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During foreplay or sex i tend to lose my erections quickly if i get too focused on pleasing her and sometimes even when she jerks me or puts my penis in her mouth it takes a long time for me to get hard. Can anyone help me with this? Anything you guys take for better erections that last? Thanks a lot. I think it my be psychological as I am still young but any advice on anything including supplements will e greatly appreciated. Btw, this mostly happens when I am with a girl because when I am alone everything seems fine. I also tend to be pretty confident person in general so I dont know what is going on. Thanks for your help.
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If it's fine when you are alone then it is definitely psychological. I know it's too easy to say "stop thinking about it" because that will make you think about it more, but that is the case. The more you try to get yourself hard the more difficult it is to make it happen. You are not alone though. This can be quite common for a lot of men, especially when they are with a women for the first time. It's called performance anxiety. Sex is all about getting lost in the moment and enjoying YOURSELF, just as much as pleasing her. Maybe you should relax a little and let go when she is trying to please you. You can dedicate time to pleasing her as well but women also like to please their man, so just kick back and enjoy it. Also take it as a given that your cock will be up and down during sex(especially marathon sex sessions), especially foreplay. It's natural and healthy for your body to change the blood inside your penis.
Don't stress buddy, everything is normal.Start : BPEL 6.4" x MEG 4.75"
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ManWithPlan: What does porn have to do with this? Is it porn or masturbation?
Also, this mainly happens when i am with a girl and the lights are completely off and i can't see much. Maybe that has something to do with it.Comment
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