I have the opposite to premature ejaculation. Help!

[RedForever Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedForever]

I know it sounds daft but I'm taking too long to come. I stay hard and can go for a long time which to some will sound ideal. But during intercourse, I cannot seem to come. I can if I pull out and masturbate over her but it has to be hard and fast.

During intercourse, I tend to go a bit numb after repetitive thrusting for age (good workout for my waist and hips, though).

But seriously, are there any tips to make me come faster, am I too dehydrated or should I abstain from masturbating for a week so that I am ultra-sensitive?

Does anyone else have this problem?

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I know it sounds daft but I'm taking too long to come. I stay hard and can go for a long time which to some will sound ideal. But during intercourse, I cannot seem to come. I can if I pull out and masturbate over her but it has to be hard and fast.

During intercourse, I tend to go a bit numb after repetitive thrusting for age (good workout for my waist and hips, though).

But seriously, are there any tips to make me come faster, am I too dehydrated or should I abstain from masturbating for a week so that I am ultra-sensitive?

Does anyone else have this problem?

Yes delayed ejaculation is more common than is generally realised . Some questions.

Could you cum quickly if you choose to do so early ?
Can you cum at will solo?
Can you give more info?
You can pm if you don't wish open forum.

[malehanger Banned Find all posts View Profile Close malehanger]

Wrong forum.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I have the same problem, but I know it has a lot to do with my age. In my case, I rarely masturbate, avoid porn, but still can only orgasm about once a week even though I have penetrative sex about five times a week.

I find that if I wait until my wife orgasms first, I often become too nsensitive to bring about my own orgasm. In this regard, we have come to a mutual understanding that if my wife orgasms during the first encounter, we concentrate on my orgasm the next time. It works for us because we are monogamouse , but I doubt it would work for someone who wants to satisfy more than one partner on different days.

[mr.growmymeat Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mr.growmymeat]

Try changing the way you masturbate and masturbate less. I have a problem with rubbing my frenulum and glans(most sensitive parts) to quickly and intensely and it has caused some desensitization to my penis. I struggle to masturbate any other way.. Hopefully I can fix this as it will be harder than giving up porn and visual aids(16 days in) Hopefully I can sexually re-sensitize my penis and my mind. I know the no-porn stuff has already helped me become more easily aroused.. it feels good.

[RedForever Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close RedForever]

OK, well there are times I can come, yes. I can easily come alone, not so easily during penetration. Not sure if it's psychological. She comes over and over again, and I'm sort of a bit jealous but it's during penetration that I feel it, of course, but takes much longer than say, if masturbating. It may be that I'm not physically as fit either, I can end up in a sweat also and need to stop sometimes. But I do stay hard or if I go a little soft can start again and work back into full erection.

It's just that lately I have found it easier to pull out and finish myself off over her. She even requested that as she was tired out!

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

I used to have this problem - yohimbe helped enormously, you might want to give that a shot.

[Motz Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Motz]

Tried that myself. For me it was a psychological problem!

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

Stress and worrying. The mind is a very powerful thing. Relaxation and exercise are a universal good.
Very poorly written. Apologies I was just summoned but you get the point, I hope.

[Ivor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ivor]

Tried that myself. For me it was a psychological problem!

Yeah me too, but yohimbe still helped a lot. That, and a very patient and supportive girlfriend. Hope the OP succeeds in getting over this problem.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Some guys use too firm a grip during masturbation and this can be part of the problem.

[joelauria01 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close joelauria01]

I know it sounds daft but I'm taking too long to come. I stay hard and can go for a long time which to some will sound ideal. But during intercourse, I cannot seem to come. I can if I pull out and masturbate over her but it has to be hard and fast.

During intercourse, I tend to go a bit numb after repetitive thrusting for age (good workout for my waist and hips, though).

But seriously, are there any tips to make me come faster, am I too dehydrated or should I abstain from masturbating for a week so that I am ultra-sensitive?

Does anyone else have this problem?

I have the same problem It takes me way too long to come most women hate sex that lasts longer then an hour between 20 to 30 minutes is ideal. What works for me is make sure she has a great orgasm. If she does it turns me on more. After 20 minutes start rubbing her clit, how hard depends on her sensitivity. When she is coming real hard and you will know it lie flat on top of her and run your fingers through her hair pull a little, then blow hot air into her ear, then whisper with as much hot air as your can say come for me, come for me, come for me baby, come for me baby.(She will come so hard) The baby iis a physiological trigger, all women love babies its engrained in their dna, it also makes her want you to come more.. Then turn her on her side position yourself behind her (not Anal sex!!) But on her side with her legs pressed together it adds more friction, she will be very wet. It is a lot easier to come, she will also let you try longer. If your having sex with her for the first time, She will be very attracted to you the word baby while Shes having an orgasm makes a difference. You have to use it after come for me during sex, don't use it to refer to her often (like hey baby to get her attention) if you use it very sparingly when you do call her baby she will associate it with sex it will turn her on. There are also so many more benefits to making sure the girl has a great orgasm.

[joelauria01 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close joelauria01]

I replied to your first post but seriously I have the same problem. Also with getting tired turn her on her side with her legs closed and do it from behind once again not anal the added friction helps so much.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

This is an old thread ,the issue is called delayed ejaculation and there are many threads on it.

[joelauria01 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close joelauria01]

Thank you I will look for those I'm trying to find advice for myself I hope there is a new cream or pill, but also to share what works for me.