Best prep for a weekend of sex?

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

What do you guys think is the best way to ensure that you are in top form for a weekend romp? Assuming it starts on Saturday

So, This week I have been doing kegels and PE as normal Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, then rest days on Thursday and Friday. Prolonged edging every day, but will do twice a day on Thursday and Friday, no ejaculation during the week.

Going for a quick jog every morning to get the blood flowing and the hormones pumping.

Reducing meat and coffee consumption for the week, and no cigarettes (I quit over a week ago)

That is what I have been doing this week in preparation for the weekend, I plan on having a "lock-in" with my girlfriend and want to make the most of it I have a box of Viagra that my doctor prescribed because of my refractory issues (explained in my progress log), but I don't really want to use it. If I see that I'm unable to get a second erection and I have to use it I will, but I would like to try to do it naturally

So what would you guys recommend? Should I change anything?

What has worked for you in the past?

Thanks

[bigmoe5067 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigmoe5067]

i would say take friday very lightly....dont over work. your going to do enough of that over the weekend. concentrate on today and tommarow. i would jelq lightly too. nothing like a workout, maybe more of a blend of edging and jelqing, keep that blood flow high.

just make sure not to burn out your kegels, and maybe spend a decent amount of time of thur/fri just working on reverse kegels, just to make sure you last as long as you need to

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Make sure you have a girl. Now go have fun and stop worrying about it. Just make sure you come back and tell me how it went with all the details; I'm into that kind of stuff!

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

I do realize that i'm over analysing the whole thing, but in order to avoid using the Viagra I would like to give myself the best chance possible Although the Viagra isn't for erectile dysfunction in my case, it just feels wrong to use it at my age, I have avoided using it since it was prescribed to me

Anyway, 2 rest days before the weekend and lots of running and edging should hopefully do the trick. Will be interesting to see if not smoking will have any tangible effect

[vulcan Retired ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close vulcan]

Relax into it Padawan, meditate if you know how or take a look at subliminal relaxation downloads etc.

In the past I have had a weekend set up & built it up into a pressure 'event' - which is the worst environment for erections (as you know).

Just enjoy, she is not judging/timing you.

[malehanger Banned Find all posts View Profile Close malehanger]

Score some generic cialis! I know the timing's probably not good for this go around, but next time perhaps? I get mine from alldaychemistdotcom Never had a problem with their ED meds and the prices can't be beat. I'm not advocating using ED drugs to the point of needing to use them IE a dependency by the way. It is fun though to use them occasionally. There's nothing like being able to last as long as you want, cum, have zero refractory time and keep going...and to be able to 'pop wood' on demand.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

I have an unopened box of viagra that my doctor gave me, pretty much the same thing right?

He gave it to me to "give me back my confidence" in regards to my refractory period...but i'm conflicted, I feel that at the age of 20 I shouldn't need anything

I might look into the meditation that Vulcan suggested, my refrac issues are probably anxiety related at this point, as i'm physically active and my blood tests came back clear. Could also be linked to smoking at least 30 cigarettes a day for the last 5 years

[malehanger Banned Find all posts View Profile Close malehanger]

I have an unopened box of viagra that my doctor gave me, pretty much the same thing right?

He gave it to me to "give me back my confidence" in regards to my refractory period...but i'm conflicted, I feel that at the age of 20 I shouldn't need anything

I might look into the meditation that Vulcan suggested, my refrac issues are probably anxiety related at this point, as i'm physically active and my blood tests came back clear. Could also be linked to smoking at least 30 cigarettes a day for the last 5 years

Similar. Viagra (sildenafil citrate) stays in your system for around 4 hours. Cialis can last for around 48 hours. You may not "need" anything, but it's still nice to not have to wait when you have a weekend of sex planned. I was just putting the idea out there as a suggestion based on what I would do. It's not peer pressure per se.

[bigmoe5067 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigmoe5067]

i have a liquid cia for times like these. sometimes its fun to get off, and not even have to pull out and wait to start over. sex until the base is so sore you have to stop.

malehanger...are yours in pill or liquid?

[malehanger Banned Find all posts View Profile Close malehanger]

i have a liquid cia for times like these. sometimes its fun to get off, and not even have to pull out and wait to start over. sex until the base is so sore you have to stop.

malehanger...are yours in pill or liquid?

I prefer pills. Easier dosing...then again, never used liquid.

[bigmoe5067 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close bigmoe5067]

i love the strength of the liquid but i share a house and it requires proper storing or it loses potency. in the first month or so i need .5ml (15mg), but after that i need about .8 (roughly 20-23mg) for the desired "raging" effect. i dont use it that often so i dont think i can chalk it up to dependance.

the liquid is the only form that ive really enjoyed, then again the only pills ive tried were levitra with weak results

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Just drink lots of water.

[Minuteman Member of the Month March 2013. Find all posts View Profile Close Minuteman]

What do you guys think is the best way to ensure that you are in top form for a weekend romp? Assuming it starts on Saturday

So, This week I have been doing kegels and PE as normal Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, then rest days on Thursday and Friday. Prolonged edging every day, but will do twice a day on Thursday and Friday, no ejaculation during the week.

Going for a quick jog every morning to get the blood flowing and the hormones pumping.

Reducing meat and coffee consumption for the week, and no cigarettes (I quit over a week ago)

That is what I have been doing this week in preparation for the weekend, I plan on having a "lock-in" with my girlfriend and want to make the most of it I have a box of Viagra that my doctor prescribed because of my refractory issues (explained in my progress log), but I don't really want to use it. If I see that I'm unable to get a second erection and I have to use it I will, but I would like to try to do it naturally

So what would you guys recommend? Should I change anything?

What has worked for you in the past?

Thanks

I think what is most important is to somehow take your mind of weekend romp until you go to weekend. Also psychologically that box of vieagra might be some sort of a backup plan it always helps for the peace of mind to have something like that.

Quiting cigarettes and reducing coffee is very commendable on your part it seems that overall PE activity is motivating and helping you make your life much healthier which is very good to see.

But also try not to double the edging on the last days since the build up from the previous days will add to that. Also don't over edge doing too much is never good (sex is excluded )

Also on the last day it is recommended that you don't do kegels in order to give the muscles time to rest since they will have their hands full when the party starts.

Jog is a good idea to get rid of excess arousal and build up that you get from edging and balances things out.

Also for future notice if you have problem with refactory period learning how to DO (dry orgasm) might help you get over that problem in the future (not this weekend).

Just be careful not to overwork yourself.

[Padawan787 Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Padawan787]

We just got invited to a party on Saturday night and we couldn't really refuse because the girl who is throwing the party is one of my girlfriend's best friends. So, we will be going out on saturday in the evening and returning in the early hours of the morning, the next day we will probably be very, very hungover...well, there goes our weekend lock-in

Bollocks

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

Don't jack off for 3 days prior to the event. Save your load for good times. If its a house party, have sex in someone's room. Or have sex before the party. Or drunk after-party sex.