Why? (THREAD CLOSED)

[closed013 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed013]

Why should I help others if others do not help me? This question is directed at you all, members of the Gymnasium.

Best regards,


Everman.

[Hockey_NY Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hockey_NY]

Who invited this guy?


Yeah, I don't get it. I just looked at a few of your prior threads and it appears people helped you or at least tried to. But god forbid we lose your plethora of wisdom.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

From what I see from your 15 or so threads you started, someone is always helping you and sending you in the right direction.
Should you help other people? That's entirely up to you.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

A good person helps others without wanting anything in return. If he does get smething in return that's a bonus. Those that give expecting to get something back are selfish in their thought and deed. There is the prayer of St Francis; " it is giving that we truely recieve"! Young people tend not to get it.

Now you came to a place with lots of info that was there for you to take. Others posted over the years so that what they learned was here for you to receive. You have already been given far more help than you yourself have given! I'm not sensing mch appreciation here am I?

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Everman, I've looked at your threads. Seems like plenty of guys have come to help answer your questions. Don't really know if they're the answers you're after or not. In some of your posts, you come across a bit abrasive(like 40 grit sandpaper), maybe it's just me, I don't know.

Why should you help others? Cause it's the nice thing to do, and if everyone had the mentality, "If you don't help me, I'm not helping you", we'd all be sitting around scratching our heads. But thankfully, this site isn't composed of guys like that. They're all more than willing to take their time to answer questions/give advice if they have the answers/knowledge.

[closed013 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed013]

This was a rhetorical question, but I thank the thorns you shot, they are always pleasant, Sir CUSP82.
Hockey_NY, if you seek to start a feud with me, be welcomed, I await your challenge.
Steve23, your laconic answers many times were more of a headache than the solution to the previous problem, however, I must say you are correct.
Back to Sir CUSP82, whether I "feel" appreciation or not, I "feel" that many people here are far more ungrateful than me, taking only and leaving no help to others, something which I have been striving for, however what I do "feel", or better written, sense is a quite alarming lack of politeness among the members of this "community". I'll use an example present here: Hockey_NY, without any knowledge of who I am, or even what I have been doing here, which I know is not much, but I have tried, he doesn't hesitate in striking a blow to me. Did I offend him personally? If so, I did not notice it and encourage him to tell me the details of such a foul attitude of me, of course.
If I offended any of you, please do forgive me, but I do not and simply cannot accept rudeness or any kind of fault in ones education.

Good day and thank you very much for the answers, the thorns and the blows, it is always a pleasure to be wounded,

Everman.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Im here for you man if I can relate I will input. I am older and dealt with way too many issues myself without help for way too long. The last thing I want to do is see anyone else suffer. Thats why im here to provide the best uneducated advice money cant buy! lol

[closed013 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed013]

Everman, I've looked at your threads. Seems like plenty of guys have come to help answer your questions. Don't really know if they're the answers you're after or not. In some of your posts, you come across a bit abrasive(like 40 grit sandpaper), maybe it's just me, I don't know.

Please, do send me the link, I would love to show you what my words hide.

Everman.

[wand-extendio Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close wand-extendio]

"a rhetorical question" hmmmm, seems more like you were looking for an argument.

[closed013 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed013]

At wand-extendio:
I sought no such thing, however if you desire to have a debate with me, please, do start it and place your arguments for or against a subject of your choosing, I will be awaiting you, if you desire so.

Everman.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Okay boy I've just about had enough with you. You either get an attitude adjustment real quick or you'll be out of here faster than a prom queen from her dress. You rspect what is here and who is here or you'll be watching from the cheap seats. I only warn once!

[Cantona7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cantona7]

Everman, you are a cool lad. I know some people like to express themselves and take part in things, you certainly are one of them, others not so much. I know we have far more spectators in our community than people who are "active". But we can't change it because now we're talking an individual's nature. I see you are very enthusiastic, which is an excellent trait to possess. You have posted a lot of good stuff and given sensible advise to those who asked for it. I really appreciate that as a fellow member, and I also feel people have not been replying to you as much as they should have or as much as you expected them to.

Also, members like Steve, Hockey_NY, CUSP82 have been around long enough to earn lots of respect. You should have nothing against them. They have helped thousands of people like me and you. They have probably seen at least a couple hundreds of "evermans" come and go. And why do you always ready to debate? haha. Seems like you were on the debate team throughout your high school or something. Anyways, I request you to drop it. Let's start over. You can post your questions and I am sure many members will like to help you.

Again, you are a very good member to have as a part of this community. You are well-mannered, intelligent, and a quick leaner from what I have observed. You just need to be patient and watch your temper a bit, but then again you are a teenager, haha.

[closed013 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed013]

You have lost me, CUSP82, all I said there was not meant in an insulting or subversive tone, but with a truthful one: I am not mocking you, I was paying my resoect to an older, more experienced and more knowledgeable member.

[someone_like_u Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close someone_like_u]

Please, do send me the link, I would love to show you what my words hide.

Everman.

*Note You did come back at the end of a thread and explained why you responded the way you did, but your abrasiveness shows up to me in this thread and the others I quote. I feel you want quick answers and when you don't get them quickly, you start firing off at the mouth. Please remember, PE is a hobby to these guys, they're all giving their time around their real life schedules. You should expect quick responses on occasion but also be prepared for a wait once in a while as well. I'm not trying to bash you at all but only wish to show you how you come across to me in your words.

SLU

OK, here ya go.

I'm sorry, but can you answer the question? Your evasive answers are not helping.

You just don't get it, I'm bisexual with a gay tendency, I don't care much for women.

Sorry then, but next time, I ask you to also put the name of whom you are referring to in your post, ok?

*Ivor did quote the guy he was referring to.

And then when it's pointed out to you, you responded:

Yes, I am somewhat blind, care to rub it on my face a little more?

Thanks for the advice, though the laughter was quite rude and annoying.

I misused that word, I'd like to thank you for advising me on how to read what is written here, not in a negative way but in a more neutral, harmless way.

Thank you. I'd advise you to write your comments in a more neutral fashion, not only directed at heterosexuals, someone may find that odd, or irritating.

You failed to see the point in this question, which is, does this habit of getting an full erection affect the gains or not?

Neither did I! Read carefully, and try to understand what I just told you: after a work out you are weaker then your body regenerates and you get stronger.

Tell me then where I was wrong, oh great master! (I'm pissed)

How fun it is to leave warnings and then the true professionals come and shadow my early warnings. I detest my position.

A weekend of rest.
Ah, yes, since I am leaving questions and doubts here I would like to have answers to them. It is only fair, since I have left answers to many people, and it seems awkward that nobody tries to help me, is it something about me? I would love to know why people simply refuse to help me.

I am not quitting PE, just the log: what's the point of asking question nobody cares to answer?

Good day,
I have been keeping a log and I have been posting some questions there, which amazingly have not been answer as of yet, so I am posting this here in hopes that someone will answer them:
-"Hey, about bed fowfers, are they supposed to help healing and regenerating? So they shouldn't hurt or be uncomfortable, correct?"

-"Furthermore, does anyone have the following problem: when I v-jelq I have no idea how much pressure I should apply, and I think I am applying too much pressure since I feel a slight pain on the sides of my penis when I v-jelq."

Thank you, please feel free to prove my theories wrong.

Everman.

[closed013 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close closed013]

I'm ready to debate because many of my words, in the real world, have been distorted and then thrown back at me, I learned to defend my self, by taking the fight to an arena where all the players are in equal grounds and can express their thoughts and ideas clearly and have them heard carefully.

Everman.

P.S.
Why do you say they have seen many "evermans"?

Em.