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    I have come here for genuine advice even though having looked at all reputable sources that clearly state it is impossible to gain girth (or length for that matter). But I am a very clinical man capable of doing thorough research and on the off chance even small gains are possible I am willing to listen.
    Up until recently I never had a problem with my penis size. My size is 7.1" in length and 5.1" in girth. In the past when I have been with most girls its more then enough for them to feel and in fact my length has sometimes with small girls been a problem. I consider myself good in bed (not always but most of the time) and have been told by girls with nothing to gain and no reason to lie that I am. So whats the problem I hear you ask. Well after many years of either being with girls who were cheating on boyfriends or girls simply using me for sex and being with girls I never considered to be 'the one' (and often cheating on them) I have met 'the one'. Long story short (no pun intended) through various methods of deduction I have realised that her previous boyfriend was just as dirty as me (he was the first guy she had dirty sex with) and was about 8" in length and 6+" in girth - I confronted her without explaining how I had figured it out and she admitted it - I don't think she wants to ask how I know. I don't think I really reach all the parts (mostly girth wise) that he did. She told me she never orgasmed with him - I don't believe that. She told me before I confronted her that she has had more orgasms with me then anyone else - I kinda believe that as I know I am good at pleasing woman because I have always loved watching woman loosing control and therefore have learned how to do it in many ways with very sexually confident/skilled woman. I also genuinely love their 'bits' (no swearing ion hear right? ha) so love eating all of them completely without constraint listening to what they like. I also have been told I have "come-to-bed-dirty-eyes". I have never worried about being perfect for any girl before and maybe this has added to my appeal but even though I can very much be myself with my new girlfriend and that she is very attracted to me I still feel I am not EVERYTHING she wants and I want to be. I even know and fully understand that size isn't as important to Woman as men think it is as we don't factor in certain things as easily/naturally as they do. You can fault me on me rational here but I would still like to know if it is genuinely possible to increase my girth even by half an inch? All that chemical stuff looks crap and like a complete nightmare (and dangerous?) and pills and potions seem like if they worked they would have FDA clearance and be all over mainstream media. Also woman is it possible to shrink down and if it is then why has she not already as when she broke up with her ex she bought a very small vibrator (girth about 4.2") and only been having sex with me (as far as I know) for the last 7-8 months. She also said when we first met (long before I confronted her with my detective work) that she doesn't really like\have vaginal orgasms but I think this might have been her very subtle way of making me feel ok with the fact I don't really 'touch the sides' - having said that normal g-spot moves don't seem to work like they have with my previous girls. I know this is very long but I am (stupidly?) taking this very seriously partly for my own 'porno-ego-dirtyness' (wanting to totally dominate her without it seeming like I am compensating) reasons and partly because I am worried she is settling for me because he wasn't boyfriend material and I am.

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    You are way to insecure and the fact that you are doing "detective work" about another mans penis is kind of foolish. Your size is good but your attitude needs an adjustment or all you will do is end up causing her pain and losing her.
    The good news is that PE works but you probably wont gain girth quickly. Start with the JP 90 day routine and follow the guide lines. You should also read thru this https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...cess-here.html as it has the routine I mentioned plus a few other great starter routines. It also has accronyms and other usefull tips. Best of luck.
    Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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    • #3
      Somehow get that girl to do some kegals.

      I have gained .25in in girth but its been almost 2 years. Now my dedication, consistency, and intensity have never really been all that great until recently so hopefully I will be gaining again shortly.
      pterodactyl

      Currently on the Phallosan Forte

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      • #4
        The 'enter' key is one hell of a button to press. tl;dr
        Starting (3 Mar 2019) BPEL: 5.44, EG: 4.00
        Current (3 Mar 2019) BPEL: 5.44, EG: 4.00

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        • #5
          The girl is saying that she doesn't give a shit about her last dude, so why should you? She says you give her way more orgasms, whats the problem? Your obviously getting the job done in bed, and your size is already above normal so stop stressing.

          Be happy that she is happy with you. But if you wanna work on girth, look into clamping, people seem to get the best results that way. For length I would suggest an extender device or weights. My starting length was pretty much the same as yours and now I'm closing in on 8", they work.

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          • #6
            I suppose its whether I am able to give her that intense vagina "pressure orgasm" that so many girls say is what they REALLY crave - clitoral is the everyday?
            I only need another frickin half inch but it seems thats either not anatomically possible or would take years ;( ha It's annoying as I have always been able to give all the types of orgasms to past girlfriends who I haven't really cared that much about and now I can't with this girl. Also (and maybe this is more of a question for girls) why if she has not been with mr fat willy for so long and not using large toys has she not shrunk down a bit? It still seems that with my penis inserted in most normal positions I can still get two of my fingers in as well comfortably (god how big was he?? must have been 6.6+ girth!.. arghhh!).

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            • #7
              Will it ever be reversible from her end of things?

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              • #8
                I just came by to say Enter.
                Into 19th Month
                BPEL: 4.6"|||5"|||||||||6"|||||||||7"||||||||8"
                EG: 4.9" to 5.43"

                My Blog with Pictures

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                • #9
                  Kegals holmes. That is your answer. Some girls are just bigger down there like some guys are bigger. I'm curios if she is a very relaxed person in general.
                  pterodactyl

                  Currently on the Phallosan Forte

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                  • #10
                    I had 4.4" girth for the first 40 years of my marriage and never had a problem bringing my wife to orgasm. And, yes, it was never a tight fit. I have to admit that once we entered our 60s, it became more difficult for her to orgasm with just penetrative sex, even now with a 5.1 inch girth. I now use oral to generate the first orgasm and then insert my erection to generate two or three more orgasms. If your girl has a problem with your current erection now, find someone else who will appreciate it. Trust me. Another 1/2 inch is not going to make a difference.
                    Valued Member of 12+ years at the PEGym
                    12/'09 (start) NBP EL - 4.5, EG - 4.4
                    12/11 NBPEL - 5.1, MSEG - 5
                    01/13 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.1
                    01/14 NBPEL - 5.35, MSEG - 5.25
                    01/16 NBPEL - 5.4, MSEG - 5.5
                    Fat Pad = 1+/-

                    Real cars have two seats. Everything else is a bus.

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                    • #11
                      [QUOTE=annon1;579045]long before I confronted her with my detective work/QUOTE]


                      I'm intrigued. What was this detective work you did to discover that your girlfriends ex boyfriend had a 6 + inch girth?

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                      • #12
                        Kegels.

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                        • #13
                          Yup Kegels. And stop kicking yourself in the ass worrying about some other guy's dick.

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                          • #14
                            paragraphs man, paragraphs... your dick is big enough if she seriously cant get an orgasm off that dick kick that sloppy pussy to the side and get a girl that didnt get worn out in high school
                            No porn period as of 3/13/15 had a minor relapse after 6 months+
                            Practicing relaxation and hoping to improve erection quality!

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                            • #15
                              Men with 7 inch dicks worried about pleasing women... I don't even...

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