open with talking about your penises and sexual health then that's a good way to approach it. The only issue I can see is when you say something like, "kegeling helped improve my stamina a lot. Your mother loved it when I could bang her for hours..."
It would be nice to be that open and to make that information available should he want it but how could you do so without implying that he needs it? I wouldn't want to pass on the same insecurities that I have.
You could just say "this helped me, if you want to know more, you can ask me, i did this for [insert your amount of experience] years & you should know it's real" then hand him the book. You could add "this is not just about making it bigger, but about taking care of your health, so I feel you may find this useful"
In school we are taught to work out so we can make our muscles bigger if we want. Letting your son be aware that we can also 'exercise our penis' is not necessarily a bad thing. Just a very awkward thing for most guys to talk about.
I think sons will find it more awkward than fathers...
That's a great idea. If you can be open with talking about your penises and sexual health then that's a good way to approach it. The only issue I can see is when you say something like, "kegeling helped improve my stamina a lot. Your mother loved it when I could bang her for hours..."
Good point. That might be a tad awkward.
Pirate Diplomacy:
The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.
Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.
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