Women and Size

[Elias Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Elias]

I have been under radar for 1.5 days and this conversation has exploded! Great!

Although I could not do anal with my girl, I still want more girth. I am not being stupid here that 'yeah, I don't care if she can take it or not, I will grow girth anyways.' We live in different cities and we don't see each others that often so obviously we cannot practice that much. And she has told me that she wants to try it again. So I have to remember those advice that Batwoman wrote earlier about anal sex.

Hey Batwoman, maybe you should start a thread 'Anal sex 101'!

[UKGuy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close UKGuy]

I think this confirms that a lot of guys aren't happy with what they've got when it comes to their dick. A woman can say your dick size doesn't matter all she wants but if YOU aren't happy with your size it won't make a difference. I don't get personally why a lot of guys on the forums (unless they're lying) are already big to begin with like around the "7 - "8 mark yet they still feel they need to be bigger? What the fuck unless you're one of those unfortunate guys that is born with a micropenis I don't know why so many of us are worried about our dick size when most of us are average anyway or over. Of course size matters mainly when it comes to girth but forget the bullshit in thinking our dick isn't good enough when the chances our the majority of us are big enough even if we are average in size to pleasure women and hit the g spot. If you have the mindset and don't have an issue/insecurity with the size of your dick and know at least what you're doing when it comes to having sex then women probaby won't have any issue either. Okay I know this sounds like I am trying to say that being an average size isn't bad but the truth is we can't all be blessed with a big dick even with PE it doesn't work for everyone it seems. From what I have observed with PE some gain, some don't, some get ED. Obviously there are women that care about dick size and have a preference for huge dicks but I would say the majority of women don't give a damn if you aren't packing as long as you can fuck them good, give them pleasure and be sexually confident.

That's just my thoughts on the subject.

[Elias Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Elias]

I think this confirms that a lot of guys aren't happy with what they've got when it comes to their dick. A woman can say your dick size doesn't matter all she wants but if YOU aren't happy with your size it won't make a difference. I don't get personally why a lot of guys on the forums (unless they're lying) are already big to begin with like around the "7 - "8 mark yet they still feel they need to be bigger? What the fuck unless you're one of those unfortunate guys that is born with a micropenis I don't know why so many of us are worried about our dick size when most of us are average anyway or over. Of course size matters mainly when it comes to girth but forget the bullshit in thinking our dick isn't good enough when the chances our the majority of us are big enough even if we are average in size to pleasure women and hit the g spot. If you have the mindset and don't have an issue/insecurity with the size of your dick and know at least what you're doing when it comes to having sex then women probaby won't have any issue either. Okay I know this sounds like I am trying to say that being an average size isn't bad but the truth is we can't all be blessed with a big dick even with PE it doesn't work for everyone it seems. From what I have observed with PE some gain, some don't, some get ED. Obviously there are women that care about dick size and have a preference for huge dicks but I would say the majority of women don't give a damn if you aren't packing as long as you can fuck them good, give them pleasure and be sexually confident.

That's just my thoughts on the subject.

Right now I am pretty satisfied with my length. I started at 17cm which already is above average. Now I am going around 19cm. But girth wise I am in average still.

But for me the reason to get a bigger and a better dick comes from inside of me. I have experienced ED before. I was 17 when it happened for the first time. Then the second time when I was 22. With the total of four different girls. Have you ever told a girl that 'sorry baby, this has never happened to me before although you know in your mind that it has? Many times!' After that I realised that sex is not for me and I stopped even trying to score a girl for the next two years.

So yes, what the fuck! I came here to improve my dick - make it harder and erections stronger. If I also have these feelings that I want more girth and length, it is fucking normal because I have not been satisfied with my cock in years!

You are absolutely right UKGuy! I am not happy what I have got and I am doing it for myself, not for my girl. She is in love with my cock and doesn't need any more size but I am not yet in love with my cock and I need more size.

