Perception.......!!!!

[Pilot Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Pilot]

I bought a realistic cock vibrator for my girlfriend , cyberskin UR3 , its an amazing tool and she loves it !!!!!!!!!!Ofcourse i took it and i put it next to my cock and suprisingly i saw that i have the same size in length with that thing and almost the same girth , cause the vibrator is at 6 inches and i am at 5.8inch.....but it looked almost the same...

It is very strange because when i look that 7 inch realistic cock looks 2 times bigger than my cock...but when compared ...its the same....

Wondering if that what we see is not what we really have...meaning ,,,,we always look at our cock from top....and thats the only angle we can see...plus we cant feel how it feels inside a vagina(pussy )......

So do we really know what we have ????

My girlfriend always says that my cock is big....but i dont see that big.....

I am 7inches long when erect and 5.8inch girth......It is a normal cock...but not huge !!!!!!

So what you think ?We dont know how big our cock is.......or how it really looks like , untill someone says...WOW its big...!!!

Perspective...Angle view....!!!!!

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

7x5.8 is actually pretty big, both length and girth are above average by about an inch each.

It's also pretty common for guys to think their cock appears much larger when viewed sideways from a mirror as opposed to looking straight down. It's a matter of angles, in porn they use the most flattering angles to make a cock look huge, whereas looking straight down is probably one of the least flattering angles.

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7x5.8 is big for a women who has had 6x4. But a big penis is really when it is visibly..BIG and that happens at 10x7 or about. Women can take that shit too, well, i've seen in porn before lol. I'm sorry though I will not convince myself that 6 is big and I have never had a womon say it is big

[Wazza Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Wazza]

7x5.8 is big for a women who has had 6x4. But a big penis is really when it is visibly..BIG and that happens at 10x7 or about. Women can take that shit too, well, i've seen in porn before lol. I'm sorry though I will not convince myself that 6 is big and I have never had a womon say it is big

I disagree. 7 X 6 (I would just round it up if I was you. Add some confidence. On a good, super turned on EQ day it is definitely there) is big. There is no doubt about it. There are lots of girls out there who cannot fit THAT, let alone 10 X 7.

Sure, porn stars can all fit a dick that big. But that is because that is their job. A lot goes into fitting a dick that big. They need to have very loose, stretchy/elastic muscles around and inside the vagina; plus experience. There are girls out there who are naturally able to fit one that big but I doubt that MOST (90%) can do so comfortably.

Even 6 inches is big, depending on what you are comparing it to. Size is all relative my friend.

[Unit Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Unit]

7x5.8 is big for a women who has had 6x4. But a big penis is really when it is visibly..BIG and that happens at 10x7 or about. Women can take that shit too, well, I've seen in porn before lol. I'm sorry though I will not convince myself that 6 is big and I have never had a woman say it is big

10" X 7" That is very close to stacking two 12 ounce cans of Coke. Looking at that, I can not imagine an average woman looking at that and thinking that would be anything but painful.

I'm moving this thread to the Gym Forum.

[cavallogrosso Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cavallogrosso]

pilot you have 7 BPEL or NBPEL? in the second case is big, end of period.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

10" X 7" That is very close to stacking two 12 ounce cans of Coke. Looking at that, I can not imagine an average woman looking at that and thinking that would be anything but painful.

[Drew Carey Member Find all posts View Profile Close Drew Carey]

I'm approx 5.5 eg and i literally could barely get it in her for 3 months, took a lot of lube and prodding to stretch that mofo out. When it fell out i had to relube and it still took a minute to get it in.

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sure a lot of girls wouldn't take that and I definately would'nt want that big even if it was poss without steroids(yes those porn monsters are on them). I only say 10x7 as I think in reality that IS BIG. But so is 9x5 and that is my goal. And they will take what they get damn it! If I was 7x4 I would still want a big penis.

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sure a lot of girls wouldn't take that and I definately would'nt want that big even if it was poss without steroids(yes those porn monsters are on them). I only say 10x7 as I think in reality that IS BIG. But so is 9x5 and that is my goal. And they will take what they get damn it! If I was 7x4 I would still want a big penis.

you need to understand that your visions of a big dick are distorted, maybe from porn, 7x5.8 is a very good size and bigger than average. If you had a 10 by 7 odds are unless you worked porn your sex life would be less than great unless you found a very rare gal, most wouldnt want that all the way in and couldnt handle it. If your goal is too keep having sex where you get to put it half way in than go for it.

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7x5.8 is actually pretty big, both length and girth are above average by about an inch each.

It's also pretty common for guys to think their cock appears much larger when viewed sideways from a mirror as opposed to looking straight down. It's a matter of angles, in porn they use the most flattering angles to make a cock look huge, whereas looking straight down is probably one of the least flattering angles.

yep

[Rando Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Rando]

I'm always a bit confused about the guys with 6 inches girth who get called small or think they're small. The general consensus seems to be that about 5.5 inches girth is about the optimal girth for pleasing a woman (not being to big that it's painful, but not too small) as well as still being able to receive oral. I guess maybe they were with women with unusually large vaginas. I have about an average sized dick, 6.5x4.8, but assuming I ever reach 5.5 girth, I think once I got there I would focus only on length from then on.

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I'm always a bit confused about the guys with 6 inches girth who get called small or think they're small. The general consensus seems to be that about 5.5 inches girth is about the optimal girth for pleasing a woman (not being to big that it's painful, but not too small) as well as still being able to receive oral. I guess maybe they were with women with unusually large vaginas. I have about an average sized dick, 6.5x4.8, but assuming I ever reach 5.5 girth, I think once I got there I would focus only on length from then on.

It all goes back to perception. What do we have to compare ourselves against? We really only see ourselves from one, maybe two angles. It's hard to say what is big and what isn't when you don't have a benchmark you can view and feel.

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I like the perception of thrusting half in and have her thinking "oh, it's soo big. I wonder if I can take the whole thing." No, my views are not distorted and it is a good thing to have very big guys to to look up to - wheather porn or not. Being said though it is better to aim high than have a goal of 8 imo. But I will not go on PE for more than 3years from now if I am not 10x6, cause if it that is poss in the time then I will try. My real goal is 9x5 though. I know this is not all about me but I speed type so get carried away in posts lol..... I might do porn myself in the future if I am unhappy with things, and you know what some vbig guys earn.

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I like the perception of thrusting half in and have her thinking "oh, it's soo big. I wonder if I can take the whole thing." No, my views are not distorted and it is a good thing to have very big guys to to look up to - wheather porn or not. Being said though it is better to aim high than have a goal of 8 imo. But I will not go on PE for more than 3years from now if I am not 10x6, cause if it that is poss in the time then I will try. My real goal is 9x5 though. I know this is not all about me but I speed type so get carried away in posts lol..... I might do porn myself in the future if I am unhappy with things, and you know what some vbig guys earn.

LOL - some of that was very incoherent but I get your drift. Aim high - if you make it, great. If not, at least you'll be bigger than where you started.