Traumatization Frusatration

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

Its just sex.

I hate this attitude in women. I fucking hate it. Its brought about by a traumatic experience, that requires downplaying the significance of sex in order to avoid admitting how badly something went, whether it be unwanted attention or an extremely awful experience (one women telling me about her ex crying whilst holding her and petting her hair while repeatedly telling her how much he loved her during sex comes to mind).

This ruins most women and that is meant exactly the way it is written.

I noticed this change in someone recently and held my tongue until she told me about her desire to get a nipple ring. No problem with that. The problem I have is she is ok with letting some greasy 50 yr old fuck touch her boob and pierce it, both her friends backed out due to this reason. When I asked her how she could be ok with it her response was its just a boob, its professional, I have a male gynecologist. AND THERE IT IS. Her traumatic experience was letting some 60 yr old pervert put his hand in her vagina and rationalizing it as necessary even though it was clearly something she was not ok with (not going into detail but it was necessary and her first time with a gynecologist, time was of importance and only a male was available, had I been aware i woulda driven her to another country if need be)

JESUS FUCKING CHRIST. i hate men. fucking pathetic self-serving pieces of shit, the cause of every problem, including the state of women.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

So if you had to see a urologist and it was a woman you would back out? Why, it's a professional just like a gyno or tattoist, they don't do it for any sexual reason, the problem is you being jealous.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

your an ___________. learn to fucking read. I told you in my post she was uncomfortable with it and forcing herself to go through with it made it so other things she wouldnt enjoy would be downplayed in order to avoid admitting how badly affected she was by that first experience. this isnt her enjoying it, its her doing these things in spite of what she feels because of the rationalization that says "its just sex" it doesnt mean she enjoys it and im jealous, it means shes negating and repressing ceratin feelings and doing things to make them less relelvant. way to try and put me in my place in your response though. typical useless male.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

she told me about her desire to get a nipple ring. No problem with that. The problem I have is she is ok with letting some greasy 50 yr old fuck touch her boob and pierce it, both her friends backed out due to this reason. When I asked her how she could be ok with it her response was its just a boob, its professional, I have a male gynecologist.

You just said she's fine with it because he's a professional. And having your legs spread on a table and having something inserted in you is a little different than having a nipple pierced.
And you better edit that last post about insulting me.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

she would prefer a female but the female is an apprentice and if its done wrong there could be permanent damage or some shit and even though she is uncomfortable with it she will do it because she will downplay the significance. She said shes not ok with it but shes doing it anyways because its just a boob and hes a professional so she puts her feelings of being uncomfortable down as her own problem because giving them the attnetion they deserve means she has to admit to having the hand of some 60 yr old man she did not want in her fucking cunt and its easier to say "its professional". its called conditioning its why women dont become serial killers.

and i meant what i said, the only reason i can see for you telling me to change what i said is you want to punish me with your moderators powers and the other mods are giving me a chance to edit it and apologize. or your just trying to force me to do what you want cause you enjoy the power. possible and most common reasons? small penis, older male sibling and short stature.

either way i will not change it, i meant it, and while your post may take more intelligence to see it, it is far more insulting then me blatantly defining you with a term meaning slow when you are forcing me to repeat myself, with the information right there in front of you.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

lol also i wasnt gonna edit cause i have the balls to stick by what I say because I have thought it through and am not speaking in order to sway over an audience.


p.s NICE EDIT lol

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

There's nothing intelligent about you acting like a child and ranting about useless stuff and hating men for silly reasons.
She was uncomfortable, the end.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Phill are you having a bad day? Let's tone it down! If you need to let off steam give me a pm and I'll fight with ya. And no picking on my buddy Steve ; he's class and he helps out tremendously around here!

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

lol trolled by a mod....

oh yeah men deserve all the respect in the world lol

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

Phill are you having a bad day? Let's tone it down! If you need to let off steam give me a pm and I'll fight with ya. And no picking on my buddy Steve ; he's class and he helps out tremendously around here!

well cuspie how often do I insult people outright. there is no point, the problem can not be solved, if i want peace of mind I have two options, inebriation, or distraction, as fun and distracting as it would be to sit here and make steveie feel like killing himself over the course of the next hour, when that hours up i will be back where i started. So im going to go pack a bowl and pour myself some scotch.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

There's no point to this silly thread other than you have problems with male professionals that may make some girls uncomfortable? Time for you to grow up.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

It's just sex, is a typical male attitude anyway and fairly common among females these days . As Steve says and I have noticed previous, you have head issues which you should address.

[phil88 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close phil88]

lol so your argument is the majority is always right? peggy im too high right now to find your intrusion anything more then amusing, I am also high enough to take a subjective look at this thread and it really is just me venting and does not serve any actual purpose aside from me looking for someone to make it all better by way of a few choice words of wisdom, since nothing else really can be done. which makes it truly pointless lol

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Smoke your bowl and enjoy the gym from an outsiders point of view.

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