[The Maul Banned Find all posts View Profile Close The Maul]

im not even 6 girth and i havent found a girl that will let me do anal

If shorty mack and his 8.5 girth can do i i want to do it damn it

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

I have gotten out my tapemeasure and looked again at what 6" girth looks like. It is BIG. Fun for vaginal sex, but I'm thinking that 5.5" might be about the maximum I would want for anal. That said, however, if my man grew to 6" EG I would go for it anyway, just with LOTS and LOTS of preparation and lube. I'm not sure what the results would be, but I would be willing to try. However, if I had never done anal with him at all before.... well, I could imagine just saying "no" because it would look too scary. I think that may be one of the down sides of growing very large before you have an established partner or wife.

[The Maul Banned Find all posts View Profile Close The Maul]

I have gotten out my tapemeasure and looked again at what 6" girth looks like. It is BIG. Fun for vaginal sex, but I'm thinking that 5.5" might be about the maximum I would want for anal. That said, however, if my man grew to 6" EG I would go for it anyway, just with LOTS and LOTS of preparation and lube. I'm not sure what the results would be, but I would be willing to try. However, if I had never done anal with him at all before.... well, I could imagine just saying "no" because it would look too scary. I think that may be one of the down sides of growing very large before you have an established partner or wife.

*Looks at his 5.6 eg*

*activates cool voice* Hey baby would you mind if I practiced my stroke on you?

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Hey baby would you mind if I practiced my stroke on you?

Sorry, I already have the man I want!

[The Maul Banned Find all posts View Profile Close The Maul]

Sorry, I already have the man I want!

It would be purely in the interest of science of course

Bio-aerodynamics, friction, and what not

[mountie Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mountie]

....and again I will apologize before I rant, I just can't help myself....

"Yes girls looove big dicks. The bigger the better. To smalll is a waste of time and energy. Guys with little dicks are useless."

It seems like that is what some of you want to hear??? This discussion comes up all the time (everywhere) and it is always the same. Some guys just don't want the truth.....they just want to hear what they believe to be the truth. Girls consistently say size doesn't matter, but it's like some of you are just searching for that one girl to say "oh, yes it does".

Why is that??? I don't get it?????

Does a woman saying "yes, I like big dicks" take the pressure off you? Is an average dick a god given excuse??

(If this is you)....Maybe, just maybe, you didn't leave her exhausted, in a pool of sweat, begging you to come back, becasue you were a bad lover!.... And not becasue you were of average size. Maybe, just maybe, she isn't as shallow as you think she is. Shockingly, maybe you are just not as good as you think you are in bed!! (Dont worry, your secret is safe with us)

We have some great females on this site trying to help us out. How about we LISTEN TO THEM! We stop trying to ask the same question over and over, framed a diferent way, thinking the first 400 times they answered they were lying. We are so lucky to have these girls posting for us, how about asking them how to be better lovers????

I am sorry....again...if I have offended anyone.

[majic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close majic]

....and again I will apologize before I rant, I just can't help myself....

"Yes girls looove big dicks. The bigger the better. To smalll is a waste of time and energy. Guys with little dicks are useless."

It seems like that is what some of you want to hear??? This discussion comes up all the time (everywhere) and it is always the same. Some guys just don't want the truth.....they just want to hear what they believe to be the truth. Girls consistently say size doesn't matter, but it's like some of you are just searching for that one girl to say "oh, yes it does".

Why is that??? I don't get it?????

Does a woman saying "yes, I like big dicks" take the pressure off you? Is an average dick a god given excuse??

(If this is you)....Maybe, just maybe, you didn't leave her exhausted, in a pool of sweat, begging you to come back, becasue you were a bad lover!.... And not becasue you were of average size. Maybe, just maybe, she isn't as shallow as you think she is. Shockingly, maybe you are just not as good as you think you are in bed!! (Dont worry, your secret is safe with us)

We have some great females on this site trying to help us out. How about we LISTEN TO THEM! We stop trying to ask the same question over and over, framed a diferent way, thinking the first 400 times they answered they were lying. We are so lucky to have these girls posting for us, how about asking them how to be better lovers????

