Reprogramming your negative beliefs.

[aidan784 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close aidan784]

Have you ever seen the ex-member dustpan's sig? I think he went from 3.875 EG to 6.375. It's all possible. And who's to say you need that much?
But this thread isn't just about dick size, I'd still suggest you're thankful that you know you can do something about it!

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

Have you ever seen the ex-member dustpan's sig? I think he went from 3.875 EG to 6.375. It's all possible. And who's to say you need that much?
But this thread isn't just about dick size, I'd still suggest you're thankful that you know you can do something about it!

MAYBE, I can do something about it. Lots of people only gain .15-.2" girth and stay there. And who knows if the gains would be permanent? Having a girth as small is mine is a rare disappointment; put yourself in my shoes, you must see a reason why I don't feel much hope. I read somewhere that the average 13-14 year old boy is larger than me. That is damn disheartening.

[aidan784 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close aidan784]

While I obviously can't put myself in your shoes and understand that personally, I understand the feelings of inadequacy. I also do understand focusing on the negative, we've all been there. A lot of guys have also gained over an inch in girth, as much as physiology might affect that, your mindset will as well.

It seems like you're boiling your whole life down to your dick though, but if you've been here for more than 5 minutes you'll realise that despite the nature of the site every man here realises that we shouldn't equate ourselves to our dick.

Perhaps you would benefit from the 'thankful' exercise as suggested in this thread. I'm thankful I found PE ...

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

There are lots of things I could say I'm thankful for, but honestly, they don't make me happy anymore. To be completely honest, the only thing I'm thankful for is that one day I will die and this will end.

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

It seems like you're boiling your whole life down to your dick though, but if you've been here for more than 5 minutes you'll realise that despite the nature of the site every man here realises that we shouldn't equate ourselves to our dick.

Maybe they really feel that way, but it seems like it would be so much easier to say that when you are average or above (or even close to average). I'm sure if I gained a lot I could look back and see it differently, but you never know until you're at that low point. I already feel inferior to most everyone else, this just makes it 10x worse.

It also seems to me like very few people gain 1" girth. Maybe if you are already at a high girth it is harder to gain? The popular survey said that on average guys gained 0.5" in girth in a few months or something, but looking at signatures, that doesn't seem to be the case. Hopefully if I beat depression (I think high cortisol levels are blocking gains) I can try it for myself. I have plenty of time as it were.

Sorry to derail the thread btw.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Bah, none of that will work for me. I am too small to be truly happy.

Aiden is right its a mind set thing... if you believe their is no hope then there is no hope .. All you need in life is a foundation to build on .. you have the foundation, you have a solid 3.7... you have the information to achieve what your goals are .. now you need to believe you can.. the things that are worth the most are the things that you have to work at.. once you start building the penis of your dreams your confidence and belief in yourself will grow.. there are many men on here who have started at the same size as you .. there is a smaller penis group for members who are in the same position as you .

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

Aiden is right its a mind set thing... if you believe their is no hope then there is no hope .. All you need in life is a foundation to build on .. you have the foundation, you have a solid 3.7... you have the information to achieve what your goals are .. now you need to believe you can.. the things that are worth the most are the things that you have to work at.. once you start building the penis of your dreams your confidence and belief in yourself will grow.. there are many men on here who have started at the same size as you .. there is a smaller penis group for members who are in the same position as you .

Lol, if I have a foundation at my size, then who doesn't have a foundation?

Thank you for the kind words; my worry is that I will gain a bit and then stop like I've seen in so many of the forums. Maybe I am looking at the wrong statistics, maybe being smaller gives you more potential growth. I'm not giving up yet though, and it's a bit bigger than 3.7", it's 3.7" at the tip, 3.90-3.95" mid, and 3.85ish at base. My EQ is low right now, so it might be a bit bigger naturally. Who knows what massive dperession/anxiety is doing or has done in that respect.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

by gain a bit then stop do you mean your growth or your motivation?

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

by gain a bit then stop do you mean your growth or your motivation?

growth

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Well the thing with that is any sort of growth is a good thing ...so if it goes through a plateau you still have what you achieved .. the body does go through plateaus and if you continue with the work out it will eventually start showing the reward of growth again

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

I've been looking for guys <4" girth. Not many here, but only one gained a whole lot in girth. This 0.5" average girth gain just seems bogus to me.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

You have to remember that each guy will not be doing the exact same routine or putting the same amount of time into it.. and all guys have different body structures etc etc .

if you aren't willing to try then you are quitting out of fear of disappointment
what is the worst that can happen from putting in the effort?

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

The worst that can happen is I only gain .1 - .2" in girth and plateau for good. Sure that's okay, but that puts me at what, 4 - 4.1"? In fact, that's what I see consistently in the progress forums, they gain ~.2" in girth and don't report any more gains.

I already watched myself gain .15 - .2" in girth. I remember seeing an old picture of it and thinking how small if was in comparison. Then I got depressed and lost it all (I gained that much in only 2 weeks). .2" is nice to have, but if that's all I can have (possibly), it's not so exciting.

I am willing to try, and I hope I will be a lucky one, but I'm so pessimistic by nature that starting off way behind everyone else makes it hard.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

AS a female i can tell you that small penises do have their advantages and you can still have a very satisfying sex life.. and women will still want you regardless of the measurements.. i understand the esteem side of it being wrapped in inches or points of inches... but i just want you to know that your penis is not all you have to offer someone .. don't compare yourself to others, very few men are happy with their cocks regardless of the size.. the difference is a lot of men believe in the rest of themselves and are willing to work at the thing that makes them feel insecure...

you gained that much in a short time .. short gains are not always solid gains persistence is the key... until you appreciate the smaller things in life you will not be happy.. any gain is a good gain and if you achieved it once it means you can achieve it again.

[ktc0905 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ktc0905]

AS a female i can tell you that small penises do have their advantages and you can still have a very satisfying sex life.. and woman will still want you regardless of the measurements.. i understand the esteem side of it being wrapped in inches or points of inches... but i just want you to know that your penis is not all you have to offer someone .. don't compare yourself to others very few men are happy with their cocks regardless of the size.. the difference is a lot of men believe in the rest of themselves and are willing to work at the thing that makes them feel insecure...

you gained that much in a short time .. short gains are not always solid gains persistence is the key... until you appreciate the smaller things in life you will not be happy.. any gain is a good gain and if you achieved it once it means you can achieve it again.

Thank you again. I'm very depressed today with nothing to do so I'm trying to remain talkative on the internet as much as I can. If I don't I will be slowly killing myself like all the other bad days I had when I sat around and did nothing.

When I made my gains I was happy at first, I thought it looked pretty good and much more healthy. I had erections like I never had in my life. But at some point I just started to think it still wasn't big enough. Looking back, I don't think many girls would have complained if I still had those gains, whatever the size was (I didn't measure).

I've tried to regain it a couple of times, but no luck. I think something is physically blocking it. As an aside, I also get very dizzy and lose vision when I stand up after sitting nowadays, maybe it is related? Maybe high blood pressure is keeping me down?