Going soft?

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Even on the web, this is embarrassing because I don't like to admit it.
Here's my problem:

I go soft in bed.
I don't have troubles getting erect to start. I'll usually be having sex and after 15-20 minutes, my erection deflates. It will happen when we change positions. I'll pull out, start showing some love to her body and next thing I know, I'm soft and can't get it back up.
Or maybe we'll take a few minutes break to catch our breath, get some water, add lube... And then my peen bails on me.
But I still WANT to get erect.

I just don't get it. It will happen without ejaculation. It's really fucking annoying, when you're with a girl and suddenly the passion stops. My girl last night looked so disappointed We were having an awesome time up till that point.
The next morning, I did not have any morning wood. We had sex on my day of rest.

I do edging. I have been doing PE for about half a year (and have seen half an inch in length gains). I am very active and very healthy.
I have no clue why this happens.
I'm guessing it's normal. But is there any way to correct it?

[Ravenously Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ravenously]

Does your boy not come back at all? Mine will wax and waine several times during sex, I think that's pretty normal.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

He goes down, it's a KO.
It comes back HOURS later, but I've usually left the person I was with and am either with someone else or alone

[Ravenously Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ravenously]

Are we talking about random hookups, or a girlfriend. If it's randoms it might be some type of mental conflict, or maybe your not that into them. Also, is alcohol involved? That could cause a problem too.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

I think its mental. Having sex is not the only thing that keeps the peen nice and hard. Actually if you are not really into the person you are having sex with, your arousal rating will be low and more than often your penis will go down. This can be because of issues in the relationship, stress, pressure, etc...

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

We had "A" glass of wine that night. I am super into her. She's smokin hot. She has amazing disproportions. Small waist, huge breasts.. She's very flexible. She used to do dancing. She's fit.
She even has a necklace that says 'daddy's little girl" on it.
Personally I find that sexy as hell. She was like my own little porn star.

It was our first time together. She seemed to enjoy it while it lasted. She texted me the next day to hang out.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Is it possible that you are overtraining your penis. This sounds like you may be. You may consider dropping the edging for a while or making your routine less intense, maybe even take a week off. An overtrained penis isnt always completely obvious, maybe after 20 minutes of sex combined with the days PE your wang is just saying Fukk it, I am tired.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

My dick dies when I use a condom. But they are far to tight at the base.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Yea, i had the same problem. I had to switch to a magnum. They fit a lot nicer, but I think maybe it still is too tight. Regular ones would turn my dick blue. I remember when I was a kid, I used to think that's what they meant when she gave you blue balls.

BigO, maybe you're right.
I don't know. My routine isn't as heavy as it was before. I see no PIs for fatigue. But the signs can be elusive. I'll keep that in mind.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

If you take even one or two days off when you are anticipating sex you will probably know. maybe your not over traing but its a good way to eliminate it from the equation. Thus making your situation one less problem to figure.
Could just be a one time thing as well, It happens to the best of us. I know intense stretching can affect EQ. I am not sure of your routine although you said its not too intense.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

Hmmm. I see what you're saying.
I did not take any days of rest before I had sex. That day was supposed to be my day of rest... Well, minus the 20 minutes or so of sex.

I will be having more unanticipated sex from now on. Is there any way to keep doing PE and hold a good erection while having sex?
I'm going to start having more of Kingpole's erection tea.
And I'm incorporating the 5G's into my daily diet.