Aggressiveness

[Motz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Motz]

I've always been a very open-minded, sweet and caring person. I've always been taking bad things with a smile. But lately that has changed.

first of all, im currently 19-years-old, i live with my family and soon done with high-school. I've always treated my family with respect and honor, they mean everything to me. But after christmas my mood has changed dramaticly.

Things that i didnt even notice starts to annoy me, when i fail at something i get so insanely pissed, if someone contradicts me i feel like ripping their head off.
I also fail at everything at the moment which makes me even more mad; school is shit, i forget everyhing, i constantly drop things.

For instance, 2 days ago i got a chemistry-test back, apperently i failed which i dont usally do. I got soooo pissed that i ripped the paper apart in front of my class mates, i could feel my heart pump, i was on the edge of throwing my laptop on the ground but a friend of mine stopped me. I realised i made such a fool out of myself that i left class immediately, crying... yes crying.

When i get mad i have no clue on what the fuck i am doing. Last night i was playing PS3, Fifa, like i always do. Well, the oppenent scored, i got mad again, and slammed my controlling on the fucking floor, picked it up, slammed it down again... 100 bucks out of the fucking window...

But is is also tearing up my relationship with my parents...

The other day, my mom came into my room. She told me to clean my room, like she always does. Again, i could feel the rage build inside me. I told her to "Get the fuck out" which is absolutely disrespectful and im ashamed of myself writing this. We yelled at each other and she started crying etc...

What the fuck is going on with me!? I dont wanna be like that, i wanna be the caring person i used to be... I wanna see my parents come home, hugging me while asking how my day was. I wanna take everything with a smile instead of wrecking things apart.

[Unit Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Unit]

Welcome to growing up with hormones. You have already taken the first step, realizing that you're an ass when you act out of rage. Next comes, Why do I do this? You are the same person you were before, it's just now you have fuel for the fire. Start by saying, "I'm sorry, I'll do better next time", and you will. You are growing up, You need to learn your triggers and head off out bursts. Keep your eye on who you want to be and let you loved ones help you. You'll be fine, trust me we all go through it one way or the other.

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

You are still growing and your hormones change on a daily basis. This is a phase that will pass and the trick is to get through it with as little damage to your relationships with your family and friends as possible.
We have evolved so that you are at an age when 20,000 years a) hunting a mastodon with a pointed sick would have sounded like a great idea and b) your clan would have strongly encouraged you to go find a nice girl in another tribe and go live with her clan (but not until you told us where to find the mastodon carcass.)
This plan provided food to the rest of your clan and cut down on incest, which are two excellent objectives for the species even if they aren't that much fun for the individual.
Tell your parents that you are sorry and that you love them but you are going through some hormonal surges right now. Get lots and lots of exercise and cut out refined sugar and caffeine.
Yarrr!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

And maybe go and talk to someone to get that anger, and it's causes, out in the open so you can work to cure them.

[Motz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Motz]

Thanks for the responses guys. I've tried the Hormone-rollercoaster before but it has never been this bad
And yeah, i need someone to talk to about this, but im not quite sure if my parents are the right ones.

[SilurianSoldier Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SilurianSoldier]

Hang in there Motz, as men we all go through the same changes..some have a worse time than others. I was absolutely berserk through the middle of puberty all the way up to adulthood. I suggest you tell your parents that it's just hormones making you act the fool and that you love them despite the changes you are undergoing(they'll understand). Also, get an outlet to channel the frustration such as weight training, running/jogging, or something else physically demanding. There is nothing else you can do..you just have to survive through it. Try not to act on impulse and land in jail like I did.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

I'd be worried for ur peen.

[ThomasJohnThomas Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ThomasJohnThomas]

You are 19, you are supposed to be pissed off! Show me a balanced teenager, and you have reason to worry!.. Well, I`m just saying it is normal, hope that dosen`t piss you off!

Btw. Relax and look forward to the Roskilde festival! Denmark in summertime<3

[BrianStorm Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BrianStorm]

You're 19 with a 7 x 6 dick... you should be taking that aggression out on vaginas (or arses.. whatever takes your fancy really)

[Brenok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brenok]

Regardless of the cause (hormonal, chemical, psychological, whatever), it probably wouldn't hurt to talk to the school counselor or something.

[Motz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Motz]

I'd be worried for ur peen.

Hehe im not! Hopefully this will result in another growing spurt!

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

Have you ever been expossed to extremely high levels of Gamma radiation?

[BabyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BabyDick]

*hulk smash*

[rickthedick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close rickthedick]

Are you currently taking Anabolic Steroids?

[Motz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Motz]

Are you currently taking Anabolic Steroids?

I knew that question would eventually show up, but no. I do work out alot, but im not taking AAS. Got alot of friends who are taking it like crazy... I know all the damn side-effects!