I am sorry....again...if I have offended anyone.

Mountie ...relax...

The only reason why it keeps coming up is due to the inconsistencies between what they tell us to our face...and what we over hear them saying amongst each other and/or other people.

You over hear a big dick topic and you can see their eyes light up like Christmas morning...but then they'll tell you with a stone emotionless face that it doesn't matter. So its confusing....

It can make logical sense how size doesnt matter a whole lot ( i made an argument for that in this thread)...but at the same time its hard to argue the excitement that you see and its not like they arent capable of lying to you so that your feelings arent hurt or so that they dont come across as a certain "type" of girl

[doupdoupdoup Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close doupdoupdoup]

Girls are different sizes. Just as guys are.

Guys that are too big will be at a disadvantage and guys too small will be at a disadvantage in having pleasurable sex.

Now that said. Having a bigger dick, is sort of like slang for being more manly or more worthy. That is what girls are saying when they talk this way. Connecting attitude and everyday emotion related context to the sexual acts and realm of sexuality, is a working to some ends.

Understanding the world through the sex realm is comforting to women. It makes things easier on them it takes away a lot of stress and it's more playground talk than anything else.

People with small dicks, are not well endowed and don't stick themselves out there. If someone treats your weird and you don't want to sex him, "that guy has a small dick". You like a guy and think he is cool "Yeah that guy has a big dick." That's just how it is. Small dick is not only an insult for men but it is also an insult for women as well. It's really stupid though. But stupid things are entertaining. Simple pleasures. So people with small dicks even though there isn't a real correlation, generally don't care about much about making women happy or don't have the intuitive side to do all the intangible things. Sex is intangible. It's intangible what really goes on. People that look schizophrenic or have complexes or are really aggressive or abrasive can simply be labeled as having a small dick. It makes the world so much easier to understand.

You know for some reason girls get off on social status or character play more than anything. If a man had a 4" and was really kind and good in bed and had good status and was confident in his ability to take on responsibility and act as a supportive person to a woman. That man in her world would have an enormous penis, bigger than the world.

People with small penises are not accountable or are hiding their penis and intention. If a monkey was flopping around int he woods with an 8 inch erection, and had a lot of enemies or was not able to defend himself properly he would suffer badly and not survive well. A person with small penis there is nothing to beat up if he ticks you off, thus he is not accountable. A person that sticks it out there and he will get beat up by competitors or jealous people, but if he survives, he is tha man. And if he sticks it out there and it doesn't break, because girls actually care about him. He is accountable. This is in the imaginary world of Penisoria.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

My ex never really cared about my size. I remember one time we were drinking at my buddies place... and I don't know how the topic came up, but somehow she ended up saying something like, "Yeah, I put two hands on it and can still blow him." I was a bit embarrassed, not as much as her the next day, but still.
They don't care about size... but talking about it is something I do believe they enjoy.

[majic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close majic]

My ex never really cared about my size. I remember one time we were drinking at my buddies place... and I don't know how the topic came up, but somehow she ended up saying something like, "Yeah, I put two hands on it and can still blow him." I was a bit embarrassed, not as much as her the next day, but still.
They don't care about size... but talking about it is something I do believe they enjoy.

Well based on what you said...they do care to some degree...even if its solely for the reason of giving them something to talk about; they have a chance to gloat and that makes them feel better? (or maybe even turn them on somewhat)

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Here's a thought for you: I have never had a discussion of penis size with a guy that was not started by him (and I have never had a discussion of penis size with a woman)!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Wow batwoman ,I just wish women would wait till I leave the room.
Women I have worked with were always talking dick size, not as often as how much money, but still very often.
Where do you work?
Mountie,guys shouldn't have to justifiy their wish for a bigger peris on this forum, here at least they should be amongst like minded.